Anyone else struggle with sentimentality?

[Dr. Acula]

I realize I find it hard to be sentimental and the shyt makes me question my normalcy a bit.

Like, I find no enjoyment in taking pictures. I find formal celebrations a fukking chore and it really is hard for me to feel excited about shyt that I feel other people care about. Like I'm the type who if I got married, I'd just want to go to the court house and get the paper. Having a ceremony is totally unappealing to me.

I admit I have no sense of romance. Like Ill do romantic shyt just to keep my partner happy but it's like going through the motions. Like I don't feel like Don Juan in my bones. I do the shyt out of practicality instead of emotionally.

Is this shyt just maybe me just being a man or even among men is it normal to have some sense of sentimentality?

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I realize I find it hard to be sentimental and the shyt makes me question my normalcy a bit.

Like, I find no enjoyment in taking pictures. I find formal celebrations a fukking chore and it really is hard for me to feel excited about shyt that I feel other people care about. Like I'm the type who if I got married, I'd just want to go to the court house and get the paper. Having a ceremony is totally unappealing to me.

I admit I have no sense of romance. Like Ill do romantic shyt just to keep my partner happy but it's like going through the motions. Like I don't feel like Don Juan in my bones.

Is this shyt just maybe me just being a man or even among men is it normal to have some sense of sentimentality?

Yeah I’m the same

I guess that kinda fukked woth my last relationship

 

[Dad]

I respect it

 

[Ghetto Denizen]

Same but I blame it on how my parents were. They just weren't the lovey dove type and damn if I ain't turn out the same way

 

[alpo]

I realize I find it hard to be sentimental and the shyt makes me question my normalcy a bit.

Like, I find no enjoyment in taking pictures. I find formal celebrations a fukking chore and it really is hard for me to feel excited about shyt that I feel other people care about. Like I'm the type who if I got married, I'd just want to go to the court house and get the paper. Having a ceremony is totally unappealing to me.

I admit I have no sense of romance. Like Ill do romantic shyt just to keep my partner happy but it's like going through the motions. Like I don't feel like Don Juan in my bones. I do the shyt out of practicality instead of emotionally.

Is this shyt just maybe me just being a man or even among men is it normal to have some sense of sentimentality?

why you have this problem?

 

[Double Burger With Cheese]

Real men don’t get sentimental

 

[Doobie Doo]

I realize I find it hard to be sentimental and the shyt makes me question my normalcy a bit.

Like, I find no enjoyment in taking pictures. I find formal celebrations a fukking chore and it really is hard for me to feel excited about shyt that I feel other people care about. Like I'm the type who if I got married, I'd just want to go to the court house and get the paper. Having a ceremony is totally unappealing to me.

I admit I have no sense of romance. Like Ill do romantic shyt just to keep my partner happy but it's like going through the motions. Like I don't feel like Don Juan in my bones. I do the shyt out of practicality instead of emotionally.

Is this shyt just maybe me just being a man or even among men is it normal to have some sense of sentimentality?

Its you,


you probably have people around you you don't give a fukk about

 

[NkrumahWasRight Is Wrong]

I realize I find it hard to be sentimental and the shyt makes me question my normalcy a bit.

Like, I find no enjoyment in taking pictures. I find formal celebrations a fukking chore and it really is hard for me to feel excited about shyt that I feel other people care about. Like I'm the type who if I got married, I'd just want to go to the court house and get the paper. Having a ceremony is totally unappealing to me.

I admit I have no sense of romance. Like Ill do romantic shyt just to keep my partner happy but it's like going through the motions. Like I don't feel like Don Juan in my bones. I do the shyt out of practicality instead of emotionally.

Is this shyt just maybe me just being a man or even among men is it normal to have some sense of sentimentality?

I can relate on many levels though I do have sentimental value in quasi random items I have collected over the years and care about other people quite a bit. With that said, I also hate pictures, would want to just get the paper than do a whole wedding, dont care much for celebrations etc

 

[Baka's Weird Case]

yeah i dont get too sentimental cause i dont really give a fukk about some ceremonies. most of my friends dont either

 

[Michael's Black Son]

I realize I find it hard to be sentimental and the shyt makes me question my normalcy a bit.

Like, I find no enjoyment in taking pictures. I find formal celebrations a fukking chore and it really is hard for me to feel excited about shyt that I feel other people care about. Like I'm the type who if I got married, I'd just want to go to the court house and get the paper. Having a ceremony is totally unappealing to me.

I admit I have no sense of romance. Like Ill do romantic shyt just to keep my partner happy but it's like going through the motions. Like I don't feel like Don Juan in my bones. I do the shyt out of practicality instead of emotionally.

Is this shyt just maybe me just being a man or even among men is it normal to have some sense of sentimentality?

just pretend and get it over with so you can move on

Of course it feels like a chore and you’d rather be doing other shyt. But since it’s you’re peoples, you gotta keep up the act.

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

I'm the opposite, overly sentimental

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

I'm the same, but I'm also a heartless narcissistic sociopath

 

[YouMadd?]

Thats me….. however, if you eat enough magic mushrooms, you slowly evolve to the point where you just live your life out of empathy for others and you are of service for others. Then, the kicker is… good things start happening to you because of the sacrifices you made.

so while it is good to just do what makes you feel good or go off of your own shyt. Really consider how much you can affect those around you and ask yourself?

“Can I sacrifice myself to make others feel good?”

and then do it…

this is just rich nikka shyt too. When other rich people give eachother wads of cash and shyt. It’s the same thing.

most hard to do when you dont have everything.

I met a bytch once that felt offended that I didn’t announce my birthday to everyone. It’s crazy because me not being all loud about my bday was supposed to be without burden in my mind. But some folks feel good celebrating your life and are offended if you hid that front them.

 

[Karume]

Real men don’t get sentimental

why not?

 

[Taadow]

I realize I find it hard to be sentimental and the shyt makes me question my normalcy a bit.

Like, I find no enjoyment in taking pictures. I find formal celebrations a fukking chore and it really is hard for me to feel excited about shyt that I feel other people care about. Like I'm the type who if I got married, I'd just want to go to the court house and get the paper. Having a ceremony is totally unappealing to me.

I admit I have no sense of romance. Like Ill do romantic shyt just to keep my partner happy but it's like going through the motions. Like I don't feel like Don Juan in my bones. I do the shyt out of practicality instead of emotionally.

Is this shyt just maybe me just being a man or even among men is it normal to have some sense of sentimentality?

Levels.

I am sentimental, but I feel how you feel about the things you listed.

- I take pictures of things that matter to me, but it’s not like I have a lot of pictures...and I don’t necessarily like to be in pictures. When I am, I don’t hardly smile.

- I like celebrations, but not really formal ones with a program where you have to listen to speeches and chit. BOO

- if I was ever dumb enough to get married, I know my ceremony would be small and intimate. For no other reason than I have a HUGE family and it would be a extreme hassle to herd them for that, let alone any family she would have. Plus, weddings are a waste of money imo.

- I am very romantic, but even then I don’t make huge gestures. I do little things constantly and don’t even point them out. And not so she can make a big deal about them.


Basically, I am sentimental but I suppose I’m not sentimental about things other people are sentimental about. It’s probably the same for you.