Yes, one time too many. We weren't raised this way either. The worse happened during her birthday and I will detail how a man can go over the edge.
At the time I was working 2 full time jobs to pay off my IRS bill, pay off her credit cards, get Christmas gifts for everyone, and have money for a mini vacation during her birthday.
I put a lot of thought and consideration for her birthday. So after working 8 hours at this shytty bill collector job which I took only because she complained of we won't have quality time together I'm working 80 hours a week (our cubicles were beside each other) I pick her making the 7 hour drive so she can see her family for her birthday, no complaints.
We get to the hotel at 4am. She gets in bed and I go to the bathroom to shave using my clippers. I hear her tossing and turning in bed hard as fukk immediately making these dumb ass childish noises like "grrrrrrr" "arghhhhhhhhh"
I check right away telling her spoiled are to shut the fukk up and show me some respect. I worked 8 hours at that shytty job then drove us here for 7 hours no complaints while your are slept the whole time. She was quiet after that.
The following day we want to pick up her surprise 3D birthday cake. Dude who made it was in a hurry and asked me to meet him half way instead of his house. My gf thinks I'm cheating or some dumb shyt getting on my nerves about.
We were supposed to visit NYC and go ice skating the next day. Her mom decides to get along and my girlfriend doesn't say no. I tell my girl her mom going to fukk it up. Then her mom invited her brother. Then her sister hewrs this and asks to come along.
I'm telling my girl we should catch a train to N.Y. but she doesn't know wtf to do so we drive. Biggest fukking headache ever. It's my first time there and on our way I would ask these people "what's this", "what's that"" and they would all did their silently or say I don't know while on they fukking cell phones too lazy to google anything.
Along the way, her mom would make sly backhanded comments "oh we should of took so n so car, it's bigger, so n so drives so crazy, we would of been there already" or flat out disgusting comments about her terrible bowel movements "4north1side2 you better let me out the car before I shyt all over your seats" then proceeding to tell us how a week ago at somebodies house they visited she couldn't make it to the bathroom so she shyt on floor. My girls little brother confirmed the story because he's the one who cleaned up her shyt. I'm starting to seeth with anger at this point but I promised my girl we'd have a great trip and I wouldn't get into with her mom this time.
We get to the Chinese district first, my girl, her sister, and her mom keep yelling in my ear to park on street. I park in a garage instead. Once I parked my gf still going on about it and I finally say "are y'all going to pay my ticket or pay to get it out the pound if it's towed? Real easy to tell someone what to do when you don't own shyt" Silence once again.
They acting like real tourists, way too slow for my taste going to each and every humbug Chinese shop so I tell my girl I'm going to explore the city on my own and let them do they thing. She mad but her family was really cramping my style.
I start exploring on my own, freedom at last with no monkey on my back. I'm loving it, taking pics and interacting with the locals. 20 minutes later, my girlfriend calls me "we want to go, it's boring here" I'm like WTF!!!! "It's fukking NYC of all places, how the fukk are you bored!!!! Their is tons of shyt here, did you check out x,y,z?" It's nothing here but little shops and tiny restaurants "Go to canal st" I tell her.
They had a ball on canal and brought a ton of fake cheap shyt. When we were done she still wanted to go ice skating. I tell her we should just throw all the bags in the garage and take the subway to wherever the ice skating rink was. She was insistent to take the car since her mom didn't want to get on the subway.
Worst mistake ever. her mom was supposed to be guiding us but didnt know where the fukk we was at so i used gps. It took us literally to go down 1 mile down the road. I think we were on the main drag park avenue I think. I'm so surprised we didn't get into a accident, driving thru that mess was a hazard. Im raging in my head swearing to God I won't ever do this again a million times.
We and up at our destination but it's so crowded I had to drop them off and I parked like 20 minutes away. It's so full of people that i tell my gf ice skate without me, I'll wait till they done.
They wait in line for a hour then decide to just leave. All that for fukking nothing. My gf wants to meet up but she's giving awful directions. I try to make it easier for her telling her to meet me at a very specific point which she totally ignores. I'm livid at this point but tell her nicely "look, i ain't trying to ruin this trip, do y'all thing and I'll do me" she argued with me for about 10 minutes then finally relents.
I'm exploring NYC then 15 minutes later she calls saying they're ready to go. I'm mad as fukk because I didn't get to see even 1% of nyc.
Them find the garage where I parked was a major pain as well. Drove a hour home in a silent car, not a single person thanked me for chauffeuring them around.
Dropped the family off and we headed to our hotel. I'm bubbling with anger so I tell her I need to vent about everything which I do. She takes everything very personal so she starts screaming at me. We driving down the highway at 65mph and I'm yelling back "I DON'T GIVE A fukk, I DON'T GIVE A fukk!!!!!!"
She gets really mad smacking me in the face which totally caught me off guard. I see red and instictively just punched her in the face saying "what the fukk did I tell you putting your hands on me while I'm driving, you trying to get us killed?"
I get a good look at her, omg it was horrible... I didn't think I punched her that hard... I didn't mean to. Her face was swolen in a instant, her nose was leaking blood like a loose faucet. It seriously looked like she got into a fight with tyson, didn't even recongize her face no more.
I pulled over to the side of the road. Got out yelling at her "look what you made me do, why couldn't you just let me vent!? Why did you have to hit me!?" I was so disappointed with myself. She apologized profusely to me begging me to get back in the car.
The rest of the trip sucked, we slept in the hotel room for a few days until it was time to leave. I broke up with her as well saying I can't do this anymore.
that's how I found out my supposed best friend got married to the guy that threatened to kill her. I never got over that shyt either.
face. Are they still married?
Wait,what made u do that breh
and basically was like "I'll teach your bytch ass to act right.." as soon as I saw her reaching, I pulled my joint out of the bookbag I was carrying. 
...she started crying and shyt, next thing you know I'm huggin her and telling her "I love her" and what not..best sex I've had in awhile followed right after that. I broke off the relationship though not too soon after, I can't trust anyone bugged out enough to pull guns out on me.
