Anybody ever hook up with a childhoodcrush as an adult?

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same here. 2 years into college and i still don't have to courage to talk to girls that show interest:snoop:
i kinda had this problem but it think it was more public anxiety and being introvert more than anything...depending on the setting and/ or female my confidence and comfort level in engaging girls on campus would turn on and off...for instance i used to mess with this one fine mahogany goddess in a English course we took together and flirt with other cute females sitting in the back of the class with me the whole hour plus every week with no problems..but one day the chick from the class walked by my dorm with a friend and spoke to me as i was walking to the library... i froze then spoke back but kept walking partially cause i had to work on a important project to pass a class but also cause I didn't know what to say.:snoop:..another time i saw her sitting in cafeteria by herself got my food and went back to my dorm without acknowledging her:why:i really think this cost me a relationship with babygirl:sadbron: i ended up sitting out a semester came back and she was grenant with another nikka kid.:mjcry:i underwent several similar experiences but also wins from those days:manny:what makes it worst though is just when i was growing into my own starting to breakout of my shell...girls were still coming at me and i was starting to form my harem I got expelled in a conspiracy sit that set me back years:mindblown:
:sadbron: sometimes the past is too good to let go.:wtf: she close to 50 now.Edit:She is 53

you know what i had to google to refresh my memory and Kim was nicer than i recall back then:ehh:
 
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i underwent several similar experiences but also wins from those days:manny:what makes it worst though is just when i was growing into my own starting to breakout of my shell...girls were still coming at me and i was starting to form my harem I got expelled in a conspiracy sit that set me back years:mindblown:








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....what happened, breh?
 

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In all honesty, all my crushes have fallen off :yeshrug:


^^ This

There was this one chick in my neighborhood growing up. Like around freshman year she was a good 5'8" Double D's, kinda light brown, long hair, smart. But she was the homie since like 2nd grade, so I never shot my shot. I was the "like a brother" dude. So years go by, we all go to college loose touch, I meet my wifey, got married, a house had a couple kids etc.

One day I'm out running around and have to stop in wall mart, walking down a aisle I hear someone calling me I look over and its my old crush, but the 10 years later version. Still thickish but she she had those "I done see too much" stripper eyes, and her hair is dyed purple. Start talking to her, turns out she'd had 6 kids but IDK how many dudes, spent some time dealing with mid/high level hood cats with money or whatever, wasn't with any of them, and thinking about moving back in with her mom in the old hood. We chopped it up and friend'd each other on Facebook.

After that she tried to catch up with me a few times but I never really followed up. One day she hit me with the, I always liked you, and all my teenage thirst came flooding back. But I knew better than to buy into it. Even tho her life was :flabbynsick: her body was still :noah: and I was doing pretty well for myself and didn't want to wind up daddy to her 7th.
If there weren't so many Chicago niccas on this board I'd post pics on some smash or pass tip. But I don't need the headache of it getting back to her.
 

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^^ This

There was this one chick in my neighborhood growing up. Like around freshman year she was a good 5'8" Double D's, kinda light brown, long hair, smart. But she was the homie since like 2nd grade, so I never shot my shot. I was the "like a brother" dude. So years go by, we all go to college loose touch, I meet my wifey, got married, a house had a couple kids etc.

One day I'm out running around and have to stop in wall mart, walking down a aisle I hear someone calling me I look over and its my old crush, but the 10 years later version. Still thickish but she she had those "I done see too much" stripper eyes, and her hair is dyed purple. Start talking to her, turns out she'd had 6 kids but IDK how many dudes, spent some time dealing with mid/high level hood cats with money or whatever, wasn't with any of them, and thinking about moving back in with her mom in the old hood. We chopped it up and friend'd each other on Facebook.

After that she tried to catch up with me a few times but I never really followed up. One day she hit me with the, I always liked you, and all my teenage thirst came flooding back. But I knew better than to buy into it. Even tho her life was :flabbynsick: her body was still :noah: and I was doing pretty well for myself and didn't want to wind up daddy to her 7th.
If there weren't so many Chicago niccas on this board I'd post pics on some smash or pass tip. But I don't need the headache of it getting back to her.
:damn: those stripper eyes!

man, i be telling people. them eyes the window to the soul. i'm trying to get better at reader :demonic: signs based on eye contact alone
 

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nope.. the ones i see now went from 5'6 115 lbs to 5'6 215 with 3 kids and do to all that smoking weed and drinking they are done
 

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Yep. 8th grade crush. She was fine as wine brehs :ohlawd: . She was a mixed breed (blaxican) and was the prettiest girl in the school. We had a little innocent "go-together" that year, then went to different high schools so that was that.:to:






































Then we reconnected 4 years ago, now we're married with 2 kids :win:
 
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