Anybody Else Frustrated With Their Lives?

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I feel what youre saying 100%. What you can do is try to gun for a victory. Any victory. Whether it be going to the gym, staying well groomed, getting up at 5/6am every morning. Those victories give you confidence. Use it as a foundation and build upon it.

Youre fighting failure so remove the leverage failure has on you. Like you chopping down a tree. One by one. Get a victory, then impose the influence of that victory.

Real life will put you through that fire, when you get of age, then thrown in the wild and you realize theres no justice, nothing is fair, and youre forced to fight from a negative position. But bottom line, that is what it is. Youre here, and you will be here until the day you die. So you have two choices, commit that, or you could lace up the gloves up and come out swinging.

One thing keeps me good; I might not end up being the most influential. I might not be filthy rich nor famous. But what I do have, I have by the sweat of my own brow. What I made is me, and if i have it today that means there is in existence no power that couldve taken that moment nor that feeling from me. It is truly, mine.

A part of a larger philosophy of mine. Figured i'd share:ehh:
 
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I'm not even gonna lie, that's something that's keeping me stressed.

I got a girl who is out of my league right now, and it's stressful trying to keep her and also trying to pull myself up at the same time. She's out of my league in the sense that she is probably a seven facially, but her ass is a ten plus, and she also makes more money than me but we're both closer to minimum wage than baller status lol. I wouldn't say she's out of my league from an intelligence basis or social/educational background; on that side I'm probably out of hers, but what good is having the knowledge and background if you're not making any use of it? But even with all the confidence in the world, you can't help but know and have it in the back of your mind that your girl has better options than you if she wants it plus we all know nikkas is throwing offers at her constantly whenever she's out.

Real talk, I think that's straining me more than anything. It sounds like a stupid reason to leave someone but I almost feel like I need to break up with my girlfriend, then try to get myself back right financially and mentally, and THEN either try to get back with her or find someone else.
No fukking girl is out of your league

Fukk kinda thinking is that
 

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This is a borderline depression thread. :sadcam:

I know I can't be the only person out there who is utterly frustrated and at their limit with the lack of progress made it in their life. I'm 28, and I really feel like I'm no better off in life than I was when I was 18. In fact, I'm worse off, because I'm ten years closer to my demise and I'm in a lot more debt now.

I used to run my own businesses, but that failed, and ever since I've been stuck in dead end jobs for the last two years and really am making no progress. Every time I try to do some shyt to get out of the situation (like sign up for classes or start another business or save some paper) some little shyt (or big shyt) comes through and destroys the opportunity. SMH.

I don't even know if I need/want any advice, or any support, or anything... I just had to vent brehs. :to:


all jokes aside, a tranny site will set you free.
 
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Nah.

Even though my job don't pay me as much as I want to...I couldn't be happier.

I get love in my neighborhood...I got friends everywhere here in NYC...women seem to be gravitating towards me (maybe cause I've been in a good mood lately) ...college grad...successful blog run by me...working on this clothing line based on the blog...people always say I'm smiling (and I got good reason to be...mom and dad been in my life since the beginning...my family's been nothing but supportive)...life is awesome.

And before people hit me with the "some of your posts seem like you are unhappy/depressed" angle...stop right there.

I notice alot of you are afraid to express how you really feel from time to time cause you're afraid others are going to perceive it as "weakness" or "emotional" or just don't know how to perceive the posts of others cause they don't think like you or hold the same thoughts/opinions. And therefore you come off as 2d characters (in my eyes) afraid to truly express yourselves.

I'm older. I'm about to be 30. I've been through alot. I've been through the trials and tribulations of life. That gives you personality, depth, and character.

It seems the fact that some of you take my affinity towards my sometimes dark sense of humor as something more...nah.

With that said...life has it's ups and downs...it's how you deal with them that makes it a winning or losing scenario.

My life...since the beginning...since the days when me and my boys were chilling in Pittsburgh smoking mad herb...to now in NYC...has been all about goals and never giving up on them. As long as I still got those...I'll always be happy and content. But never content cause I'm always striving for more.
 
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No fukking girl is out of your league

Fukk kinda thinking is that

Thats the way to think but be real.You can be out of somebodys league whether it comes to looks, status, intellectually, etc.

The variable is what you consider important.

Ive thrown plenty of bytches to the bushes cause they were just dumb... Or she was a strong 8 in daily life but their body undressed fell to a
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I've actually been moving BACKWARDS in terms of pay for my (mostly part-time) jobs over the last two years (from $10 to $9 to a pathetic $8 now). And in that time I had to move back in with my parents, and still somehow haven't managed to amass any savings. I've been paying sporadically on my student loan debts but because of interest and the fact that one is defaulted I'm pretty sure I owe more money than I did when I started paying on them. Looking back over the last couple of years I had an opportunity to do certain things but I haven't done them, but it's easy to look back on it that way and harder when you're living it on a day-to-day basis.

My girl isn't a problem individually necessarily, but she is an added expense because we live twenty minutes from one another and she doesn't own a car. And when you add in just the normal headaches/arguments/nagging you get from any relationship (I can't say that she's high maintenance or particularly troublesome or anything) it's just extra stress that I could do without.

And she hasn't really confronted me about it, she's actually been incredibly supportive from an emotional standpoint, but I can tell that she increasingly worries/believes that the reason I'm not moving forward is a lack of ambition. It's not really a lack of ambition as much as it is just an overwhelming feeling of discouragement.

On the other side, I do love her and I would hate to lose her just because I can't get MY shyt together. And I know I'd feel terrible breaking up with somebody when they haven't actually even done anything to spur it on.
You sound very intelligent. Change your focus and save little bits of money each week. Tell the young lady you need a break,

because eventually she will feel like you need her and her eyes might be open to another opportunity (another man) . If that happened you will be upset, and it won't even be her fault. Imagine if a good looking guy comes along (she's not blind) and he's not even bragging but she knows he's in IT and she knows how her life would be with him....
Imagine that her life as his side chick > her life with 'emotionally supporting' you. Unless this is your sole mate and you're deeply in love, then let it go.

work two jobs if you have to but save money. Also cut out pictures and write down all your goals and review them daily.
 
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