What was it like ? Did you initiate it? What caused it? Did you feel better after? Was it more stressful than you thought it would be or less stressful? Would you marry a black person again?
Anyone on here ever been divorced
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Mrhateeverything
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I wouldn’t get married again . It felt like being trapped and I hate being trapped .
having to answer to someone , ehh.
It was a mutual agreement . We both didn’t like each other anymore . Writing was on the wall , we didn’t respect each other anymore
Hurt at first but Felt so much better after we was through .
It was a huge relief when I realized it was over , I really couldn’t stand her at all.
I do get tired of people really fast. I’m better off single and enjoy it more tbh
having to answer to someone , ehh.
It was a mutual agreement . We both didn’t like each other anymore . Writing was on the wall , we didn’t respect each other anymore
Hurt at first but Felt so much better after we was through .
It was a huge relief when I realized it was over , I really couldn’t stand her at all.
I do get tired of people really fast. I’m better off single and enjoy it more tbh
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Mrhateeverything
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I was for a minute . Maybe a year after we were married I realized it wasn’t going to be happily ever after and didn’t love her as much as I thought i did .
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It’s not something I wanted to do but things just couldn’t be repaired
After counseling and hearing some of the stories of her past
And no it wasn’t that she was a hoe
But she was a victim of sexual assault
She buried it deep down and it all came rushing out one day
We tried for 6 months after that counseling session and ultimately it was her decision to go through with the proceedings
The legal divorce part was easy because I didn’t want anything from her but shared custody of my daughter
And all she wanted was child support
But I let her have everything
The house, the ride I bought her, everything
I needed a fresh start and she as well
She eventually sold our home and tried to give me some paper but I told her to invest into our daughters college fund/trust
It was tough for about a year
Buried myself in work and when I had my daughter on the weekends(like I still do)
Preoccupied all my focus on her but during the week was rough
Won’t lie 3 of those months I was drinking
The feeling of failure, guilt, shame
I really wanted to stay with her
Didn’t want my seed growing up in a broken home and our coparenting skills were terrible at that time
Eventually we both got deeper help and really focused on the work of healing ourselves
Not just our broken marriage but individually
Met my current wife
Now I truly didn’t want to get married
I was really done with women outside of just beat and skeet
Plus these hoes be acting up
So trying to explore something real with women in this day and age
Especially around 2015-16
That’s where I noticed the shift in bullshyt
But this woman really came into my life
Didnt ask for shyt
Didn’t expect shyt
Was actually nice to me and spoke in a manner I wasn’t accustomed to
Gave me perspective
Told me the truth about her and wasn’t scared to call me on bullshyt
And so here we are 5 years deep and I wouldn’t change the decision I made
But she is the last woman I’ll ever be with seriously
Even if it falls apart
After counseling and hearing some of the stories of her past
And no it wasn’t that she was a hoe
But she was a victim of sexual assault
She buried it deep down and it all came rushing out one day
We tried for 6 months after that counseling session and ultimately it was her decision to go through with the proceedings
The legal divorce part was easy because I didn’t want anything from her but shared custody of my daughter
And all she wanted was child support
But I let her have everything
The house, the ride I bought her, everything
I needed a fresh start and she as well
She eventually sold our home and tried to give me some paper but I told her to invest into our daughters college fund/trust
It was tough for about a year
Buried myself in work and when I had my daughter on the weekends(like I still do)
Preoccupied all my focus on her but during the week was rough
Won’t lie 3 of those months I was drinking
The feeling of failure, guilt, shame
I really wanted to stay with her
Didn’t want my seed growing up in a broken home and our coparenting skills were terrible at that time
Eventually we both got deeper help and really focused on the work of healing ourselves
Not just our broken marriage but individually
Met my current wife
Now I truly didn’t want to get married
I was really done with women outside of just beat and skeet
Plus these hoes be acting up
So trying to explore something real with women in this day and age
Especially around 2015-16
That’s where I noticed the shift in bullshyt
But this woman really came into my life
Didnt ask for shyt
Didn’t expect shyt
Was actually nice to me and spoke in a manner I wasn’t accustomed to
Gave me perspective
Told me the truth about her and wasn’t scared to call me on bullshyt
And so here we are 5 years deep and I wouldn’t change the decision I made
But she is the last woman I’ll ever be with seriously
Even if it falls apart
bammtronics
man sit 'cho ass down!
Avoid rebound relationships & hookups by any means necessary until you've adjusted and figured out your new path.
sanityovar8ted
OG Moma Coli....dat bytch Thowd!!!
He wouldn't divorce me so I bribed him n2 signing including the citation of waiver $150 when he signed n $150 when it was finalized
From the age of 16 until I was 26 we got married in 1996 when I was 19
From the age of 16 until I was 26 we got married in 1996 when I was 19
This
richaveli83
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More often than not I tend to take that L.
GMB brehs@General Mills back in 2013, 2010,2009, 2005,2003
and cant forget also @General Mills back in 2015
fred
and cant forget also @General Mills back in 2015
fred
Vandelay
Life is absurd. Lean into it.
Been married once.
I separated and eventually filed for divorce.
Chick was bisexual who leaned more to being a lesbian and became a serial cheater.
Might give it another go, but it would take a lot.
I separated and eventually filed for divorce.
Chick was bisexual who leaned more to being a lesbian and became a serial cheater.
Might give it another go, but it would take a lot.
