Anyone here scared to talk to females?

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Big difference between scared and nervous.. I talk to anyone/everyone but I know friends who are "nervous" not scared.
 

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My little cousin is college aged now yet still scared to talk to females and when I say talk to females, I mean he's scared to look them in face, make eye contact with them, be in their presence, talk to them, everything

He told me that he used to get played and called ugly all the time when he was younger, so it crushed his self esteem and now he's anxious around them. He's scared to even walk by girls because he's scared they'll react negatively, freak out, call him ugly or laugh at him


Is this a normal thing among young people nowadays? Never heard of a nikka scared to talk to females until now :patrice:
1) Tell him to join nofap

2) tell him him to assume every woman he meets is taken and otherwise think he's unattractive

3) tell him to practice looking people in the eye on a day to day basis for long periods of time(start off wearing sunglasses)

4) learn to accept the fact that women eat, shyt and smell just as nasty as his funky ass. Women aren't special.

If all else fails, base your swag on ya favorite actor, singer etc. I used to swagger jack Tyler durden or jerry magurie/tom cruise in general.

I was a negro who resorted to white boy swag cuz he can't pull off black man swag :to:
 

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Hopefully you're schoolin'em. 1st, ugly is relative. 2nd, there's more to attraction than looks. Gotta work wit what you got. Smart, funny, interestin', charmin' gets brothers laid regularly.
why don't you 2 put sum bread up to see who bags the most broads??

It provides competition+adrenaline

He'll transition outta that without even knowing...
Word! Played this game at every event/gatherin' as a teenager. Lookin' back on it, it probably took the edge off, thinkin' about beatin' the homies & less about the broad.

We had different versions too:
-Had to ask for a number by the 5th question/statement.
-Askin' for a number with the very 1st question.
-Handin' chicks a note... elementary school shyt like, do you like me? Or, am I good lookin'. Yes/No. All types of stupidness.
 

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Say wut? :what: how would it reduce your testosterone?

and wuts your idea of frequently?
Facts on how to improve testosterone taken from mensfitness



Fact 5#
5 Don’t overtrain
Excessive exercising increases cortisol, a stress hormone that competes with testosterone and breaks down muscle. Researchers at the University of North Carolina found that overtraining can lower your testosterone levels by as much as 40%. Resting isn’t slacking off – make sure you take time out.
 

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Fact 5#
5 Don’t overtrain
Excessive exercising increases cortisol, a stress hormone that competes with testosterone and breaks down muscle. Researchers at the University of North Carolina found that overtraining can lower your testosterone levels by as much as 40%. Resting isn’t slacking off – make sure you take time out.
Yeah I didn't tell him to overtrain tho , just to get a gym membership, lifting weights will increase his testosterone as long as he duznt overtrain
 

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Yeah I didn't tell him to overtrain tho , just to get a gym membership, lifting weights will increase his testosterone as long as he duznt overtrain
dude with no self esteem goes to the gym and starts seeing definition, do you honestly think from there he'll be like cool, time quit that now i'm good?
 
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