Anybody NOT feel like they're missing out not partying?

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I feel op and you guys but coli has that run of where we make threads like this and it always seems like we end up bashing people who go out and do random fun shyt or drink on the weekends.

Ain't nothing wrong with chillen on the weekend and gaming and ain't nothing wrong with having friends over getting mad drunk or going out to a party.

The only problems I see with going out is getting yourself into trouble or altercation with someone. I don't like the your spending money argument .... Actually I'm 50/50 on it you shouldn't spend all your money all the time going out or drinking but then who cares your young enjoy your life can't keep money with you at your death.

But yeah... Nothing wrong with either
 

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All that clubbing shyt is a waste of money. And yes I'm funny looking and reserved. shyt still a waste of money :birdman:
I have partied and clubbed for a couple of years, its a waste of money brehs. It was fun but you dont gain anything of value from it, you are more at risk for losses.Spend racks,on your outfit on bottle service, VIP booths to look cool for a couple of hours. Pick up a club hopping chick with STDs. Buy a girl drinks all night then she leaves with another dude.Risk getting in a fight or shootout after the club.Risk your license for drinking n driving:francis:

OP am assuming you a female, its a good thing you dont like clubbing, it keeps your value high. No decent guy wants a club hopping female who is well known out there, chances are she been ran through.
This is exactly how I feel breh
 

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i love house parties but the club scene not so much. it's too pretentious now and i cant mack on bytches the way i want to.
always down for a house party though but they barely occur
 
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I feel op and you guys but coli has that run of where we make threads like this and it always seems like we end up bashing people who go out and do random fun shyt or drink on the weekends.

Ain't nothing wrong with chillen on the weekend and gaming and ain't nothing wrong with having friends over getting mad drunk or going out to a party.

The only problems I see with going out is getting yourself into trouble or altercation with someone. I don't like the your spending money argument .... Actually I'm 50/50 on it you shouldn't spend all your money all the time going out or drinking but then who cares your young enjoy your life can't keep money with you at your death.

But yeah... Nothing wrong with either

Only have a problem when people act like clubbing is the only thing to do on a weekend, it's pathetic. People don't realize how lame they sound. You can watch a ufc fight, go to a sports bar, you can go to a house party, you can go to a lounge, you can netflix/chill (with a partner), you can go to a concert.
 

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I enjoy it for awhile but its not that fun to me. I would rather go chill at someones house with a close group of friends
 

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i love house parties but the club scene not so much. it's too pretentious now and i cant mack on bytches the way i want to.
always down for a house party though but they barely occur
Word its like so many variables for a house party to happen and actually go well in my opinion. It seems like from movies and stories I hear about the 80s and 90s, house parties went well. Now its so rare...

Depending on your location and where you live house parties can go mad wrong because of how people don't give a fukk and just coming to look for a fight. People decide not to come etc.

But when it goes perfect, with a lot of people, all your friends show up, everyone mad fukked up, girls getting frisky, everyone just enjoying themselves no arguments... One of the greatest feelings ever because it is so rare
 

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hell naw, i hate parties....shyt is wack to me, i like lounges better where i can shoot pool
 

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Only have a problem when people act like clubbing is the only thing to do on a weekend, it's pathetic. People don't realize how lame they sound. You can watch a ufc fight, go to a sports bar, you can go to a house party, you can go to a lounge, you can netflix/chill (with a partner), you can go to a concert.
True I do all of the shyt but I'm more of a bar/concert guy. Like someone said earlier the club now feels more like a image instead of the fun factor. It seems like people worried about showing out n being the better person than everyone...

Usually bars you go with friends to bar hop or just conversate. Concerts/music festivals all about the fun experience because of so much money you spend so you make sure you and everyone around u have fun.
 

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I'm out there for networking, advertising, or to hang with friends. A lot of dudes fukk up by making pulling a bytch your main agenda instead of having fun. The majority of them prude bytches are out for free drinks, stunting for the gram, to see if they still got it or to hook whomever rapper is there.

So my advice would be to go in there to have fun regarding the outcome and if you're crew bring energy chicks will follow
 

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I'm out there for networking, advertising, or to hang with friends. A lot of dudes fukk up by making pulling a bytch your main agenda instead of having fun. The majority of them prude bytches are out for free drinks, stunting for the gram, to see if they still got it or to hook whomever rapper is there.

So my advice would be to go in there to have fun regarding the outcome and if you're crew bring energy chicks will follow

So true and ironic. The nights I focused on trying to get laid or valued my weekend on if I got a girl or not made partying and going out horrible.. Which is probably actually the root of this thread n people dislike hanging out....

Then the times I never cared n just enjoyed myself.. I either got a girl or if I didn't I still had a great ass night.
 

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If you don't like it, then of course you ain't missin out on any sort of enjoyment.

I get in moods where I wanna party and moods where I want complete silence and solitude. Do what u wanna do :ehh:
 

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Some people like going out 5-6 nights a week. That ain't me.

I love staying at home and doing nerdy things by myself but the 1 thing I love more than that is having the option to switch it up when I want to.

As long as the option is there I feel fine, even if I don't end up going out. If I want to do something and I don't have anybody to do it with then I just feel like a loser.

At the same time I feel like a loser trying to go out every night. I have hobbies too, I like building things and I like improving my craft. I have kids I love spending time with, I like anime and working out, basically, I love me some me time:yeshrug:
 
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I got that shyt out of my system at 25 I only club when I go on vacation. I like to go dancing with my girl occasionally but im too busy stacking to club like that. Shyt burns a hole in your bank account
 

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When I was a loser in high school I had the same mindset. "Partying isn't even that fun. I'm way more deep and smart for staying at home and doing homework or playing video games " :mjlol:

Then I became socially functional and good looking as I matured and the club scene is so dope :banderas:

Demeaning shyt that's lit when you're under 30 either means 1. You live in some bumfukk rural town and don't know what a good time is
or 2. You're antisocial/awkward/boring/ugly and you need excuses :mjlol:

Nah, the club is just a place where you have fun with people you already know.

Meeting new people is cool, but don't limit yourself to the club only. A lot of fake shyt goes down there nowadays and everyone on their phones.
 
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