Anybody ever have a homie that stayed with a broad that cheated

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She didnt disrespect you. We already went over that.

As far as your boy, thats real disrespect. Not some statement out of concern like your wife made.

Your boy need to leave her alone

"We" didn't go over shyt. And manning up was me ending the relationship and not allowing myself to wallow in a relationship built upon disrespect.

I'll tell you what though. She's fair game. YOU go scoop her up and take care of her for the next two years and when she looks you in the face and tells you that you are going to be a failure then you can handle it however you like.... Much luck to you....

And something is truly wrong with you if you feel like her "sticking" with me while I was in the army was some sort of sacrifice for her. Her medical was taken care of, housing was taken care of, purchasing items and other goods tax free from the PX, I came home from Afghanistan with almost 10 grand in savings, her LSAT classes were paid for WITH a military discount...fukk outta here with that "sticking by me" bullshyt. She benefited from every decision I made. She will NOT however, benefit from ANY Decision I ever make again
 
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She was there was she not? She didnt leave him, she just asked him a question out of concern. This the same woman that stuck around while he went to the army or whatever he was enlisted in.

So no she didnt disrespect him. Id be concerned if my girl told me some shyt like that too. And she had the righ to ask him that question.

Now if she actually disrespected him, then yeah leave her.

disrespect to one person may not be disrespect to another :ehh:

Example if i'm dating a girl and she's friends with a ex and they talk and text thats disrespectful to me and i'll just end the relationship


to some other dudes its I'm not jealous/insecure i don't care talk to who you want to talk to

As long as I'm covering my portion of the bills with a legal employment and my wife brings it up that my career choice isn't "sexy" enough or something well its bushes as well.

Every man is different and has their own breaking point or kicking to the curb point.

Some men take back cheating wives/girlfriends I wouldn't

I wouldn't even date a girl who I know cheated on a past partner.

Some men just need a pretty face and a good body adn their happy

that ish doesn't cut it for me.

Some men enjoy seeing their wives getting smashed by someone else

Not me
 

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"We" didn't go over shyt. And manning up was me ending the relationship and not allowing myself to wallow in a relationship buit upon disrespect.

I'll tell you what though. She's fair game. YOU go scoop her up and take care of her for the next two years and when she looks you in the face and tells you that you are going to be a failure then you can handle it however you like.... Much luck to you....

She didnt tell you that u were going to be a failure. she asked you a valid question. For whatever reason you took it as her thinking your a failure which says more about you then her. You got some real unresolved insecuritues going on. Maybe you feel like a failure and her asking that question brought it out of you.

As far as your wife, im good on that. I got a girl and we can freely talk about our future ambitions without feelings getting hurt on either side.
 

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disrespect to one person may not be disrespect to another :ehh:

Example if i'm dating a girl and she's friends with a ex and they talk and text thats disrespectful to me and i'll just end the relationship


to some other dudes its I'm not jealous/insecure i don't care talk to who you want to talk to

As long as I'm covering my portion of the bills with a legal employment and my wife brings it up that my career choice isn't "sexy" enough or something well its bushes as well.

Every man is different and has their own breaking point or kicking to the curb point.

Some men take back cheating wives/girlfriends I wouldn't

I wouldn't even date a girl who I know cheated on a past partner.

Some men just need a pretty face and a good body adn their happy

that ish doesn't cut it for me.

Some men enjoy seeing their wives getting smashed by someone else

Not me

Just because people have different levels of disrespect doesnt make his reasonings valid.

My girl could say i disrespected her by looking at the waitress while i was making my order, does that mean i disrespected her? by looking at the waitress? Im suppose to keep my head down while i order? The point im making is that just because he felt it was disrespect doesnt mean it was. Perception isnt always reality.

Anyway i not trying to get into this again. Just wasnt gonna let dude sneak that lil comment in as if he didnt get checked by hundreds of people for his behavior.
 
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Just because people have different levels of disrespect doesnt make his reasonings valid.

Yeah a girl could say i disrespected her by looking at the waitress while i was making my order, does that mean its a valid reason for her to break up with me? For looking at her? Im suppose to keep my hesd down while i order? Having aspirations to work at best buy making $12.50 an hour is concerning. Period.

Anyway i not trying to get into this again. Just wasnt gonna let dude sneak that lil comment in as if he didnt get checked by hundreds of people for his behavior.


Checked? Who checked me? A bunch of simps and fools who feel like my behavior was "wrong":childplease: caping for a woman they've never met:heh: and attempting to tell me what MY place is:camby:
 

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Checked? Who checked me? A bunch of simps and fools who feel like my behavior was "wrong":childplease: caping for a woman they've never met:heh: and attempting to tell me what MY place is:camby:

You posted your story on here. So you wanted these people who "never met your girl" to chime in. And maybe you thought youd get patted on your back for what you did, but for the most part you didnt and now they fools and simps? :heh:

Anyway enjoy best buy breh. I chuckle everytime i shop there now

:salute: for the comedy
 
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One of my homies cousins took his chick back after some of the most etherous cheating imaginable.

Dude was married with 2 kids. His wife used to openly son this nikka in front of other people. Once I saw that with my own eyes, I knew ol boy was done :snoop:

His wife went out of town, lied to him telling him that she was going to visit family in AZ. Come to find out, this bytch books a flight to Vegas with her college homegirls and has wild one night stands with 2 different nikkaz :damn:


It gets worse.... He doesn't find out about the cheating until a few weeks later when he starts pissing fire!!!! His wife let a dude in Vegas smash raw and brings back an std to her husband :snoop:

Dude was back home with the kids while she was gettin her back blew out by 2 different cats in Vegas :damn:

Sad to say, but he took her back and they are still together :mjcry:
 

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One of my homies cousins took his chick back after some of the most etherous cheating imaginable.

Dude was married with 2 kids. His wife used to openly son this nikka in front of other people. Once I saw that with my own eyes, I knew ol boy was done :snoop:

His wife went out of town, lied to him telling him that she was going to visit family in AZ. Come to find out, this bytch books a flight to Vegas with her college homegirls and has wild one night stands with 2 different nikkaz :damn:


It gets worse.... He doesn't find out about the cheating until a few weeks later when he starts pissing fire!!!! His wife let a dude in Vegas smash raw and brings back an std to her husband :snoop:

Dude was back home with the kids while she was gettin her back blew out by 2 different cats in Vegas :damn:

Sad to say, but he took her back and they are still together :mjcry:
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