Anyone still stuck on an ex?

[Jasonmask]

Was watching casino earlier and it made me snap out of it, I don’t wanna end up like Sam man lol that could’ve been me damn there

 

[Rozay Oro]

Ofukk all my old hoes

 

[Timbs]

There's one I still miss, but the old her is dead. When a good girl goes bad, she's gone forever

 

[International Playa]

Broke up 10 months ago, I was devasted. Was supposed to buy a house together, get engaged, plan for a baby this year.

For a while I still stalked her social media for a whilst she was dressing less & going out more . Brehs on here told me to STOP & go cold turkey, delete EVERYTHING about her in my life. I finally did & have healed a lot. Its a process, I'm not fully over her, but I'm almost recovered. She calls once every 6-7 weeks, it disrupts my day for a bit but the attachment getting weaker & weaker.

I smashed about 6-7 escorts (which I don't recommend) when we broke up. Got myself checked, I'm all clear.

My life is getting back in order, bought myself a new 2 bedroom condo, signed back to complete my certs hopefully a new better job soon. I'm getting to know 3 women. I only really like one of them other 2 are just smashing. I'm not fully over her, but I'm nearly there.

 

[maxamusa]

nobody in my family is like that

& nobody where i grew up is like that

that bs was strictly on tv so it always looked goofy because it didn't match what i saw in reality

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its okay to be vulnerable breh, break that cycle beloved

 

[Speaking Womanese]

Nope. He’s got a pregnant belly and wears oversized tees now.

At least I had him when he had definition

 

[NoMorePie]

Only thing I miss about her is her ass

 

[Arithmetic]

Be the one who is remembered, not the one who is forgotten

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

I'd say I was but she hit the wall and is 5 years my junior. I should have seen it coming looking at her mom. That shyt will tell you the future.

Is that shallow? YES but it's reality. Her stock is now considerably below mine. I'm gonna floss a younger woman in her presence cuz I'm petty like that and we still get around each other. I just want to nut in her mouth one more time, turn down the p*ssy then dip like a thief in the night. That is all.

 

[Egomaniacal1]

Yes but I know if I wanted her back I could get her back and you can too OP.

Women aren’t complicated mystical creatures. They all just want a man to fill the role of a man as they see it, give them ultimate attention while simultaneously not exploring our “options” and accept being controlled on some level which is what the relationship construct is designed for.

 

[B86]

Life doesn't hand us 2nd chances like this often breh only you know if its truly over with your wife, but you and ole girl knew each other and were in that. ima be honest and say it sounds like neither of you really had your current marriages as your 1st choice either.

I’ve been thinking about the situation exactly how you broke it down. It’s like the stars are aligning or some shyt

 

[DapMeUp!]

 

[Complexion]

I’ll sound like a fool but I was supposed to marry this girl I grew up with. I got my current wife pregnant and girly stopped talking to me forever. She got married, which kinda crushed me, though it’s selfish as fukk to feel that way. It ate at me for almost 11 years. She hit me last week out of nowhere and coincidentally she’s going through a divorce and I’m pretty much close to going through the same thing with mine…shyts kinda wild.

Breh, total random intuition but I want you to think about what was happening in your life in/around 2004 in this spectrum please. I really get the feeling there is something there in that time period and that it holds the key to all of this for you.

Grab a pad and pen, get to writing and just let it flow as you set adrift on memory bliss. You'll feel it when you find it because the text will jump off the page and spark something in your awareness that links then to the present moment.

Tell me what it is.

 

[LeaveMyHairLineAlone]

"You don't know what you got until it's gone"

 

[B86]

Breh, total random intuition but I want you to think about what was happening in your life in/around 2004 in this spectrum please. I really get the feeling there is something there in that time period and that it holds the key to all of this for you.

Grab a pad and pen, get to writing and just let it flow as you set adrift on memory bliss. You'll feel it when you find it because the text will jump off the page and spark something in your awareness that links then to the present moment.

Tell me what it is.

I’m gonna do that; simply because this is random as hell and 2004 was significant in many ways. When I do it I’ll come back and tell you what I found