Anyone ever date a girl who was raped?

[Arcavian]

You better watch for women too. Women are sexual predators also, and I'm not trying to derail this thread or anything like that. There are a lot of women out here that prey on young boys. When these boys grow up to be men they either psyche themselves to think it was consensual even if they were like 11 because society tells them that they are lucky and they should have wanted it.

There are also a lot of children and teens molesting kids their age or younger when there is a lack of parental supervision. Parental supervision and teaching your kids to not associate with certain people, to not do drugs or take food from people they don't know, etc.

A lot of teen girls get raped from being placed in vulnerable situations surrounded by people who don't have their best interest at heart. Let's say she goes to someone's house with a couple guys and girls her age. She starts having sex with one of the guys, after he's done he gets up and a different guy gets on top of her and she doesn't say anything while it's all going down.

Sleepovers are also a key time where a lot of children are molested. And people and the police, government etc really need to do something about grown men hanging around high schools trying to get at high school girls. How can high school girls openly brag about their 20 something year old boyfriend and no one does anything about it?

This shyt scares the fukk out of me when it comes to having kids

 

[SheWantTheD]

Yeah plenty even though some didn't consider it rape.

I had one that was raped by an older dude she met on the train going to school. She was 14 and he told her he was 18 but she suspects he was 20ish. She wanted to be fast and cut school to meet him and he took her to an empty apt and raped her. She never told her family out of shame but did go to counseling. She was emotionally unstable though.

Another that bothered me was a girl I wanted to marry. She was friends with one of those groupie types out in Hou. They went out to a concert and dinner with some NFL dudes. Her friend talks homegirl into going back to the room to drink and smoke. She disappears with the one guy leaving this chick alone with a dude she didn't know and he ends up grabbing her and forcing her pants off and raping her. She told me she didn't consider it rape cause they had hung out all night....she just didn't want to fukk at that moment and place.

Also knew another chick that managed to get raped at least once every 5-6 months like clockwork for the 2 years I knew her. She either would pass out somewhere from drinking or drugs and wake up with wild stories. She got kidnapped once and gang raped in a van after leaving a roller rink. Never called the police once. I was like bytch you need to just sell that p*ssy then cause you ain't taking care of it at all.

what the fukking shyt?! gang raped in a van?! There are so many fukking savages out here man..

 

[SheWantTheD]

Some of the comments in this thread are why we this happens.

Like what?

 

[SheWantTheD]

When women are playing that hard to get shyt and saying "no stop stop" when you are trying to take their pants off or some shyt.. is that rape? It's never happened to me but women out here need to stop playing hard to get if they want to have sex. If you want to have sex with the guy then just do it, throw all that no stop bullshyt into the bushes.

It blurs the line between consensual and non-consensual sex. Does that shyt lowkey turn on women who may have been raped or forced upon in the past? shyt doesn't make any sense to me. And if a guy asks later "Why didn't you let me smash?" and she comes back with "oh, you didn't try hard enough"

And I'm not saying this justifies rape, but it can confuse a lot of men especially if they are used to it from women not trying to seem easy. Maybe you can tell the difference in the energy and her body language ionno.

 

[cam>]

Man, it wasn't until two years ago that I realized most-not some, but MOST- of my female friends had been raped or sexually assaulted in their lives.

For many it was during college, for some, molestation when they were young.

It's like,I knew the stats and figures of how prevalent rape is, but i mentally distanced it...bc it wasn't my experience, i think.

Anyways, it's for this reason that i take the stand that a rapist should never prosper. no matter what they go on to do in the future, they should always suffer, all their days.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Yes...I am now....Shorty is a sexual FREAK. She is a full time submissive girl tho. It's GREAT af but may seem weird to some.

At first she was on some aggressive shyt....tryna run the relationship....feminist bullshyt....I don't need you, I just have you....Then when she was about to lose me for good she switch up.

to this

Like anything I ask for she will do. Like immediately. Cleans the apt, room, bathroom all the time. Gives me her entire check every two weeks(she says I should handle the finances). Access to any personal information, phone passwords, email passwords. Cooks on demand. Anything sexual on demand. Waking up to head and has swallowed EVERYTHING for months now.

Hasn't called me by my birth name in months...only "Daddy."

Like honestly low key it's like some slave shyt but not on that Josh Brown abuse type shyt

Not sure if it has to do with it but she says she feels "safe" with me

You better get her the help she needs before you impregnate her breh.

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

Damn, I need to get with a rape victim.

Naw breh. I have some bizarre sexual habits now. I may seek therapy. They were some of the first girls I dated so I took on their sexual behavior.

I can't date a girl who wants to talk about feelings and shyt. I'd rather we just fukk and abuse each other. That's normal to me.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Naw breh. I have some bizarre sexual habits now. I may seek therapy. They were some of the first girls I dated so I took on their sexual behavior.

I can't date a girl who wants to talk about feelings and shyt. I'd rather we just fukk and abuse each other. That's normal to me.

they put an imprint on you breh, probably why you got into several long term relationships with women who were raped, molested, sexually abused etc.

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

they put an imprint on you breh, probably why you got into several long term relationships with women who were raped, molested, sexually abused etc.

You're right man. I hate saying that. But yeah, you're right. I'm noticing a pattern in my life.

 

[Easy-E]

Yes. She was non-black, her neighbor used to rape and molest her a lot when she was young. She told her parents about it, but they were too scared to confront him about it because his family was well known in their area...Was the first person she told it to besides her parents. Can't even front, it changed our relationship. She had a ridiculous sex drive because of the abuse, was difficult to deal with after a while. She was incredibly loyal and a good person though.

I hate hearing stuff like this.

These types of cowards don't deserve kids. Destroying an entire generation.

 

[Birdie]

No one wants to talk about this but the majority of women as children who are abused or raped usually had it done by another woman. That's what happened to the chick I dated and her cousins.

 

[The Jewnited States]

my ex was raped while drunk when she was 16

honestly idk if it happened for real or if it was a way to get sympathy though

 

[Darealtwo1]

You better get her the help she needs before you impregnate her breh.

uh no she don't my nikka.....i think i got this..thanks

 

[horizon]

I wonder how many of you defend Nate Parker in other threads

 

[Prince Mongo]

I wonder how many of you defend Nate Parker in other threads

Nate Parker didn't rape that bytch, he was acquitted