Anyone Here In An Interracial Relationship?

[MaxPain]

Yeah, I think this is where I'm fukked up. I went to an all-white highschool, and middle-school.

Before Trump, I used to give them the benefit of the doubt - but now that I know how a lot of White Society thinks, I think differently now.

Partly feel like I've been indoctrinated with White Culture, and it makes it harder for me vibe with my Black Friends.

Feel like I'm in this situation where I always feel out of place.

Theres other black girls out there like you, just gotta find those

And tbh white people as individuals arent bad. Ive met some that had my back more than any black person. But as a collective they are horrible. When u date one u eventually deal with that collective and thats what I dont wanna deal with.

 

[Ezra Enzo]

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[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Me once...black chicks be staring you down with dirty ass looks,and will give you shytty,rude service at the store/restaurant if you with your pawg

Some of thecoli gonna get emotional and salty though

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

I've never been in a relationship with a white woman yet so I don't know how it feels to be out in public in that situation but if you're one of those people that pay attention to random people you don't know and worry about what other people think then you may as well give up on interracial dating. You probably won't be able to handle it.

I couldn't give a fukk less what other races of people think or some lames giving bad looks. I don't get how people let these goofy looking white boys or whoever else get in their head. They shouldn't even have the courage to say something.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Ok OP i shall bite....

How do deal with going out in Public? - Quite a few middle age or younger black women here give me some serious hard looks or some very especially because my female is older than me (45) so they think some "transaction" is going on but that isn't the case. They will openly engage me as to why I am with a white female which I do not mind discussing but at the end of the debate most will look and . Black men are the total opposite here will just and keep it moving...

Older black women have pulled me aside/given me the serious and asked me what the deal was and I simply tell them "This is the woman I am with and it's as simple as that".
Quite a few of the same women have tried to give me their number on the low seeing if they can pull me away but no I am good.

What state are you in? WA


How do you guys feel when you're out in public? We are just fine and we don't pay any mind to it. Some of the shyt is down right hilarious... Plus many interracial couples up here in WA but a well to do black man will seriously shine in public so you will get the most stares.


Are you uncomfortable?

No. I am a man and if anyone has an issue simply approach me and make an attempt if they are angry. My compact USP or my hands will settle all that as I certainly don't mind giving a lesson. I am a grown ass black man who works for himself. I run my own show and nobody tells me how to conduct myself when it comes to dating regardless of what color she is.

Any other questions please ask.

I bagged me a 41 yr old ..WA got some freaks..older white chicks are my kryptonite ..they be freaky as fukk

 

[Mike809]

Not with a white woman , but my ex is asian ...Filipino to be exact.

 

[Shadow King]

Been there before when I used to date white girls. shyt would blow my mind. I would be cup caking with Beth one minute and briefly turn my head and see a sista with her arms folded Ice grilling me hard. I don't date white girls anymore that shyt would always trip me out.

So you stopped dealing with a group of women to appease another group of women that probably wouldn't have paid half the attention if you were in public by yourself?

 

[King of Creampies]

I bagged me a 41 yr old ..WA got some freaks..older white chicks are my kryptonite ..they be freaky as fukk

Man dont say shyt on it because it is really a best kept secret on that. If you know what im talmbout then you know

 

[Nikki_04]

I haven't, but I am considering it.

I have been out with male friends/classmates who were of another race and it didn't bother me so much that people stared, but I could tell it made them pretty nervous (especially when one got stared down by a group of men)

 

[GoAggieGo.]

I'm about "6'2 190lbs
We went in to get munchie snacks and slurpees and this cac just had the dirtiest look of jealousy/disgust and I asked him why he looked so mad. He said he wasn't mad at first but I kept tickling my girl to make her laugh and he snapped and said to cut it out. Once he bagged our shyt I threw a $20 at him and said to feel better

I don’t know why, but this shyt got me dying. Picturing a grown ass man telling another grown man to cut it out

 

[ImGucci]

That’s why I broke up with the white girl I dated last year, once you feel the awkwardness and the social reactions to you two going out. It’s hard to keep up the facade.

I got to the point I didn’t like going out with her at all, and she wasn’t a fat chick, I felt she was too hot as a white girl to be going out in public with, cause I knew I would get a lot of hate from white men. And she lived in a mostly Jewish neighborhood. She was Jewish, she lived in Park Slope.
Unless she’s a homebody, I would break it off.

 

[godliness]

So you stopped dealing with a group of women to appease another group of women that probably wouldn't have paid half the attention if you were in public by yourself?

nah. I just honestly prefer black women. I've always liked all kinds of women. However I can't see myself being with a white woman long term. Maybe a Latina but not white.

 

[semtex]

People stare at me no matter who I’m with cause we make a good looking couple

 

[AlainLocke]

Y'all nikkas breaking up with bytches cause you don't wanna deal with the social awkwardness?

 

[JahFocus CS]

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