Anyone Else Somewhat Emotionally Cold?

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I don't know when exactly I turned cold but a large majority of people that know me usually refer to me as that cold hearted dude. I actually like the fact that they refer to me as that :yeshrug: it's just an indicator to not cross me :demonic:
 

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I don't know if it's from my childhood and growing up without a father, or maybe it's just my nature, who knows, but I have this problem where I can turn cold on people (emotions wise), both men & women and for some reason since I'm friendly and meet new people so often, I disregard the importance of many individuals because I know they're replaceable, which makes my tolerance for BS shorter as well.

Anyone else on here like this, or am I a rare breed :lupe:
I wish I could be like this with a lot of people:lupe:
 

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At my 5th grade back to school night, my pops went in place of my moms. He didn't live with us (had his own wife/kids cuz chose the other preg chick over my preg mom) but always around. My moms was sick that night so this nikka went to my school.

He came back fibbing hard on me. Told my mother I would literally passing out in class and throw shyt at the teacher. That fakkit didn't know i wasn't sleep and i heard everything. At first I thought I was dreaming but this nikka came up with a detailed, well thought out lie about his son....for no reason :to: From then on I started noticing how much of an envious, bitter man he was. That's when I realized nikkas ain't shyt, related or not. He's gotten worse.

That same year an old friend invited me to his birthday party and I was hyped. It was at one of those kiddy golf courses. I knew half of the kids around and there were a
lot of new nikkas. Of course my old friends flocked around the new nikkas to the point one of them "no leave him there" and I was kicked out the group. I went to go cry in the bathroom when a worker gave me advice. " you don't need other people to enjoy yourself"

:blessed: Been stress and worry free ever since. I expect the worse outta folks so they never disappoint me :japlife:
 

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I wish I could be like this with a lot of people:lupe:
its good but if you fall in love and your heart gets broken then you fall hard. Besides that though, you get rid of people easily, its weird. I can like a girl and then all of the sudden I wont respond to her texts or nothing and I wont even have another chick on the side. Or with family I dont ever feed into their needs unless I benefit and if they need help then I wont help or even sympathize. With guy friends we may kick it, but since im free spirited I dont even think about kicking it often and if we dont get on any longer then they might as well be dead. Tbh its weird, I leave my emotions at the door a lot and depend on my logic.
 
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