I find these interesting & all but like usual, not entirely accurate... Any time I look into these types of studies you have to combine 2 of them to get an accurate view of my personality... There aren't 4 type of people...
This describes me a lot but as usual there are major differences...
1: I'm slow to become attached & regardless how attached I become I'm able to disconnect, but I'm not at all uncomfortable with physical contact, intimacy or romantic gestures...
2: I don't fear rejection or move away, I just have a hard time placing value enough to call it attached..
3: I'm insensitive usually & find people trying to make me share emotions annoying. I'm all for having a deep discussion in a relationship but I start to ignore arguments when it becomes an obvious waste of time... Hurting others rather than being hurt isn't a coping mechanism I use.
4: I hide vulnerability, cope on my own, repress my feelings & sulk. I technically complain sometime but sometime you need to to get shyt done... I have absolutely no problem with expressing positive feelings, if I can't find the exact word I throw in similar ones to get the point across...
5: Mostly on point. My memory blurs but it is easier to recall the hard times since they built me. I don't have any problems talking about myself (minus a few private demons) & past relationships.
6: I avoid detailed discussions only when the shyt gets so tedious it becomes annoying & I don't avoid questions that prompt assurance unless it's the same question over & over again, becoming annoying. Jealousy trigger from being close to others, yeah... None of the other bullets apply...
I relate to this heavily. Dealt with social anxiety throughout my adolescence.
The thing is, people find me likeable, funny, charismatic, cool when I'm very relaxed and present. It's just the avoidance pops on and off when I'm in anxious situation. I always cope by walking out of situations whether they were dates, school, jobs to maintain my peace and freedom.
I'm attached to certain few like family and couple friends, but it's usually due to their temperament, easygoing nature. When I sense drama, that's when the relationship ends.
Emotions I find expressing through art and body language the easy route. I use humor as a defense mechanism. I enjoy making people laugh. I'm not really a serious person unless the situation calls for it.
Rejection? We don't do that in Wakanda lmao. I tend to observe whether or not, I should engage.
Opening up? No problem being vulnerable, I'm human. I have nothing to lose sharing, but I always use a victory at the end of my stories as a lesson for others to learn from. Opening up to coworkers, I always avoided because work politics.
Flirting and physical affection with women? I enjoy it because it's strictly body language.