Anybody ever have a homie that stayed with a broad that cheated

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I never knew men could be this way. I always thought this was something that mainly women do (forgive a cheater) until i saw my boy do it.

I cant fathom the mental images of a dude banging my girl as she screams in ecstacy :wow:

How do you even look at her the same? How do you look her in the eyes and let her tell you she loves you? How do you tell her you love her? How do you continue to open doors, take her out and treat her like a queen?

My ex forgave me the first two times i cheated and threw me in the bushes the third time and even though i begged her to take me back, i completely understand why she didnt. I wasnt shyt.

I needed to go through that to learn tho.
 
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My dude and I used to kick it with a married couple (Black dude and Brazilian girl) every now and then. Dude went away to rehab (he had no substance issues, she sent him there anyway) for a month, she dyed her hair, fixed her teeth and started smashing some Brazilian dude during that time. She also called his family to try to extend the rehab.

Hold the fukk up :wtf: So she sent dude to rehab and even tried to extend his stay while she fixed herself up for some new dikk? And he had no problems to begin with? And then dude tried to talk shyt to her for sending him to rehab in the first place :mindblown::dead:
 
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I never knew men could be this way. I always thought this was something that mainly women do (forgive a cheater) until i saw my boy do it.

I cant fathom the mental images of a dude banging my girl as she screams in ecstacy :wow:

How do you even look at her the same? How do you look her in the eyes and let her tell you she loves you? How do you tell her you love her? How do you continue to open doors, take her out and treat her like a queen?

My ex forgave me the first two times i cheated and threw me in the bushes the third time and even though i begged her to take me back, i completely understand why she didnt. I wasnt shyt.

I needed to go through that to learn tho.


Unless your girl was a virgin, quite a few nikkas probably banged your girl as she screamed in ectstacy.
 

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I never knew men could be this way. I always thought this was something that mainly women do (forgive a cheater) until i saw my boy do it.

I cant fathom the mental images of a dude banging my girl as she screams in ecstacy :wow:

How do you even look at her the same? How do you look her in the eyes and let her tell you she loves you? How do you tell her you love her? How do you continue to open doors, take her out and treat her like a queen?

My ex forgave me the first two times i cheated and threw me in the bushes the third time and even though i begged her to take me back, i completely understand why she didnt. I wasnt shyt.

I needed to go through that to learn tho.

see she forgave you and you still did it

no disrespect to you breh but its the same with most cheaters thats why only one chance.

Hell I know for me even dating girls after I was played I was on my inspector gadget type ish and that was with women on a clean slate

I remember I was messing with this girl after and I was at her house it was like 1am and her phone rang and I quickly glance over and i see the name jamal and I'm like answer it and she's like no it's nobody important, i'm like :dahell: calling you at 1am, anyways I never talked to her ever again after that night

I could just imagine if i stayed with my ex, would prob be in a mental asylum from all that checking up etc.
 
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co dependency is a disease

I give no leeway, I always say I could just get married and go on a honeymoon on a cruise and find out my wife got drunk and cheated, i'll change my room to a single room and file divorce papers as soon as I touch land


Truer words have never been spoken...


I mean TRULY. im not even HOH like that. I respect all women. But they goddamn FOR SURE better respect me in turn. You are to NEVER love another person more than you love and respect yourself (your seeds excluded) these women running around cheating, disrespecting, and otherwise short changing their men do not DESERVE good men. They do not deserve your tears, your dedication, and damn sure not your souls.


I got a homeboy, my best friend on this earth, my brother until death. I'd take a bullet for this dude, but he's a simp not like no other. He's STILL dealing with the woman who convinced him to co-lease an apartment (her credit was shyt) Get her a phone on HIS cell account (her credit was shyt) paid her car insurance two months in advance, all for her to LEAVE HIM (apartment, cell phone and all) to run back to her weed head ex who was BEATING her:scust:



And we're talking about a 30 year old woman. Not a 22-26 year old. A THIRTY YEAR OLD GROWN ASS WOMAN. He's STILL dealing with her on some "my heart is involved" bullshyt:childplease:


I would NEVER take such disrespect. Some sorry posters on here actually told me with a straight face that I was wrong for divorcing my wife because she disrespected my career and manhood talking about she was putting me in my "place":aicmon: GROWN ASS MEN truly believe that it is ok for another human being to disrespect another simply because she's a spouse.:camby: fukk outta here, a relationship should be built upon mutual respect. A woman who cheats does NOT respect you. A woman who doesn't believe in you does NOT respect you. Start throwing these women to the curve, man up, and find a woman who actually cares for you, appreciates you, and RESPECTS you
 

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see she forgave you and you still did it

no disrespect to you breh but its the same with most cheaters thats why only one chance.

Hell I know for me even dating girls after I was played I was on my inspector gadget type ish and that was with women on a clean slate

I could just imagine if i stayed with my ex, would prob be in a mental asylum from all that checking up etc.

Breh i was dead wrong. I deserve that.

But yeah, as a cheater myself, i know that i felt that she wasnt going anywhere which enabled me to do it. The little voice told me i was gonna be ok if she finds out.
 

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Truer words have never been spoken...


I mean TRULY. im not even HOH like that. I respect all women. But they goddamn FOR SURE better respect me in turn. You are to NEVER love another person more than you love and respect yourself (your seeds excluded) these women running around cheating, disrespecting, and otherwise short changing their men do not DESERVE good men. They do not deserve your tears, your dedication, and damn sure not your souls.


I got a homeboy, my best friend on this earth, my brother until death. I'd take a bullet for this dude, but he's a simp not like no other. He's STILL dealing with the woman who convinced him to co-lease an apartment (her credit was shyt) Get her a phone on HIS cell account (her credit was shyt) paid her car insurance two months in advance, all for her to LEAVE HIM (apartment, cell phone and all) to run back to her weed head ex who was BEATING her:scust:



And we're talking about a 30 year old woman. Not a 22-26 year old. A THIRTY YEAR OLD GROWN ASS WOMAN. He's STILL dealing with her on some "my heart is involved" bullshyt:childplease:
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I would NEVER take such disrespect. Some sorry posters on here actually told me with a straight face that I was wrong for divorcing my wife because she disrespected my career and manhood talking about she was putting me in my "place":aicmon: GROWN ASS MEN truly believe that it is ok for another human being to disrespect another simply because she's a spouse.:camby: fukk outta here, a relationship should be built upon mutual respect. A woman who cheats does NOT respect you. A woman who doesn't believe in you does NOT respect you. Start throwing these women to the curve, man up, and find a woman who actually cares for you, appreciates you, and RESPECTS you

She didnt disrespect you. We already went over that. You having aspirations to work at best buy at your age is concerning to anyone you want to build a life with.

As far as your boy, thats real disrespect. Not some statement out of concern like your wife made.

Your boy need to leave her alone
 

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Truer words have never been spoken...


I mean TRULY. im not even HOH like that. I respect all women. But they goddamn FOR SURE better respect me in turn. You are to NEVER love another person more than you love and respect yourself (your seeds excluded) these women running around cheating, disrespecting, and otherwise short changing their men do not DESERVE good men. They do not deserve your tears, your dedication, and damn sure not your souls.


I got a homeboy, my best friend on this earth, my brother until death. I'd take a bullet for this dude, but he's a simp not like no other. He's STILL dealing with the woman who convinced him to co-lease an apartment (her credit was shyt) Get her a phone on HIS cell account (her credit was shyt) paid her car insurance two months in advance, all for her to LEAVE HIM (apartment, cell phone and all) to run back to her weed head ex who was BEATING her:scust:



And we're talking about a 30 year old woman. Not a 22-26 year old. A THIRTY YEAR OLD GROWN ASS WOMAN. He's STILL dealing with her on some "my heart is involved" bullshyt:childplease:


I would NEVER take such disrespect. Some sorry posters on here actually told me with a straight face that I was wrong for divorcing my wife because she disrespected my career and manhood talking about she was putting me in my "place":aicmon: GROWN ASS MEN truly believe that it is ok for another human being to disrespect another simply because she's a spouse.:camby: fukk outta here, a relationship should be built upon mutual respect. A woman who cheats does NOT respect you. A woman who doesn't believe in you does NOT respect you. Start throwing these women to the curve, man up, and find a woman who actually cares for you, appreciates you, and RESPECTS you


Hallejuah :blessed:


I always say if a woman doesn't view you as valuable you are wasting your time because she will find someone or cheat on you with someone she views as valuable.

People don't want to lose something valuable, or even put themselves in a compromising position to lose something as valuable. I've never cheated in any relationship I've been in, even when I was tempted and had the chance with hotter women with less emotional baggage I was :kony:, because I viewed the relationship the bond we had and my girl(s) at the time as valuable.

And breh i agree it doesn't matter how much you make

Ray allen could sign a contract and miss 100 straight 3 pointers but even at that low point he'll still be defended because the defender will still respect he could nail that shot.

I remember when my brother in law lost his job, ish was so bad he had to use cash advance on his credit card, my sister stood by him and motivated him when he was down and out, not onsome ye en sh*t go fill out applications you worthless nikka why did i marry you

I don't take disrespect. A great relationship is great, but I would rather be single than than to be in a relationship without respect or trust.
 

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Not a homie but we had a lot of mutual friends and his girl cheated on him with like 30 dudes, me being one of them. One of his closest friends fukked her too :pachaha:

She confessed on Facebook and that shyt was fukking legendary. Like she tagged all the dudes she fukked and it had like 300 comments. They got married a couple years later and I even got invited to the wedding.
:dead:
comment 1. i hit:heh:
comment 2. i hit 2:youngsabo:
 

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She didnt disrespect you. We already went over that. You having aspirations to work at best buy at your age is concerning to anyone you want to build a life with.

As far as your boy, thats real disrespect. Not some statement out of concern like your wife made.

Your boy need to leave her alone

nah
nothing is guaranteed in life, my brother in law went from making 70k to being unemployed for almost a year and a half, to now making 125k,a woman that respects and loves you will be there through it all the muck and the blessings, the good and the bad
 

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nothing is guaranteed in life, my brother in law went from making 70k to being unemployed for almost a year and a half, to now making 125k,a woman that respects and loves you will be there through it all the muck and the blessings, the good and the bad

She was there was she not? She didnt leave him, she just asked him a question out of concern. This the same woman that stuck around while he went to the army or whatever he was enlisted in.

So no she didnt disrespect him. Id be concerned if my girl told me some shyt like that too. And she had the righ to ask him that question.

Now if she actually disrespected him, then yeah leave her.
 
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