Anyone ever date a girl who was raped?

[Samori Toure]

There's a lot friend.

It takes strength. What bible verse prepares you for the pain of losing a loved one early friend.

At any moment tragedy can strike due to unforseen events or the consequences of ours and others actions.

You have to dig deep and realize that you cannot become a demon or a shut in because you were touched by filth. Especially if you are alive to tell the story.

Fear no man but God. Now obviously, Believing this is easier said then done and it's not something a therapist can talk you through. Friends need friends to talk about their pain but there will come a point where individuals start talking in circles with speech like

I'm so depressed

I'm so nothing

I am filth

I don't deserve love

Everyone sees my shame

I can't recover from this tragedy

I'll live the next 5 decades of my life I the house thinking about my pain.

You don't understand, 50 years ago I experienced demonic filth. You can never understand my pain.

This is when friends have to decide if they want to continue an endless cycle of self loathing and despair or say to themselves, that was then and this is now and Im above my past. But again, friend, that's a personal decision and journey. Let's not use our pain to downward spiral or use our pain as a bartering chip for sympathy and passes to act inappropriate

Friend.

Can we at least admit that a lot of rapes and molestation have happened at the hands of the Clergy? People should definitely get counseling for their problems, but the Clergy of the Church has been the place that a lot of people got raped. Just saying.

 

[Mr. Somebody]

Did therapy work for you friend in comparison to God friend?

Perhaps that therapist should get a billboard like hit singles

@Fonsworth

 

[Yehuda]

If they were raped before, they didn't tell me. But I do know some girls that have been raped.

 

[42 Monks]

Did therapy work for you friend in comparison to God friend?

Perhaps that therapist should get a billboard like hit singles

@Fonsworth

put me on ignore

 

[Mr. Somebody]

Can we at least admit that a lot of rapes and molestation have happened at the hands of the Clergy? People should definitely get counseling for their problems, but the Clergy of the Church has been the place that a lot of people got raped. Just saying.

I'm not catholic so I can't recommend going to a priest. Catholics are a sect of Christianity that I'm not apart of.

Id recommend doing some research on your church home to be certain they are not involved in any demonic scandals because demons sometimes hide their filth in holy places.

With modern therapy you don't know anything about the person talking to you and you're trusting they aren't a demon.

Knowing some therapist sleep with their patients diesnt stop individuals from recommending therapy though so what are we really saying here.

God's track record is Superior to modern therapies. You have to accept that like Christmas gifts from your grandma

 

[Mr. Somebody]

put me on ignore

Whys that. You have thoughts and opinions like everyone else. You haven't expressed yourself as filth friend so let's move forward amicably

 

[Samori Toure]

I'm not catholic so I can't recommend going to a priest. Catholics are a sect of Christianity that I'm not apart of.

Id recommend doing some research on your church home to be certain they are not involved in any demonic scandals because demons sometimes hide their filth in holy places.

With modern therapy you don't know anything about the person talking to you and you're trusting they aren't a demon.

Knowing some therapist sleep with their patients diesnt stop individuals from recommending therapy though so what are we really saying here.

God's track record is Superior to modern therapies. You have to accept that like Christmas gifts from your grandma

Baptist, Methodist and other Protestant churches have the same problem as the Catholic Church. There are lots of rumors about guys like Eddie Long, etc. Billy Preston mentioned being molested by Church people.

 

[SheWantTheD]

uh no she don't my nikka.....i think i got this..thanks

If she has never dealt with her being raped, talked to someone about it, got professional help, then no you don't got it. Being raped is always going to have an affect on people, healing and putting in the work, understanding it isn't your fault, etc helps but the effect never fully goes away. You just have to manage it.

It also takes years and years of work for people to move on, become more comfortable, change their views on sex into a more healthy, positive, loving kind.

 

[horizon]

Nate Parker didn't rape that bytch, he was acquitted

it's just that simple, isn't it?

 

[Mr. Somebody]

Baptist, Methodist and other Protestant churches have the same problem as the Catholic Church. There are lots of rumors about guys like Eddie Long, etc. Billy Preston mentioned being molested by Church people.

Again friend, it's a small drop in a bucket. Demons have infected every facet of society because these are men.

Knowing this doesn't seem to keep individuals from recommending therapy where the one helping you is completely shielded from scrutiny.

There are many great church homes. I wouldn't shut out god because some individuals run their church incorrectly.

Because really many individuals won't see a therapist ir a church but will give reasons why they won't see either one.

The therapist is to expensive
The church has lost credibility due to scandals

So where does that leave you?

It means you again, have to find the strength within yourself to realize you don't have to be your past and rise above it with God's word since you have shunned fellowship and individual attention. You can do it. Believe in yourself gosh darnit. Pardon my language, friend.

 

[The BasedFather]

Lol my car had multiple cum stains on the headliner from her.

Buy used cars brehs

 

[Dr. Acula]

If I found out She was...I'd dump her

I can't tolerate wacky bytches.

 

[Action Mike]

I'm sorry but I'm not and never will be involved.

 

[intruder]

From what i noticed a lot of women claim to have been molested or raped in some way. Im sure there is some truth to a lot of those claims but i wouldnt say 100%. But I have 3 chicks i fukked with who said they had been molested or raped.

1. One is my mexican jumpoff when she was studying abroad in Europe. Seems like some Euros put something in her and her homegirl's drinks or something like that.
   
2. The other was the guyanese chick i used to fukk with. She said a couple of dudes forced her into a 3some. She said she was down to fukk the one but she felt intimidated and went along with it. Knowing her i believe it because she's scared of her own shadow.
3. The last one was the first chick i dated when i moved to GA. She was black American from Virginia. She said her uncle had molested her when she was younger.

I have this trini chick i am strictly friends with tho she has thrown the p*ssy my way a few times but shes too much of a freak for me. THis is the only p*ssy ive ever run away from. shyt intimidates me. Anyway she said she got raped in college. Another friend of hers told me she was molested.

I never knew shyt was so common. I feel bad for women sometimes. ANd you fools who think women got it good are delusional. It's tough.

 

[Giselle]

When you're reborn in christ and or gods teachings your past becomes irrelevant. Hopefully this gives friends the strength to start fresh.

It is so interesting that you say this bc many women have said they would not be with a male who was molested or raped by another male. A lot tried to say it's bc he's probably not over it (without any good reason why they came to that conclusion) and others said bc they would think he's gay or bisexal and that it's a turn off. Or they just don't want to deal with someone like that.

Women (including myself on this one) also don't forget about criminal history or if you were bisexual. Even the women who were/are bisexual wouldn't want a bisexual male. Some even say they won't seriously date a male who was fatherless.

The past is never irrelevant.