Anyone ever date a girl who was raped?

[HopeKillCure]

Yes. She was non-black, her neighbor used to rape and molest her a lot when she was young. She told her parents about it, but they were too scared to confront him about it because his family was well known in their area...Was the first person she told it to besides her parents. Can't even front, it changed our relationship. She had a ridiculous sex drive because of the abuse, was difficult to deal with after a while. She was incredibly loyal and a good person though.

 

[Lo-Co]

This is interesting.

 

[luckyse7enz]

Two for sure that I can recall at the moment, but definitely agree with the notion that you're almost guaranteed to meet more than a few chicks with rape/molestation stories if you date regularly.

I think I'm more surprised at how often you'll come across chicks who've gotten abused by an ex. shyt like that makes me figure there'll always be a decent looking chick out there that's more than glad to be with a regular dude that's gainfully employed and won't hit them or try to force themselves onto them.

 

[Paradise]

This is a classic thread. You made the first page.

No seriously... I'm intrigued that women feel comfortable enough telling a man that they are casually dating that they've been raped or molested.

 

[Mr. Somebody]

When you're reborn in christ and or gods teachings your past becomes irrelevant. Hopefully this gives friends the strength to start fresh.

 

[Sypress]

twice and both of them were so ashamed they decided not to report it to the police

 

[ezrathegreat]

Had a chance to but passed on it. Her assault was pretty recent so I didn't want to confuse her.

 

[Afro]

twice and both of them were so ashamed they decided not report it to the police

The real ones are almost never reported and the fake ones always are

 

[InDePickWest]

You probably have. Most of my friends had rape stories. It's so common. We really got to protect our daughters against these monsters but a lot of the time, the monster is her own dad/step dad/uncle/cousin.

Little girls can't grow up w/o some man trying to touch her private parts.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Several actually. It's pretty common in our community. Very sad state of affairs.

 

[InDePickWest]

The real ones are almost never reported and the fake ones always are

Which is like 9/1.

 

[Conscious Pilot]

Yeah I think most guys have been with at least several who have been taking advantage of.

That first chick fighting in her sleep though is

 

[Afro]

You probably have. Most of my friends had rape stories. It's so common. We really got to protect our daughters against these monsters but a lot of the time, the monster is her own dad/step dad/uncle/cousin.

Little girls can't grow up w/o some man trying to touch her private parts.

Yeap and I've met these dudes too

"Family secrets" BS. When I have kids I'm checkin her family hard. At most they will be around grandparents.

 

[akata]

No seriously... I'm intrigued that women feel comfortable telling a man that they are casually dating that they've been raped or molested.

Why should it be a secret?

 

[Tunez]

Taking notes