trying to put one on meSo you've been charged with violating the restraining order or is she tryna to put one on you?
and im not gonna lie, the firearm shyt is throwing me off.
she has a crazy insecure mexican boyfriend now. i need it on me

trying to put one on meSo you've been charged with violating the restraining order or is she tryna to put one on you?

Since it’s zoom I don’t think you need to wear a suit. A collared shirt would suffice.
Does she have proof that you are a threat to her? Like phone and text records? Police reports? Have you hit her before? Videos, etc? I know how this shyt works, my close cousins has gotten 3 restraining orders put on him by 3 different women.trying to put one on me
Does she have proof that you are a threat to her? Like phone and text records? Police reports? Have you hit her before? Videos, etc? I know how this shyt works, my close cousins has gotten 3 restraining orders put on him by 3 different women.
Well you should be gucci then. Question though, and be real with us here. Do you not want the restraining order because you hope to still be able to see her? Are you really over the situation? Like want nothing to do with her?she has some texts of me saying leave me alone and calling her ugly
she has literally nothing else but lies that i can prove wrong
Well you should be gucci then. Question though, and be real with us here. Do you not want the restraining order because you hope to still be able to see her? Are you really over the situation? Like want nothing to do with her?

Love is a powerful drug my boy. The law doesn't stop many of men from still reaching out after a restraining order is in place. I'm wondering why though she felt the need to get a restraining order against you and go through this court process. Usually when women do this, they are legit afraid of someone. Be smart out here my boy. Let her go, move on and time will heal that wound eventually. Women fall in and out of love in days. For men, it takes us years. Women love often, men love hard.honestly i do care about her and reading her statement it sounds like some shyt done out of anger and through her boyfriend(she mentioned him every other sentence)
but nah, you get the law on me its over between us as far as any sort of closeness.
but whats wrong is i really cant say if she contacted me years from now i wouldnt answer![]()
Love is a powerful drug my boy. The law doesn't stop many of men from still reaching out after a restraining order is in place. I'm wondering why though she felt the need to get a restraining order against you and go through this court process. Usually when women do this, they are legit afraid of someone. Be smart out here my boy. Let her go, move on and time will heal that wound eventually. Women fall in and out of love in days. For men, it takes us years. Women love often, men love hard.

I’ve never had to go to court before and this isn’t a too serious charge, no time on the table. I don’t think i need a lawyer at the moment (I’m looking into one), but it could affect me for life.
the shyt is in another state so I plan to attend virtually
I have mad details and some evidence to contradict. But idk if I lay that all out
Any coli brehs beat a case before?
Thanks. I’m gonna get a lawyer. I have everything written down but I’m not a great public speakerI had a frivolous lawsuit filed against me for copyright infringement. Got a lawyer asap and he handled it quickly and got it dismissed.
Had I tried to do it cheap and defend myself dolo, I would open myself up for substantial liability...
Get a lawyer breh....this isn't like tv where you can defend yourself and win...
See I didn’t k ow I could get a public defender for this kind of case. Thanks brehThis is great advice. To add to that, if you can't afford a lawyer one will be appointed to you...nah just kidding. Seriously, if you can't afford a lawyer look up public defenders within that jurisdiction and give them a call. Also, the court may ask to see financial documentation, or lack thereof, indicating that you are indeed indigent and cannot afford an attorney. The less you say on the record, the better. Be punctual, presentable and show deference.
Unless there’s proof that you’re a threat (incl text msgs or voicemails) ur straight. HOWEVER from experience DO NOT go before a judge without representation. If she has an attorney and u don’t they will roll over u.a no contact order from a bitter ex in another state
shes saying she doesnt want me to own a firearm, go to any sites she's on, and a bunch of other ridiculous shyt. but no jail
its not true and i have evidence even showing she's the one who tried to contact me through family after blocking her for a year
the lawyer thing is me putting it off due to finances and alot of stuff goin on
If I have to empty my amc stock for it, I might just take that shyt bro. That’s all I got.Hell yeah had to spend 15K on a lawyer and they ended up removing me from the charges/indictment a few weeks before the trial.