Anybody imagine themselves never getting married?

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Yeah, I don't desire that level of attachment or obligation, 'tis a prison without walls.

Ideally one day I'll be found dead one day either having OD'd in a flophouse out west, or half eaten by a wild animal
 

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45 is considered old?:dahell:

My grandpare are early 70s, just went to Sedona and Vegas last month, have a cruise planned in October and are already figuring out the logistics of taking their motorcycles to Myrtle Beach next year.
The day you can't handle 3 back to back pickup basketball games is the day you're old.
 
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And I can definitely see myself getting married and having a child.
I'm a fan of large weddings plus it gives me an opportunity to wear a Black shawl collar tuxedo for something other than a social black tie event or the orchestra.
I'd marry @Paradise if she agrees to a cathedral wedding and jollof rice as one of the main dishes at the reception.
 

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Now who else wanna fukk with Hollywood Court?
My uncle is in his late 50s and never been married, but he's a musician and is always in Asia and Europe, so he never had time for a family. He had a serious girlfriend when I was younger, the only one I can remember him having around for more than 1 thanksgiving and it seemed like they were going to get married but one thanksgiving she was gone and I was too young to ask questions. He seems happy, but that's probably not the path a lot of people can walk, he always had the latest shyt when I was younger, and his cars were always paid off. He's been to so many countries so I guess it's a trade off, also worth mentioning his sister hasn't been married or have any kids either.
 

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Now who else wanna fukk with Hollywood Court?
All you GMB should really consider getting wifey from Africa or The Americans. If white men have no issue, bringing Asian women here, more AA men need to get themselves Black women from aboard IMO

If that's your option you have to stay there with them in their own country, don't bring them over, this society can corrupt people.
 

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Damn, y'all got fukked up views on marriage.

Should probably stay away from thecoli and #GMB brehs that pos failed marriages, infidelity etc while ignoring all the wonderful, committing, loving marriages that are out there. It definitely takes work, but it's possible.
 

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If @Qohelet @Fonsworth @The II XX havent answered I would like to see their opinions.
I'm an only child amongst other things. I became comfortable with being by myself a long time ago. If no one comes into my life it'll be unfortunate but not the end of my life. Tbh social media got me fukked up, plus I have a couple attractive women in my life who I consider to be my "big sisters" (both 30) and they give me the 110% about women. They're very successful but are very sex positive living in NY. Based on what they've said me being a poindexter with a future makes me food :skip:. Some poster made a thread last week talking about taking risks..I get that but I'd amend it to state that a nikka needs to take measured risks in life. Everything is a gamble but the playing field is not amicable for marriage. @Poitier said how everyone in the West prioritizes self. Women want money and careers and men want to do nothing yet be considered the patriarch that everyone follows, (and the they're jealous of the attention women get).

Yes I can imagine never getting married because it's more of a reality than of actual marriage :heh:.
 
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