anyone here not close to a long time friend anymore?

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havent had a close friend in years...shyt requires to much effort im wack at initiating shyt so damn near all my friends have faded :yeshrug:
 

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Me and this n!gga were close friends since 2nd grade, then around our 2nd year of college we drifted apart.. i started chillin with a new crowd, the old crowd didnt think i fit in no more, so i moved on :ehh: i moved outta state, he moved out, havent heard from him in like 2 years :yeshrug: i grew up with that circle tho
 

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One of my friends, we've been friends for 22 years. I'm starting to hate this bytch. She waited until she was 33 years old to start being a dyck rider. She big up's people, who dont even know she exists. Everyone is all of sudden her sister or brother and every thing I say on FB, here she comes debating me back and forth. She went back to school for a BA in criminal justice and I told her I think she would be a good probation office or something like that and she went off on me, saying how am I going to tell her what she is good at and blah blah blah. She calls me gossiping and then keeps repeating the gossip over and over from different angles to stretch out our conversation. And the bytch told me her father died when she was younger but her damn daddy was at her graduation. I didn't even say anything. She lies all the time about stuff now.
 

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Only reason im not as close to my long time 2 friends cuz they dont keep in contact
u got a phone to txt or call hit me up with a email from time to time

i aint gonna be the only one to do that shyt so i tend too stop that completely and then they ask me y havent we talked in forever CUZ UR ASS DONT DO THOSE THINGS I JUST SAID :snoop:
 

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yeah i mean i just graduated last may and people just kind of fade in and out of your life. as much as people wanna place blame and shyt, it's usually just out of sight out of mind. most of my friends i could probably pick shyt up right where i left off even if i aint seen them in months or years.


there's always that first half an hour or hour where u tryna figure out shyt to talk about thats not boring after seeing someone after a long time, but after that it's back like we homies


good friends that were girls, i think those fade away in general. or at least the ones from college for the most part have, save maybe one or two



EDIT: it's also difficult for me to keep contact, i dont know why. i'm just not big on texting, letting alone texting inane shyt to try and keep in touch. if you're in the area, hit a breh up
 

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One of my friends, we've been friends for 22 years. I'm starting to hate this bytch. She waited until she was 33 years old to start being a dyck rider. She big up's people, who dont even know she exists. Everyone is all of sudden her sister or brother and every thing I say on FB, here she comes debating me back and forth. She went back to school for a BA in criminal justice and I told her I think she would be a good probation office or something like that and she went off on me, saying how am I going to tell her what she is good at and blah blah blah. She calls me gossiping and then keeps repeating the gossip over and over from different angles to stretch out our conversation. And the bytch told me her father died when she was younger but her damn daddy was at her graduation. I didn't even say anything. She lies all the time about stuff now.

i came across these friends/folks, they have people in their circle for just 5 mins and now its "brother" and "sister"..etc..
 

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i came across these friends/folks, they have people in their circle for just 5 mins and now its "brother" and "sister"..etc..

She tells people I'm her sister instead of being honest and saying I'm her friend. I have people coming up to me thinking im blood related to this chick. Some one told me she was bipolar, never realized it until now.
 

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yup lent one of my closest friends like 200 bucks never got it back, yet i saw dude on facebook going clubbing every week and going away on vacation that was the last straw been like 2 years and ive never said crap to him, and this was a dude i considered like my brother at one point

i just have acquaintances no friends
 

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I had to lose some friends or end up in jail or dead like them, they understood though.
 

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Breh I'm only 24 and all my friends from way back fell off the map. Almost every case it's them playing house with their girl and not being allowed to do what they want anymore lol
 
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