Anybody ever let "The One" go?

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I keep trying to tell nikkas that for men, the 20s aren't about relationships. They're about putting together the base for your career/professional life and sowing your wild oats. Save all the serious lovey dove stuff for your 30s. If you're an even marginally attractive male, youre gonna wild out EVENTUALLY, the only question is whether it's gonna be BEFORE or AFTER you've gotten in to a serious relationship.

And smh at being in a relationship DURING your college years. Y'all nikkas is hustling backwards :ufdup:
 

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So lemme guess. Shes your ideal woman, perfect on paper, but you still feel like something is missing?

So dump her. Anything else is settling. And you're gonna be unhappy in the long run if you settle. Might as well hold out for the woman who makes you feel like you can't live without her.

You gotta learn to be decisive about issues like this.

You're right but easier said then done. Been through a lot with my girl. We've supported each other through a lot of shyt.
 

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I keep trying to tell nikkas that for men, the 20s aren't about relationships. They're about putting together the base for your career/professional life and sowing your wild oats. Save all the serious lovey dove stuff for your 30s. If you're an even marginally attractive male, youre gonna wild out EVENTUALLY, the only question is whether it's gonna be BEFORE or AFTER you've gotten in to a serious relationship.

And smh at being in a relationship DURING your college years. Y'all nikkas is hustling backwards :ufdup:
I think this is true but everyone is different. I know people who got serious in the 20s and there 15+ years deep now.

But for me, I think that's why I've been so nonchalant about trying to plan our wedding. I even told her I was a little skeptical few months back. I feel like I didn't want to get married right now because infidelity in a marriage is huge and I don't want that to happen. I don't regret our time together at all what you're saying is true for me I'm thinking.
 
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Yes I met her too early in my life. She was a dyme in the face had big t*ts and a tight lil ass. She was 1 yr older than me and Dominican. My main issue was she was short as hell. Chick was perfect mentally though and a freak in bed she ate my ass when MA$E was still popping she was ahead of the game.

She is now making 6figures and married with 2 kids to some clown ass nikka :mjcry::mjcry:
 

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Nah bro if she not fukking other nikkas you should wife her. A lot of these thots are ruthless out here ,tell you they love you one night and the next day brushing her teeth with some nikka meat :mjcry:
 

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Odds are you may never find a quality woman with those attributes like that again especially in this generation

However you could also meet a girl you love more.


Slippery slope though breh

But I always think if you have to contemplate whether to be with someone then you aren't meant to be together especially when all you can mention is that we've been together through so much stuff and your already a cheater


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Werent you in a situation like this?
 

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Nah bro if she not fukking other nikkas you should wife her. A lot of these thots are ruthless out here ,tell you they love you one night and the next day brushing her teeth with some nikka meat :mjcry:
I hear stories from my friends and I always:whew: I don't deal with that.

But here I am saying I low key want to learn the hard way:shaq2:. There's still plenty of quality females out there. I've seen them.
 

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I have..:mjcry: I have could rewind the hands of time
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Odds are you may never find a quality woman with those attributes like that again especially in this generation

However you could also meet a girl you love more.


Slippery slope though breh

But I always think if you have to contemplate whether to be with someone then you aren't meant to be together especially when all you can mention is that we've been together through so much stuff and your already a cheater


@PrnzHakeem
Werent you in a situation like this?
She even told me she feels like I don't act like she's the perfect girl for me anymore.

I can honestly say she's also made me better. I can definitely say I am a better person having been with her these years. Its more than just the stuff we've been through.

But on the other hand, I don't want to sitting around contemplating if she's the one for me like you said.

I swear I never even thought of being with anyone else until I moved away. :mindblown:
 
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