Anybody else tend to not want to bother others?

[Fatboi1]

You sound like me. You care about how other people feel (Fe). Remember when getting everyone's needs met, include yourself.

I swear I'll be on some shyt like "Ehh, he/she probably busy/don't feel like talking/not interested" and whatnot. Hell, I didn't even want to bother with quoting you(Sorry I took up a space in your alerts )

If I really need to though I'll just call em up like fukk it. I remember a while back I needed my alternator installed in my car and I wanted my boy to come install it cuz he had the right tools and me just not wanting to bother him even though he live right around the corner and he hit me up whenever to ask me favors. I ended up hittin him up and he came through and I didn't even pay him(I usually mess with his computer for him in exchange.)

 

[Quiet Magician]

That is a really bad habit. Spontaneous catching up is important and the fact that you don't hit them up for long periods of time shows you take them for granted.

Very passive way of dealing things instead of being forth right. I mean how exactly is one supposed to keep life long friends by never hitting them up? What you wait for them to hit you up and then go from there? Is that a proper friendship or is that just a give and take?

 

[Address_Unknown]

I'm with you on the "Hitting up" people shyt since I always feel like as if I'm intruding on them or asking then to make time for me with my unannounced presence.

However I'm very active accommodating of people that hit me up or drop by and such since even if they annoy me to certain degrees despite me never showing it. Having built a reputation like that, I've been privy to alot of secrets in regards to my friends and how they view other mutual friends but I always maintain the fact that I treat/love them all the same and take no sides unless extreme actions occur.

I'm alone but I'm not lonely, if that makes sense so I never venture out to meet friends unless called but honestly sometimes I wish I had my previous geographic freedom where I could just take a month off and chill in a country where no one knows me and I can just live and be alone, harvesting cordial relationships with acquaintances I make under my alias and not be socially bound to interact with anyone I don't want to for a time. It's refreshing for me, really.