Anyone else have to be very cautious about who you love, bcuz you'd KILL them if they DISHONOR you?

[SunZoo]

That's not love fam.

 

[killacal]

Nothing weak about it fakkit. Some of us aren't built to disrespected and played like u and others fatherless wimps.

Shut your daily diary ass up nikka

The irony of calling anyone weak when you would do life for a bytch

Ol if I can't have you ass nikka

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I was raised in a 2 parent home. One code my parents taught me is that murder for any reason is wrong.

High key if getting cheated on gets you so emotionally frazzled and distraught that you have to commit murder to feel better, you're weak and shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place. OP stays telling on himself

 

[Stuntone]

Shut your daily diary ass up nikka

The irony of calling anyone weak when you would do life for a bytch

Ol if I can't have you ass nikka

Fatherless faggits like you have no HONOR. I can't respect you.


All you do is look for arguments online 24/7. What a bytch azz life.

 

[Clark Griswold]

 

[killacal]

Fatherless faggits like you have no HONOR. I can't respect you.


All you do is look for arguments online 24/7. What a bytch azz life.

I'm gonna smash ya bytch and make ya kill her

Send ya bytch ass some magazines in that jail you can't wait to get into

 

[FeloniousMonk]

Is this like a clickbait thread or fake outrage thread?

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

Unless your physical person is in danger, there is no reason for you to take someone else's life. Attributing said action to the fact someone hurt or betrayed you is not an excuse either.

OP, your words seem to emit a sense of needing to be secure and control those around you. It is not a judgment; it's an observation. It is something I recognize in myself as well, especially after becoming a mother. I have a lot of anger now

The anger is because, deep down, I KNOW I can't control everything that happens to my kids, for example, because they are their own people. I know as much as I love them, I can't protect them from everything and I can't protect myself from them, either. That makes me feel angry because I'm really scared of being vunerable. I dont want to ever feel something so intensely, but that's what happens when you are open to someone.

If my kids fukk around and get hurt, I'm not so much angry because I feel it could have been prevented but I'm hurt because now I have to experience the pain of watching them hurt. It's a sense of helplessness and it feels awful.

But this is life. Anytime you open your heart to love, you stand to gain as much pleasure as pain, sir. You learn from it all, but trying to control it all ain't the way, and that isn't your call to make. Again, unless someone is threatening you or those you love, how can you rationalize killing him/her because of how YOU are personally experiencing that situation? That says more about you than the person you're angry with.

Don't know you OP, but I'm saying this out of a good place. Hopen you don't knock off anyone

There are a lot of reasons to shoot people. This is not one.

 

[invalid]

Bcuz if it gets to so on, she's going to be saying so long.....

Fatherless faggits like you have no HONOR. I can't respect you.

With all due respect, breh, that's not honor, that's ego. Honor will have you separating from your wife quietly. Ego will have you killing her.

If this is how you legit feel, then you should never get married and keep your peace of mind.

 

[TNOT]

I know a lot of you will say Killing someone over cheating or disrespect is overboard. It's deeper than that. Most of you were raised by women with no concept of honor. Raised with no real code or standards. Scheming and scamming to get by. No honor or values. I was raised by a real man with honor and value.

I don't know what it is or maybe it's being raised in Louisiana (Haitian bloodline) or seeing so much violence growing up, having friends who moms was killed for messing around. But i've been extremely picky about who I date seriously and love. Even my closest family, I'd give my life for them. But personally and with most, anyone you'd give your life for, you'd take there lives too if they were to humiliate you and betray your years of trust and love for them. Thank God i've been lucky to have the family I have and the women I've dated.

As far as women, it's very hard for me to trust them. Especially nowadays. If I was to find out my girl is texting a dude, it's probably over. I feel like if you sneak and talk, youll sneak and meet up and so on. So you might as well say fukk it. Bcuz if it gets to so on, she's going to be saying so long..... I can't take risk with these women bcuz I know I'll kill them if it gets there.

You can't tell someone how to react to anything. We live in a society were theyre teaching men, to turn the cheek, but the bigger man by not reacting. Fukk that. I wish we could go back to good old azzwhooping for violations. That's why you got kids talking shyt to adults with no repercussions.

A man's love is life

A woman's life is love

Those two statements aren't interchangeable as much as people try to make them be.

 

[Draje]

You sound like a weirdo creepy fakkit with this. Imagine being so emotional and full of estrogen that you think a proper response for being "embarrassed".

 

[Stuntone]

With all due respect, breh, that's not honor, that's ego. Honor will have you separating from your wife quietly. Ego will have you killing her.

If this is how you legit feel, then you should never get married and keep your peace of mind.

Honor, respect, ego all coincide bruh. I may never get married.

It aint just about women, like my dad would probably kill me or my brothers if we were to dishonor our family and him. That's just how i'm raised. It's in me.

 

[invalid]

Honor, respect, ego all coincide bruh. I may never get married.

It aint just about women, like my dad would probably kill me or my brothers if we were to dishonor our family and him. That's just how i'm raised. It's in me.

Well if you're like your Dad and everybody can get it

At least you're consistent.

 

[Stuntone]

Well if you're like your Dad and everybody can get it

At least you're consistent.

I'm not saying it's the right way or everyone should be this way, but i'm just being real with myself.

But when you think about it, a lot of people have been killed for a lot less.

 

[DPresidential]

I know a lot of you will say Killing someone over cheating or disrespect is overboard. It's deeper than that. I was raised by a real man with honor and value.

I don't know what it is or maybe it's being raised in Louisiana (Haitian bloodline) or seeing so much violence growing up, having friends who moms was killed for messing around. But i've been extremely picky about who I date seriously and love. Even my closest family, I'd give my life for them. But personally and with most, anyone you'd give your life for, you'd take there lives too if they were to humiliate you and betray your years of trust and love for them. Thank God i've been lucky to have the family I have and the women I've dated.

As far as women, it's very hard for me to trust them. Especially nowadays. If I was to find out my girl is texting a dude, it's probably over. I feel like if you sneak and talk, youll sneak and meet up and so on. So you might as well say fukk it. Bcuz if it gets to so on, she's going to be saying so long..... I can't take risk with these women bcuz I know I'll kill them if it gets there.

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I was going to troll but that would be unnecessary and dap fishing.

Let's have this convo in a mature light.

Breh, I think you're romanticizing the concept of loyalty and elevating it to a level of almost Hollywood quality. The idea that you'd be exceptionally hurt about the discovery of disloyalty by a person who you're loyal to is normal and seems to be a perfectly reasonable human response.

But think about the extreme in which you're taking it. You're essentially taking the stance that you are going to 1) disregard a human being's genuinely plausible propensity for the error and mistake that could lead to disloyalty, 2) prohibit yourself from the concept of regret by the person and empathy within yourself and 3) potentially allow yourself to go through with the physical act of taking a person's life - a life of a person who've shared intimacy and love with.

That's just not a rational response. It's almost so psychopathically possessive that it kind of seems more plausible that you've just interpreted a narcissistic notion of territorial behavior and it's more about you being offended that your loved one could ever possibly betray you because "How dare you go against someone as perfect as me???".

To me that would be the ultimate proof of a broken self-esteem - especially what I highlighted in your OP.

Thoughts?