Anyone Else Somewhat Emotionally Cold?

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I don't know if it's from my childhood and growing up without a father, or maybe it's just my nature, who knows, but I have this problem where I can turn cold on people (emotions wise), both men & women and for some reason since I'm friendly and meet new people so often, I disregard the importance of many individuals because I know they're replaceable, which makes my tolerance for BS shorter as well.

Anyone else on here like this, or am I a rare breed :lupe:
 

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I think most people are emotionally detached, more so now I than any other time, these social networks being a big reason, it has devalued the importance of human interaction and companionship, just look at the relationships today, its about the individual more than ever today, no time to share. You aren't rare, you are more of the norm today.
 

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I can be.

For similar reasons.
  • Mom was always working.
  • never knew my real pop, or his family.
  • Used to get shyt on quite often growing up. Not necessarily bullied, but disregarded by everyone.
Mainly worried about me, myself, and I for these reasons. Not that I'm not emotional, but my emotions are delayed or impulsive...so I don't trust them and ultimately don't show them.
 

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Inserts Zach galifinakis nod gif

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It's sad because I feel that I'm a generally caring person.
And the older I get, the more I realize that most people ain't bout shyt.

To make a long story long.........

I remember staying with my grandma for a weekend when I was was a kid.
My pops gave me $10 to spend at the corner store.
I remember playing with my friends Saturday morning/afternoon.

I went inside to rest.
I pulled my ten dollar bill out of my pocket, looked at it, and sat it on the coffee table.
I fell asleep on the sofa.

Woke up, ten dollar bill was gone.
I searched the sofa, under the sofa, under the coffee table, in the fridge.
Nothing.

But my uncle was there. Nga showed up while I was sleeping.
I asked my grandma and my uncle if they'd seen my money.
They both said they hadn't.

Grandma felt bad and took me to the corner store and hooked me up.
(RIP Grandma! I love and miss you!)

A few months later, I'm at my uncle's house visiting my cousins.
Some dude came over.
And he and my uncle BOTH went into the bathroom at the same time........for a long time.
I asked my aunt what were they doing in the bathroom like that.

She told me to stay out of their business!

Me: :merchant:


Pops came to pick me up and I told him about unk and the dude in the bathroom together.

Pops: "Damn! I think your uncle is addicted to heroin. You're never stepping foot in that house again."
And that's when it hit me. Unk stole my ten dollar bill while I was asleep. :ohhh:

That's the exact moment my heart turned cold.
 

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reaching that point.
 

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I'm Hard Like D-Block Readin The Book Of Enoch...
i'm a tri polar bear,i'm literally thee type of cat who will sit there in utter awkward(for them,heh) silence and stare right through them if they say something stupid or repetitive..this goes for blood family too

i also ignore people in public,ignore e-mails,etc..

you fukkin humanoids are just disposable dipshyts,there will always be another of your phenotype/archetype to replace you..

and yes,thy knows thee same goes for moi,i don't care..

whoever is delighted in solitude is either a wild beast or a god

-Aristotle
 
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