Anybody else don't want kids?

[4fossa]

For everyone saying the argument "I don't want to be alone when old"


Well, do yall know that there's A LOT of old people alone, with their sons dgaf.



In other words: Children are NOT a guarantee of support when old. WOAT argument to have children.

 

[Weaver31]

I don't. I'm too mentally fukked up and prefer being alone. I'd go out for milk one day and end up in Brazil the next

Plus this world fukking sucks to live in, especially if you're black. More reason not to.

I'm 22.

At least ur honest and choosing not to have kids because u not mentally prepared.

To the people who tell or suggest others to reproduce...they don't tell u that one should be financially, mentally, emotionally and physically ready to have children. However, folks still have kids knowing good and well they not ready or already have more than they can handle.

 

[Weaver31]

For everyone saying the argument "I don't want to be alone when old"


Well, do yall know that there's A LOT of old people alone, with their sons dgaf.



In other words: Children are NOT a guarantee of support when old. WOAT argument to have children.

True but I'm not the type of person who wants to be a burden. I just want to see my family during holidays. I would love to have kids to show love to and support.

 

[mortuus est]

I'll say this, i grew up wanting to have kids, like 5 , my mum had me young so she worked alot and i was left on my own most of the time, now when you get to a certain age you dont mind being on your own, id watch late night tv when my mother was at work, id be in my room playing story time with my power ranger toys, PS1 etc etc i was kool on my own and enjoyed my company.

fast forward a couple years to when i was like 17, when i was at college one of my brehs got his girl preggo and i saw what that did to him, he didnt want a child but when she told him what happend she was already 3months into the pregnancy she no abortion could happen, my breh looked dead, he couldnt take being young, broke and a father.

now fast forward to the present, with all the bullshyt thats happening with the world, i said to myself "damn breh you deff aint having kids anymore"

i just cant see myself watching out for another human anymore, saving money, teaching them etc id rather just keep all that shyt to myself, yes.

i am my own heir

 

[SwagmundFreud]

I have a dog. That's enough for me right now.

I haven't met the right person in my life, how the fukk am I going to want kids and shyt.

 

[4fossa]

Any of you guys ever thought about having an vasectomy?

Here were I live it's illegal to have one unless you are 30 and have a kid.

Not that I really consider doing it. But damn it would be better than having children "by accident".

 

[Verbal Kint]

Kids are a funny thing. For the most part, even people that didn't want them think they're the best thing in the world if they have them. I always wanted kids but truth is it's a lot of work and sacrifice if you do it right. What I will say is that having kids forces you to mature in particular ways that I don't know if I would've otherwise. It also means you don't have the same freedom of course. I would've loved to change careers for the last 5 years but I can't take that pay cut

 

[Deflatedhoopdreams]

The older I get, the less I want to have kids.

This is exactly what I was going to post.

I'll be 30 this year.

 

[Weaver31]

Kids are a funny thing. For the most part, even people that didn't want them think they're the best thing in the world if they have them. I always wanted kids but truth is it's a lot of work and sacrifice if you do it right. What I will say is that having kids forces you to mature in particular ways that I don't know if I would've otherwise. It also means you don't have the same freedom of course. I would've loved to change careers for the last 5 years but I can't take that pay cut

True....I have a cousin who didn't want kids but she has 2 and I heard she questioned me as to why I haven't had any my age. She always flaunt her kids around and brag about them...which is normal and what we supposed to do. But I heard that her having a kid at a young age helped mature her and get her out her h0e phase. I know lots of people who matured because of kids....they stopped drinking heavily, overspending on clothes, having fun, stopped or reduced drug usage, changed their mentality, stopped worrying about trivial shyt, etc. But again people need to make sure they are ready for parenthood.

 

[shutterguy]

U don't receive pressure for choosing not to have kids? Does ur parents want grandkids? Most only children want multiple children.

No pressure and no.....

 

[Verbal Kint]

True....I have a cousin who didn't want kids but she has 2 and I heard she questioned me as to why I haven't had any my age. She always flaunt her kids around and brag about them...which is normal and what we supposed to do. But I heard that her having a kid at a young age helped mature her and get her out her h0e phase. I know lots of people who matured because of kids....they stopped drinking heavily, overspending on clothes, having fun, stopped or reduced drug usage, changed their mentality, stopped worrying about trivial shyt, etc. But again people need to make sure they are ready for parenthood.

Yep. And for you young brehs, if you do it right having kids young can change your entire world. Was just talking to the wife about this 2 days ago. Long story short our first was born when she was 20, me 21. Basically we were trying to handle things properly. We weren't together at the time but we were working, paying bills, etc. We both had our own spots and our people weren't raising our kids for us. So basically we weren't out kicking it and we grew up fast. Eventually that led to us hanging more with people who were on the same thing, especially once we got married. Our people from HS were steady going out to clubs and bars and we were kicking it with folks who were cool with coming to the crib and chilling. So we ended up with more in common with folks 5-10 years older than us and kids the same age. Her closest friends at this point are all like 5-10 years older than her and while my boys from back home are still my boys, most of the people we kick it with are in their mid to late 30's at this point

 

[prince_peoples]

don't want kids

 

[Nostalgic]

Just a quick gem for the brothaz that don't want kinds........

Make sure you NEVER date a woman with kids in the state of California
(By law) even if the child isn't yours that woman can still put you on child support for that kid.

(Not speaking from experience)

 

[Dominicansbelit]

the only reason I would want one is to make that nikka like me but tens times better ... but I might have a daughter

 

[4fossa]

the only reason I would want one is to make that nikka like me but tens times better ... but I might have a daughter

Have daughter brehs...