anybody ever broke up with someone and regretted it later?

[Huellz Santana]

tell me your stories

i think im in this situation and its too late.

i need perspective.

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[Steve Piffler]

yep. my wife. we had problems, but after we broke up (and almost got a divorce), i realized that what we were fighting over was petty and I was about to make a huge mistake. i ran back and got her back on the team. it was almost too late . now we are better than ever....

 

[-G$-]

i've never felt regret about the breakup itself, moreso about the way i handled the actual breakup .

 

[Marciano]

Yeah, but we was so young....my mistake was at least not keeping in contact with her.

Now every time I hear Voyage to Atlantis by The Isley Bros, I think about her

 

[NerdNash]

Nope. Luckily.

 

[Silver Surfer]

yep...twice

 

[Huellz Santana]

yep...twice

what happened bruh? how did you manage?

im over here like at my latest situation​

 

[flusterose]

Yes a few times for a short while.... until i met their replacements.

 

[Ego Noir]

that moment when you realize why you did it in the first place goin be the death of you

 

[Huellz Santana]

that moment when you realize why you did it in the first place goin be the death of you

explain?

wouldn't realizign why u did it in the first place provide clarity that it was the right thing to do?​

 

[Ego Noir]

explain?

wouldn't realizign why u did it in the first place provide clarity that it was the right thing to do?​

meaning if you do go back, and you get that clarity after the fact

 

[No_bammer_weed]

regrets are a battle of the heart vs. mind. The mind is telling you to move on, but the heart is unwilling because its emotionally invested in the other person. Thats why you have the phrase absence makes the heart grow fonder --- post separation, the heart simply wants to be re-connected with that person again, and tries to convince the mind that all of the conflicts and reasoning behind the breakup were petty or meaningless.

True, there are stupid reasons for breakups --- but generally speaking they all happen out of necessity (even if the actual reason is stupid, the fact of the matter is they just dont wanna be w/ you). Now whether people can develop into different people after the separation, and possibly reconcile later --- thats another thread.

 

[1thouwow]

Na. I regretted a bytch that broke up with me tho

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

I've regretted relationships ending, but I wasn't the one who initiated the breakup. I usually regret the breakup because it was the result of me acting like a total jackass and not acting right with a great girl that could have made me happy for a really long time. There's no point to regret, really. I mean, there's the initial stages of being upset, possibly being in a state of mourning over what could have been between the two of you, but you have to eventually channel that negative energy into teaching yourself a valuable life lesson and using it to remind yourself that history doesn't need to repeat itself.

 

[Mr210]

I've regretted relationships ending, but I wasn't the one who initiated the breakup. I usually regret the breakup because it was the result of me acting like a total jackass and not acting right with a great girl that could have made me happy for a really long time. There's no point to regret, really. I mean, there's the initial stages of being upset, possibly being in a state of mourning over what could have been between the two of you, but you have to eventually channel that negative energy into teaching yourself a valuable life lesson and using it to remind yourself that history doesn't need to repeat itself.

im the same exact way, i have lost 2 great gfs in the past not because I cheated on them but because I was an ass in other ways and they stuck with me for longer than I ever deserved but everyone reaches their breaking point