When I think about it, I tend to not "hit up" people and end up going long periods of time of not talking to someone even though I'm perfectly fine with the person. I just never want to feel like I'm bothering someone and I think it's starting to become unfavorable to me because when I finally feel like talking to the person, that length in time of not talking to them feels awkward when reaching out and I'll end up not hitting them up at all.
I'm kind of like that with friends, family, women, co-workers etc.
I don't really hit up friends like that because I just don't really feel like it. I got dudes I'm cool wit that I haven't talked to in a long ass time(months/years). I use the excuse of them just going about their way and stuff and me not being on the same level as them(in terms of interests, hobbies.)
I have family that I don't really talk to(except a cousin of mines). Everybody else I just pretty much only greet when I run into them(and we live in teh same house but on different floors.)
Women I'll just end up not hitting up because I don't want to come off like i'm clingy or w/e. Like we'll talk today and then if I sent her a message last e.g. a reply confirming to talk later, I'll just wait for her to initiate contact again. This one chick who friends with another cousin of mines told me why I'm always away because she don't ever see me come downstairs like that into the other cousin room. I just be in my room doing me and I don't go there because what I look like being in his room?
Coworkers I only talk to are the ones who are close by and I see everyday but others that come here and now I don't really open up to.
I'm kind of like that with friends, family, women, co-workers etc.
I don't really hit up friends like that because I just don't really feel like it. I got dudes I'm cool wit that I haven't talked to in a long ass time(months/years). I use the excuse of them just going about their way and stuff and me not being on the same level as them(in terms of interests, hobbies.)
I have family that I don't really talk to(except a cousin of mines). Everybody else I just pretty much only greet when I run into them(and we live in teh same house but on different floors.)
Women I'll just end up not hitting up because I don't want to come off like i'm clingy or w/e. Like we'll talk today and then if I sent her a message last e.g. a reply confirming to talk later, I'll just wait for her to initiate contact again. This one chick who friends with another cousin of mines told me why I'm always away because she don't ever see me come downstairs like that into the other cousin room. I just be in my room doing me and I don't go there because what I look like being in his room?

Coworkers I only talk to are the ones who are close by and I see everyday but others that come here and now I don't really open up to.
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