Anybody imagine themselves never getting married?

CoochieMane

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Not even on some, HOH, GMB weirdo shyt but I've never imagined a future where I'm married and I probably won't ever do it. I think my dad cheating on my mom when I was a kid and seeing the results of it messed me up where relationships are concerned. The funny thing is that I'm messed up and they're still happily married with no problems since then.:mjlol:







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Sorry... Double post!
 
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I see myself getting married down the line. Mainly because I want to settle down and be a family man. However, you won't find a woman exactly like you. You should find women that's similar to yourself. I know I don't want to be that guy (that doesn't get married).
 

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Finding chicks to marry ain't a problem for me, There are many girls I can whittle down and start a life with, I'm sure. However in actuality I'm a nervous guy so I wouldn't want to have to go through the whole overture that is a traditional wedding. :scusthov:

Bridesmaids and Groomsmen, booking a venue, getting a best man and reciting vows. That shyt ain't for me so I'd have to get married in front of home office at the register so she'd have to be cool with that.

And the more I think on that, the more I think, "Why the fukk don't we just stay common law married which would give us both the option to bounce without all the paperwork if shyt goes sour?

I'd quicker have kids than get married and I ain't in the position for that shyt either at this point. :heh: Have seeds and take care of 'em with or without a female in tow. That's my outlook pertaining to any long term relationship/union with a chick.
 

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I'd say be more focused on creating the building blocks for future success (college education, career, etc..) right now. You'll be hard pressed to find men committed to the ideal of marriage around your age, however, that doesn't mean you can't entertain a meaningful relationship that builds into that over time especially in college...it'll give some balance as long as you stay disciplined.
 
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