Anyone Else Somewhat Emotionally Cold?

[Ciggavelli]

I'm a very cold person. It's a combo of childhood trauma, being selfish (if I'm being honest), and realizing most people ain't shyt. I'm only lukewarm with my girl and my brother.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I have been accused of being cold but I'm not. I just don't have time for the bullshyt. I care about things, events and people worth caring about.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Yeah I can be. It actually made life a lot easier to contend with. Not sure if that is some kind of reflection on the people I grew up around or on me myself. Probably a combination of the two.

 

[TheArchitect]

I don't know if it's from my childhood and growing up without a father, or maybe it's just my nature, who knows, but I have this problem where I can turn cold on people (emotions wise), both men & women and for some reason since I'm friendly and meet new people so often, I disregard the importance of many individuals because I know they're replaceable, which makes my tolerance for BS shorter as well.

Anyone else on here like this, or am I a rare breed

I'm the same way....I find people very melodramatic, and tend to despise having emotional discussions. One of the main things that killed my emotions was my upbringing, which was quite a depressing one. shyt really fukked my head up. I also found that tears give me headache, and I feel no better afterwards. I also tend to hold grudges until I at least feel we're "even." I'm even worse with females at times. If I feel disrespected or slighted, I don't hesitate to delete numbers and contacts. I was always known as the "cut-em-off quick" or "go-bad" type if dude of the crew. IDK, I just was never one for the games and bullshyt. IDK, I guess I just was never cut out to be that sort of person....

 

[TheArchitect]

I can be.

For similar reasons.

• Mom was always working.
• never knew my real pop, or his family.
• Used to get shyt on quite often growing up. Not necessarily bullied, but disregarded by everyone.

Mainly worried about me, myself, and I for these reasons. Not that I'm not emotional, but my emotions are delayed or impulsive...so I don't trust them and ultimately don't show them.

Same with me...

 

[KinksandCoils]

no one is one thing all the time. we can all be cold at some times and no matter how hard we front, we all have emotional triggers.

being cold is at times a necessary thing for survival. but being too cold will hurt your happiness because you're suppressing your emotions instead of controlling them.

Real ish right here :coolin:

 

[Black Nate Grey]

I don't know if it's from my childhood and growing up without a father, or maybe it's just my nature, who knows, but I have this problem where I can turn cold on people (emotions wise), both men & women and for some reason since I'm friendly and meet new people so often, I disregard the importance of many individuals because I know they're replaceable, which makes my tolerance for BS shorter as well.

Anyone else on here like this, or am I a rare breed

I know exactly how this feels I do it all time, whenever we used to move to different cities I never talked, contacted or even looked up my old friends, even after I have graduated I never talk or hang with my old friends, cuz I know I'll just make new ones.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

I'm the same way....I find people very melodramatic, and tend to despise having emotional discussions. One of the main things that killed my emotions was my upbringing, which was quite a depressing one. shyt really fukked my head up. I also found that tears give me headache, and I feel no better afterwards. I also tend to hold grudges until I at least feel we're "even." I'm even worse with females at times. If I feel disrespected or slighted, I don't hesitate to delete numbers and contacts. I was always known as the "cut-em-off quick" or "go-bad" type if dude of the crew. IDK, I just was never one for the games and bullshyt. IDK, I guess I just was never cut out to be that sort of person....

How do you hold grudges? They prolly try to hit u up and u play shyt off like it's cool but deep down you're like "nikka we'll never be friends again". That's how I am.

Yeah, honestly I think when you grow up seeing a lot of drama, you don't have the patience to deal with dis functional people. It's like you'd rather be alone more often bc there's never no drama.

 

[Black Nate Grey]

Yea I'm kind of cold. If I find anything monotonous or repetitive I don't do it and I know people think I'm an @sshole for it.
Like making small talk. Idk why I'm like that but I hate it. People tell me "hi" at work I dead ass give em a look and keep it moving.

Breh, I HATE REPETITION and routine.

I didn't know there so many people like me.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

Breh, I HATE REPETITION and routine.

I didn't know there so many people like me.

I do too and I think that's why I have a hard time being an adult. Everything is so damn monotonous

 

[Dwolf]

Lot of sociopaths on the coli

 

[FeloniousMonk]

Yep, got a low tolerance for b.s. so I'm quick to check a mug try to run game or have lames excuses..

I'm considered a loveable a$$hole

 

[↓R↑LYB]

I am but I'm pretty sure its cause I'm kinda evil. Not inherently evil like white people, but I come from a long line of demons.

 

[DAlbert]

no

tit for tat

 

[TheArchitect]

How do you hold grudges? They prolly try to hit u up and u play shyt off like it's cool but deep down you're like "nikka we'll never be friends again". That's how I am.

Yeah, honestly I think when you grow up seeing a lot of drama, you don't have the patience to deal with dis functional people. It's like you'd rather be alone more often bc there's never no drama.

I'm the same way....I find people very melodramatic, and tend to despise having emotional discussions. One of the main things that killed my emotions was my upbringing, which was quite a depressing one. shyt really fukked my head up. I also found that tears give me headache, and I feel no better afterwards. I also tend to hold grudges until I at least feel we're "even." I'm even worse with females at times. If I feel disrespected or slighted, I don't hesitate to delete numbers and contacts. I was always known as the "cut-em-off quick" or "go-bad" type if dude of the crew. IDK, I just was never one for the games and bullshyt. IDK, I guess I just was never cut out to be that sort of person....

I basically don't speak or acknowledge said person(s). I find that I don't necessarily hold a grudge after a while, but I'll refuse to be bothered with said person(s) ever again, however...