Anyone ever come to the realization that YOU were the problem in a relationship?
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This, I realized not too long that I enjoy this shyt
This shyt is blowing my mind right now. I always thought of myself as being a good boyfriend, but I've been piecing together my recollections lately and I'm noticing that I may very well have been the toxic partner everyone rightfully despises.
I keep trying to vindicate myself and say that it's just my guilt that's making me think I was worse than I was, but I have an overwhelming feeling that's a lie.
I was in a nearly 8 year relationship where I spent probably 3 or 4 years being unhappy/ wanting to leave her. I was too p*ssy to just sever our relationship, and I kept trying to make it work, but I think I just ended up taking my unhappiness out on the relationship and on her.
Damn, I got some thinking to do. She wasn't perfect by any means, but I gotta do better. I can be a real scumbag.
I think the bolded is surprisingly common. I had an 11 year relationship and the last 2-3 years was exactly the same as you described. I wanted to leave but her entire life was wrapped up in me and she would've had to essentially start ALL over at age 30-something and I didn't want her to go through that.
Ultimately, though, I had to choose me because being unhappy for the remaining 50 years of my life wasn't an option. Breaking up was one of the best decisions I've ever made.
I know I'm the problem, because I don't want a relationship. Im even up from and say I'm not relationship material but these chicks swear they can change me. They end up falling in love and every time I leave they try to drag me back in. What's a nikka to do who just wanna fukk from time to time but don't but escorts
If you're up-front with your intentions then you're not the problem. Society tells us that we need relationships, but if that's not you then it's just not you.
It ain't for me. All I need is they mouf n puzzy. All the rest of that shyt that comes with a relationship hold me back and drain my time n resources. Women require attention, time, and money to keep happy
Yup. As men, we have to be the provider, the protector, the counselor, the entertainment, and the chauffeur.
Relationships are a drag.
Devilinurear
Veteran
All the time
It takes two breh
I actually don’t mind just casual dating
It’s just like temp jobs you just do your part know it’s going to end and just enjoy while you’re there.
yeah which is why i know i should't be dating for a while until i work out my issues. i definitely had some issues in my past relationships
Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
I've done shyt that I have regretted. shyt that I've had to apologize for and that may have had an impact on the relationship.
But she did shyt too so fukk it
We a$$holes outchea.
But she did shyt too so fukk it
We a$$holes outchea.
