Anyone else live by themself and just....are lonely a lot?

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My best friend just went away on Army leave so im kinda back there. Its like every day just the same shyt :aicmon:
 

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Lived alone for years....it does get a little lonely, I'd rather be by myself most of the time, but there are those days, and moments, hours, where loneliness does come into play. Besides a serious relationship, I'd really rather not live with anyone, I don't think. I know though, there are days when it's like, fukk I haven't said ONE word to anyone today, I woke up, went running, came home, ate lunch, went to the movies, watched tv, computer....at no point did I interact with anyone, and that can wear on you. I think I need to date and start having more of a social life, I'm starting to look at people in relationships like I'm at the Zoo or some shyt, I just have little to no idea how to move in one. Being alone, being independent, you become selfish/self centered as fukk, which I am, I am willing to do things for other people, or make time, check in, whatever people do...but I am not used to it at all, it's like a foreign concept.
 

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In school? No friends :ld:

R u away from the ppl you grew up with?
 

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im very sensitive to noises so i prefer to live alone. but yeah, sometimes things can get lonely. and when i do chill with people i prefer it isn't a large crowd. anything over 3 or maybe 4 is a bit annoying for me.
 

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i live alone and i don't feel lonely about it. i'm :lawd: over here. I get enough ppl asking me to do shyt anyway so when I'm bored I just leave or bring over a friend.

i keep myself occupied. like now i jst woke up, i gotta shower, eat, clean and smoke some weed. no time to be lonely brehs :manny:
 

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Thats what I'm going through. Haven't been in a relationship since October, but I"m way past that. I just feel like I'm lonely here by my self. When I had roommates, at least there was usually someone to always bullshyt with. Even when I lived with a roommate I didn't really like that much, it was still better than nothing. But now I just feel like I go through the motions and do school and work, but when I come home if I don't have anything planned, I feel like I"m just HOPING my phone goes off and somebody has some shyt to do, and I can link up with some people.

I dunno. I feel like I'm usually a homebody, but lately I thin I need to be around people. At least one person reguarly. Because on my days off, I usually end up spending them at home by myself for probably the entire day. And that shyt, lightweight, is getting kinda old.


Your life sucks b. It was days I prayed to be alone or just have some me time. I was living that life and was single where my front door was a revolving door for women. When I got some me time I found time to goto the gym, events around town or to the club, where I often brought someone home after. Where do u live?
 

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Lived alone for years, now I'm living with my girl. I love her but I miss living alone lol.
 

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I used to think I enjoyed living by myself, but every time I hang out with people I become energised, active, more aggressive -generally just more alive and happy. If I spend more time by myself I basically feel like a zombie. But obviously it has to be the right people who I can feel comfortable and be myself.
 

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I spoke with a old playa and he said hes goin to another country to find a wife. Showed me her picture and everything. Im like man, i thought you were loving the single life. He tells me.

*yea i like being out but then i go home to an empty house and im lonely*

shyt was so honestly raw..

Its crazy that you can actually be with a woman, have her in your bed but still feel lonely. Theres something to be said for a genuine connection between a man and woman. I love snugglin with Chun Li.
 

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i live by myself now. Used to live with my ex gf and a couple of good friends. Me and my ex broke up my mates moved out. now im on my own just cut contact with everyone except family.

Got depressed after my ex left me. im usually a very unemotional guy but man it was fukd up. All i do is drink,smoke,study,gym and work.

it gets lonley but i grew as a person these past months. Also its not like im unsocial i just choose to live alone for a while and figure things out.
 

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I live with a roommate and got a girlfriend and still get lonely sometimes. There's many days where my girl is the only person that texts/calls me the entire day. It gets old talking to the same person day in and day out.
 

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Try doing some volunteer work. People say that's a good way to meet nice women. There aint nothing wrong with spending time by yourself. If you can't stand being around yourself, do you really want to be that type of person that has to always surround themself with hanger ons?
 
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