Anyone else becoming more unapologetic as they get older?

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Since I'm a nice guy by all means, I have people in my life that constantly complain about what I'm NOT doing for them or what I've done wrong. shyt used to stress me out.

But as I've got older I've started to be on some "take me as I am or shyt" ESPECIALLY with family and old friends, cuz them nikkas aint never happy.

"If you in my life know your part, that's the best way for us to never grow apart." - Budden

"I figured folk around me would learn to take it better
Instead of tryin change me, I've been this way forever - Budden

I wish I had adopted this mentality earlier. Aint no point in tryna please people who are gonna have something negative to say anyway.

 

[Vonte3000]

Since I'm a nice guy by all means, I have people in my life that constantly complain about what I'm NOT doing for them or what I've done wrong. shyt used to stress me out.

But as I've got older I've started to be on some "take me as I am or shyt" ESPECIALLY with family and old friends, cuz them nikkas aint never happy.



I wish I had adopted this mentality earlier. Aint no point in tryna please people who are gonna have something negative to say anyway.

I realized I like to do me and usually other people don't like it so I said fukk em at an early age

I stopped givin a fukk around 8, shyt was deppressing for a while though

 

[TEH]

Yeah it comes with the territory and it will only get worse with age. Why do you think you can't find an 80 something year old who gives a single fukk.

 

[BlackEfron]

You will go crazy trying to make everyone happy

- blackierobinson

 

[PhonZhi]

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

I realized I like to do me and usually other people don't like it so I said fukk em at an early age

I stopped givin a fukk around 8, shyt was deppressing for a while though

shyt is like unlocking the matrix for me.

I was friends with this chubby girl who would ALWAYS want to hang out 1 on 1 (because she liked me. smh) when I came back home. I would oblige but then I realized I hated it when we hung out and it was just us two. She wanted me to make special accommodations when I came into town when it would easier for me to hang with the entire crew together.

So one day she was like, "You never make time for me... you're not a good friend... blah blah blah." and I was like, "You're right. Let's not be friends anymore. " She was like and fell the fukk back and has been a pretty good, low maintenance friend since.

 

[Vonte3000]

shyt is like unlocking the matrix for me.

I was friends with this chubby girl who would ALWAYS want to hang out 1 on 1 (because she liked me. smh) when I came back home. I would oblige but then I realized I hated it when we hung out and it was just us two. She wanted me to make special accommodations when I came into town when it would easier for me to hang with the entire crew together.

So one day she was like, "You never make time for me... you're not a good friend... blah blah blah." and I was like, "You're right. Let's not be friends anymore. " She was like and fell the fukk back and has been a pretty good, low maintenance friend since.

THIS is how you go about life

If you're not personally happy in a situation or with someone the you change it

People say that's selfish and those are the same people whose life is spent accommodating others