Anyone else live by themself and just....are lonely a lot?

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Thats what I'm going through. Haven't been in a relationship since October, but I"m way past that. I just feel like I'm lonely here by my self. When I had roommates, at least there was usually someone to always bullshyt with. Even when I lived with a roommate I didn't really like that much, it was still better than nothing. But now I just feel like I go through the motions and do school and work, but when I come home if I don't have anything planned, I feel like I"m just HOPING my phone goes off and somebody has some shyt to do, and I can link up with some people.

I dunno. I feel like I'm usually a homebody, but lately I thin I need to be around people. At least one person reguarly. Because on my days off, I usually end up spending them at home by myself for probably the entire day. And that shyt, lightweight, is getting kinda old.
 
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I want you to remember this moment. There will come a day when you have a house full of crying kids and no privacy. Right now won't seem that bad :ld:
 
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Pick up a hobby. Find a regular pick up game if you ball. Hit the gym. Help out a volunteer organization. Find a regular poker game. Etc.

Get out there breh.

And if you're in college, there's seriously no reason for your social calendar to be lacking.

If you're lonely, no one to blame but yourself.
 
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I'm struggling with it a little myself mostly because I'm still kind of "new" in this town.

Key is to make yourself leave the house.

I'm serious. MAKE yourself leave. I don't care what it is you leave for. Drinking, getting coffee, shopping. Come up with excuses to not stay inside. That's the only way to meet people.
 
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Mikey2Toes said:
Thats what I'm going through. Haven't been in a relationship since October, but I"m way past that. I just feel like I'm lonely here by my self. When I had roommates, at least there was usually someone to always bullshyt with. Even when I lived with a roommate I didn't really like that much, it was still better than nothing. But now I just feel like I go through the motions and do school and work, but when I come home if I don't have anything planned, I feel like I"m just HOPING my phone goes off and somebody has some shyt to do, and I can link up with some people.

I dunno. I feel like I'm usually a homebody, but lately I thin I need to be around people. At least one person reguarly. Because on my days off, I usually end up spending them at home by myself for probably the entire day. And that shyt, lightweight, is getting kinda old.
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Im in the same situation breh. Sometime its cool to be alone but once your alone for so long it gets old and lonely and sometime we are the ones at fault for that. I never use to my call my homies or family when i wanted to go out. For some reason i would always want them to make the first move and sometime when they did i would just turn em down for no reason the other time im laying back wishing my phone would ring and it did but after awhile people are going to get tired of being the ones always trying to kick with you if they always calling you to make plans and its not vice vera or even putting distance between you and people for no reason. That shyt happen to me and i always use to sit and wonder why my social life is dead and i always felt lonely.

You just gotta start making plans with people breh so you can get out the house cause you being lonely could lead to depression.You gotta Make that change cus if you dont,Ur gonna be stuck being lonely
 
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Nah fukk that. I don't think I'll ever feel like that. These last 3 years living with friends/people I've been forced to live with (University) has made me realise I'll be living by myself for the foreseeable future.

I'm one of those people that can just chill by myself all day all night, a beer, laptop and TV or some shyt. I know people completely the opposite.
 
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I live alone and am content with it. I actually get out and find stuff to do that I like. Loneliness is only because you THINK you need people. You really don't, breh.
 
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Lil' Kartwheel said:
That's more like not having a life. Hope you can get out that situation soon because there's nothing more soul-killing to a man than watching life pass you by and not being able to enjoy it.
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It sucks even more when your are barely getting by with student loans to pay off :snoop:
 
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