Anyone have the goat advice on improving your text game?

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Always leave open ended questions regarding things she likes to talk about or interests her the most ..


Then when she answers , the ball is in your court on when / if you choose to reply and give you a chance to answer with a 1-2 texts to elaborate .. then hit her with another open ended question .. Rinse & repeat

She will most likely reply quicker to things that interest her or are about her life .. and she will be eager to wait on your response regarding it :manny:



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Always leave open ended questions regarding things she likes to talk about or interests her the most ..


Then when she answers , the ball is in your court on when / if you choose to reply and give you a chance to answer with a 1-2 texts to elaborate .. then hit her with another open ended question .. Rinse & repeat

She will most likely reply quicker to things that interest her or are about her life .. and she will be eager to wait on your response regarding it :manny:



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Right on antagonize her a lil bit.



Op it depends on what type of hoe rat you trying to hit
 

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GOAT answer..

Be yourself!

There is no best way to text someone! Everyone is different!

If a woman fukks with you, then she fukks with you!!!! A woman who truly fukks with you will accept whatever text you send her.

Women who have all these rules(which may or may not be shared with you) about which text captures her attention or not probably isn't really into you to boot..

Same goes with men..

Some people like long ass texts. Some like short, to the point texts. Other people don't like texting at all and prefer to talk on the phone. Then you have those who don't like texting nor talking on the phone, but rather have face to face interaction.

Then you got people that aren't good communicators, so trying to communicate with them by any method will be ineffective.

Point is OP...

If you are talking to someone and want to hear from them, then hit them up. Send a text. See what happens?? Don't try to figure out how someone may receive your text. Once again, a woman who likes you will respond to you w/ a sense of urgency whether it be brief or in depth..

Straight up!
 

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Stop overthinking... it isn't that hard that was my problem when I was younger breh.
 

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GOAT answer..

Be yourself!

There is no best way to text someone! Everyone is different!

If a woman fukks with you, then she fukks with you!!!! A woman who truly fukks with you will accept whatever text you send her.

Women who have all these rules(which may or may not be shared with you) about which text captures her attention or not probably isn't really into you to boot..

Same goes with men..

Some people like long ass texts. Some like short, to the point texts. Other people don't like texting at all and prefer to talk on the phone. Then you have those who don't like texting nor talking on the phone, but rather have face to face interaction.

Then you got people that aren't good communicators, so trying to communicate with them by any method will be ineffective.

Point is OP...

If you are talking to someone and want to hear from them, then hit them up. Send a text. See what happens?? Don't try to figure out how someone may receive your text. Once again, a woman who likes you will respond to you w/ a sense of urgency whether it be brief or in depth..

Straight up!
You always come with straight up logic salute breh.:salute:
 

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You always come with straight up logic salute breh.:salute:

Much respect for the accolades, breh!

Breh, I been through psychological Vietnam with women throughout my adult life, so I had to learn the hard way of how shyt goes..

I learned to find out where you stand with people asap so you will know how to deal with them.

The sooner you get your moment of truth, the more you will be at peace with yourself..

Worrying about how women will respond to you is the quickest way to get your feelings hurt!

Just do you and shyt..

Either a woman will rock with ya or not!

For those who do rock with ya, they will let you know.

For those who don't, they may or may not let you know, but they will for damn sure will tell you through their actions!

This is what I have learned, so perhaps people will also learn this life lesson...
 
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Much respect for the accolades, breh!

Breh, I been through psychological Vietnam with women throughout my adult life, so I had to learn the hard way of how shyt goes..

I learned to find out where you stand with people asap so you will know how to deal with them.

The sooner you get your moment of truth, the more you will be at peace with yourself..

Worrying about how women will respond to you is the quickest way to get your feelings hurt! Just do you and shyt..

Either a woman will rock with ya not!

For those who do rock with ya, they will let you know.

For those who don't, they may or may not let you know, but they will for damn sure will tell you through their actions!

This is what I have learned, so perhaps people will also learn this life lesson...
Facts breh I had to learn the hard way through heartbreak. Many can learn from what you said. Thanks
 

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Something about it that doesn’t click with me. I usually try and just use it strictly as a step to meet someone, but that shyt is lame now. These ladies expect more and I’m trying to give em more :mjlit:


Can someone talk about striking a balance between not sending essays but not trying to seem to keen either? Or do you mostly just keep it fun and playful?

Anyone good at this shyt? Help pls

And I’m talking romantically... I don’t need anymore female friends:unimpressed:

You can improve your text game by simply not texting females between dates period. I’ve found time and time again that even if they were starting the convos with me that they’d lose interest if I kept texting back and my game is strong. So nowadays if they text me I answer but I never keep the convo going for any reason.

This way I build up my rapport with her face to face where I can apply looks, charm, swag, chivalry, and standard of living as methods to seduce her. I don’t start texting regularly until I’ve had sex with her and I know she wants seconds.
 

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1st thing to do is to ot listen to these dumb ass no p*ssy getting dweebs in here talking about let her do most the texting and only texting to set up dates. Horrible advice. She gonna think you're not interested. Remember women thrive on attention especially if they're younger.
The fine balance is don't hit her up everyday but dont ignore her either. Every other day until yall build a close relationship will work.
Dont write long ass essays. Dont reply back super quick keep it 3-6 minutes when you aint doing shyt but laying in the couch and when you're busy get her when you can. Dont be scared to leave her unread every once in awhile.

When it comes to convo find out about her, crack jokes, have a regular conversation. Don't leave one word answers, you have time to come up with complete thoughts. If she's talking about stuff you're not interested in remember she cant see your expressions so fake interest.

Only difficulty you should run into is picking up on normally verbal ques like sarcasm and tone.

Follow this guideline and you should be good playa
 

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Crack jokes

Never send more than 2 texts in a row

Never text first unless you are planning something

No titan graphs

Use phrases like I understand and I feel you

Break the sexual plain as quickly as possible without being a creep

Don’t send dikk pics unsolicited

Get her in the habit of sending you pictures

Don’t beg for pictures (I know this is a contradiction but it’s real)
 

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It is hard getting to the rapport stage of texting for sure. I think like others said asking some open ended questions or trying to finesse their response into some 'deep' questions works well. Then I get to the point where if I'm not laughing at a text I send it's not worth sending until I laugh or im like :leon:/:lolbron: Sho I can ideally get something from her end like :shaq: Making me :whoo:/:mjlit:
 

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Facts breh I had to learn the hard way through heartbreak. Many can learn from what you said. Thanks

No doubt!

Also, remember this..

Never accept you being rejected as an L for you!

How can you catch an L over something that you never had nor was promised to win?

No woman owes you shyt!

But, you don't owe them shyt either!

It DOES go both ways!

You gotta look at it like how they look at things..

You are the prize! A woman who rejects you simply is missing out on a good thing!

But, you also look at it as her doing you a favor for rejecting you because she don't deserve you!

I can't be worrying about how someone may feel about how I text them because it isn't about how I text them.

It is about me thinking about them enough to take the time that I could have used to do something else besides texting, meaning..

I made the effort!

It's also called being a man!

Women want men to pursue them, right?

So how are you fukked up for doing something that is expected of you to do?

You may not be the person who they want to pursue them, but that doesn't make you a loser just because you tried??

If it is really important on how you should communicate with someone, then that person should tell you how to communicate with them.

If they don't do that, but still judge you negatively, then that should tell you how they really feel about you as well as what type of person she is..

In all, people only give a dsmn about people they wanna give a damn about! If a woman is a real one, then she will let you know through actions and/or words.

Those who are on the bullshyt will also let you know through words and actions.

From there, you be to decide whether said person is worth your time/effort or not??
 
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