Anyone Else Somewhat Emotionally Cold?

[Poh SIti Dawn]

At my 5th grade back to school night, my pops went in place of my moms. He didn't live with us (had his own wife/kids cuz chose the other preg chick over my preg mom) but always around. My moms was sick that night so this nikka went to my school.

He came back fibbing hard on me. Told my mother I would literally passing out in class and throw shyt at the teacher. That fakkit didn't know i wasn't sleep and i heard everything. At first I thought I was dreaming but this nikka came up with a detailed, well thought out lie about his son....for no reason From then on I started noticing how much of an envious, bitter man he was. That's when I realized nikkas ain't shyt, related or not. He's gotten worse.

That same year an old friend invited me to his birthday party and I was hyped. It was at one of those kiddy golf courses. I knew half of the kids around and there were a
lot of new nikkas. Of course my old friends flocked around the new nikkas to the point one of them "no leave him there" and I was kicked out the group. I went to go cry in the bathroom when a worker gave me advice. " you don't need other people to enjoy yourself"

Been stress and worry free ever since. I expect the worse outta folks so they never disappoint me :japlife:

lmao wtf. Your dad sounds like a hoe. One of those dudes who hates on a dude to a chick so he can slide in.

 

[Mr Rager]

I got tired of investing in people and getting nothing in return.

<---Now I'm heartless

 

[Knicksman20]

I don't know if it's from my childhood and growing up without a father, or maybe it's just my nature, who knows, but I have this problem where I can turn cold on people (emotions wise), both men & women and for some reason since I'm friendly and meet new people so often, I disregard the importance of many individuals because I know they're replaceable, which makes my tolerance for BS shorter as well.

Anyone else on here like this, or am I a rare breed

I'm definitely similar. My Moms has joked on me for years & calls me Mr. Ice because I can turn that switch on at any moment; especially with females when I'm past that point.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

I'm definitely similar. My Moms has joked on me for years & calls me Mr. Ice because I can turn that switch on at any moment; especially with females when I'm past that point.

you prolly aint got the patience for bs either. shyts weird how that works

 

[KinksandCoils]

its good but if you fall in love and your heart gets broken then you fall hard. Besides that though, you get rid of people easily, its weird. I can like a girl and then all of the sudden I wont respond to her texts or nothing and I wont even have another chick on the side. Or with family I dont ever feed into their needs unless I benefit and if they need help then I wont help or even sympathize. With guy friends we may kick it, but since im free spirited I dont even think about kicking it often and if we dont get on any longer then they might as well be dead. Tbh its weird, I leave my emotions at the door a lot and depend on my logic.

This right here is what I need to do. People are users and abusers. It's best just to dismiss them without fukks given

 

[ThatTruth777]

I'm not cold with people, but I fight to not be that way because I wouldn't like somebody to have those ugly ways with me.

 

[C-NICE]

I agree i think the social media made me see how almost everybody is selfish nowadays people aren't genuine I go out and see people can't live their lives without the satisfaction of others. Its crazy but its the best and worst thing that happened to the world to me connectivity. People are never ever ever alone even your girlfriend or significant other shyts crazy.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

This right here is what I need to do. People are users and abusers. It's best just to dismiss them without fukks given

i mean you dont need to be cold, you just need to realize that you need to help yourself before you can help anyone else and that not everyone needs help, we all have brains.

 

[Non Sequitur]

Inserts Zach galifinakis nod gif

that's not that Zach Gali-whatever muthafukka.

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It's Robert Redford

 

[Turbulent]

no one is one thing all the time. we can all be cold at some times and no matter how hard we front, we all have emotional triggers.

being cold is at times a necessary thing for survival. but being too cold will hurt your happiness because you're suppressing your emotions instead of controlling them.

 

[King Poetic]

ever since i lost my job in 2006 and nobody help me out except my parents, i just went for self only.

women i date or go out with i don't give 2 shyts about.

nikkas and bytches today want u to basically pay them to be friends.

i use to be straight left wing but as i got older i became independent and can give 2 shyts about liberals and conservatives rights, it's all about what i want.

 

[Dooby]

It's sad because I feel that I'm a generally caring person.
And the older I get, the more I realize that most people ain't bout shyt.

To make a long story long.........

I remember staying with my grandma for a weekend when I was was a kid.
My pops gave me $10 to spend at the corner store.
I remember playing with my friends Saturday morning/afternoon.

I went inside to rest.
I pulled my ten dollar bill out of my pocket, looked at it, and sat it on the coffee table.
I fell asleep on the sofa.

Woke up, ten dollar bill was gone.
I searched the sofa, under the sofa, under the coffee table, in the fridge.
Nothing.

But my uncle was there. Nga showed up while I was sleeping.
I asked my grandma and my uncle if they'd seen my money.
They both said they hadn't.

Grandma felt bad and took me to the corner store and hooked me up.
(RIP Grandma! I love and miss you!)

A few months later, I'm at my uncle's house visiting my cousins.
Some dude came over.
And he and my uncle BOTH went into the bathroom at the same time........for a long time.
I asked my aunt what were they doing in the bathroom like that.

She told me to stay out of their business!

Me:


Pops came to pick me up and I told him about unk and the dude in the bathroom together.

Pops: "Damn! I think your uncle is addicted to heroin. You're never stepping foot in that house again."
And that's when it hit me. Unk stole my ten dollar bill while I was asleep.

That's the exact moment my heart turned cold.

There's a lot worse things your unc could be doing with another man in the bathroom for long periods of time.

 

[SemiEnlightenedBum]

but with that my feelings tend to be a lot more genuine than others because i cant fake things.

this is also true in my case,too much irreverence and hubris from first world kids,half truths and snark,tis hard to relate when you've actually swimmed amongst real sharks to survive,and you know tis only gonna get worst..

and word to thee kid who brought up child abuse,i also underwent all that shyt,it definitely constructs your mind from jump into anti social tendencies/problems with trust/chip on your shoulder..and shyt is extra saddening when a grown man is jealous of a child..

thee most absolutely disgusting mindset a parent can have is to have undergone a bad childhood/life and then become equipped with thee mindset that,"well if i had it rough,i'm gonna make my seed tougher by doing the exact same thing to them."



and when you steal from your own child&cage them up like animals

 

[MikelArteta]

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It's Robert Redford

yo it looks just like him even when you google zach galifinakis nod it pops up

i never knew

 

[UserNameless]

It's sad because I feel that I'm a generally caring person.
And the older I get, the more I realize that most people ain't bout shyt.

To make a long story long.........

I remember staying with my grandma for a weekend when I was was a kid.
My pops gave me $10 to spend at the corner store.
I remember playing with my friends Saturday morning/afternoon.

I went inside to rest.
I pulled my ten dollar bill out of my pocket, looked at it, and sat it on the coffee table.
I fell asleep on the sofa.

Woke up, ten dollar bill was gone.
I searched the sofa, under the sofa, under the coffee table, in the fridge.
Nothing.

But my uncle was there. Nga showed up while I was sleeping.
I asked my grandma and my uncle if they'd seen my money.
They both said they hadn't.

Grandma felt bad and took me to the corner store and hooked me up.
(RIP Grandma! I love and miss you!)

A few months later, I'm at my uncle's house visiting my cousins.
Some dude came over.
And he and my uncle BOTH went into the bathroom at the same time........for a long time.
I asked my aunt what were they doing in the bathroom like that.

She told me to stay out of their business!

Me:


Pops came to pick me up and I told him about unk and the dude in the bathroom together.

Pops: "Damn! I think your uncle is addicted to heroin. You're never stepping foot in that house again."
And that's when it hit me. Unk stole my ten dollar bill while I was asleep.

That's the exact moment my heart turned cold.

Try to overcome that, tho...