Anyone still stuck on an ex?

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Gotta push forward

Imagine if you died today and you wasted insert time focused on someone who doesn’t want to be with you.

I know it’s tough I’ve been there but just gotta push forward

Someone who doesn’t want to be with you isn’t special
 

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No but I do question my approach with a couple of exes. Whilst I don't like being crossed, where relationships are concerned I just move on. At times, I regret not giving some exes a piece of my mind.
 

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Its been a little over a year since I cut her off after seeing her passive aggressive tweets. We were trying to stay close for a few months. She even tweeted about me cutting her off smh.

Honestly, how do you know if you've moved on? Am i fukkin other chicks, yes. Do I yearn for her presence or wish she was still close to me, no. But i still know she exists in the world and she does cross my mind, but typically in negative ways as I reminisce on how much she lied and changed. I wasn't happy with her at the end of the day.

I don't run from any feelings or emotions anymore. So fukk it. If I saw her today i would likely keep it pushing as she's changed so much. The love is still there though. Even someone that dies you still think about them and the memories you have. So in that way I am stuck I guess.
 

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I’ll sound like a fool but I was supposed to marry this girl I grew up with. I got my current wife pregnant and girly stopped talking to me forever. She got married, which kinda crushed me, though it’s selfish as fukk to feel that way. It ate at me for almost 11 years. She hit me last week out of nowhere and coincidentally she’s going through a divorce and I’m pretty much close to going through the same thing with mine…shyts kinda wild.
Life doesn't hand us 2nd chances like this often breh :manny: only you know if its truly over with your wife, but you and ole girl knew each other and were in that. ima be honest and say it sounds like neither of you really had your current marriages as your 1st choice either.
 
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theres only one I got stuck on for a long time after. I never got any closure to the situation is the reason. its not even that i still wanted to be with her. there was just so much I wanted to say to her I never got a chance. i really just wanted to tell her off one time, and maybe smash one last time. I was way too nice to this chick and she didn't deserve it. But thats when I finally stopped putting women above me and it was good for me :ehh:
 

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It's ego most of the time. Truthfully, probably at least 3 coli brehs probably are dikking her down off and on while you are still thinking about cupcaking because you are a precious cake boy. That's the way the game goes. She ain't even thinking about you.
 
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