Anyone with PTSD and in a LTR?

[An ashy lil fap hand]

I'm not officially diagnosed but I'm black, 28, with dead parents. I have no home to go back to or close family that cares for me. Lately, I've dealt with extreme issues with my girl. She close to finishing med school but hit a delay.

For those that don't know, I'm a rather unknown comedian. It's peaks and valleys and shyt is tight for me right now. Can't support like I want to.

I listen to her problems but when I talk it's all about her. Typical, right? Except I feel extra slighted because I'm traumatized. My question is which one of needs therapy more? The survivor or the insensitive one?

Also, I'm sleeping on my couch cuz I'm too mad to even fukk.

 

[Wiles]

Damn breh thats a tough one...
Most woman now a days are selfish creatures who believe the world revolves around them. Ive yet been able to talk my girl about anything on my mind that would be considered trama and ive been in a relationship for 4 yrs. And she wonders why i want her to move out..

 

[BronxFleeZ]

Smh they think we don't have problems like they have problems. They don't think Maybe we want to release some inner thoughts

 

[Raava]

Did you say anything to her about this? No relationship can work without 2-way communication. If you can't talk to your partner about your problems or anything going on with you what's the point?

 

[SheWantTheD]

Go see an actual therapist breh.

 

[Wiles]

Go see an actual therapist breh.

seriously op should aint no shame in it...

 

[Sleepy Walker]

No

 

[JP_614]

I'm not officially diagnosed but I'm black, 28, with dead parents. I have no home to go back to or close family that cares for me. Lately, I've dealt with extreme issues with my girl. She close to finishing med school but hit a delay.

For those that don't know, I'm a rather unknown comedian. It's peaks and valleys and shyt is tight for me right now. Can't support like I want to.

I listen to her problems but when I talk it's all about her. Typical, right? Except I feel extra slighted because I'm traumatized. My question is which one of needs therapy more? The survivor or the insensitive one?

Also, I'm sleeping on my couch cuz I'm too mad to even fukk.

Go speak to a therapist fam to get your frustrations out but be wise about getting on medications cause they can fukk you up and change your moods as far as depression pills and things of that nature and can even fukk with your sex drive

 

[Neuromancer]

See a therapist breh. If you don't take care of you no one will.

 

[Yehuda]

You're the one who needs therapy, why would the pawg need therapy she ain't struggling

 

[AquaCityBoy]

#YouGoodMan?

 

[An ashy lil fap hand]

You're the one who needs therapy, why would the pawg need therapy she ain't struggling

She is tho. She never lived on her own before and student aid got jacked up at what was supposed to be the end of academics (10 years). She hella stressed and as a decent man, I'm tryna listen but I end up absorbing instead of diffusing.

Did you say anything to her about this? No relationship can work without 2-way communication. If you can't talk to your partner about your problems or anything going on with you what's the point?

I do talk to her but she's sensitive. Everytime I get personal she takes it as an assault on her character. Yesterday I got 3 rejection notices from jobs and I lost 2 steady gigs suddenly. All she had to say was "sorry. I guess I'm ruining your life". I'm like . Then I spent the rest of the night tryna console her while never getting to express myself. I need some objectivity.

Go speak to a therapist fam to get your frustrations out but be wise about getting on medications cause they can fukk you up and change your moods as far as depression pills and things of that nature and can even fukk with your sex drive

I'm not seeking drugs. I just wish I had someone to listen to me and not laugh. I'm a quirky dude. People always laugh unless I'm yelling... And even then.

 

[Mr. Somebody]

EverYonex in the demonic realm has PTSD friend. Maybe it's time for seem Proverbs and scriptures. This is a journey only something greater then you can see you through.

You can't talk your way out of a chemical imbalance, friend.

 

[yeyeye]

EverYonex in the demonic realm has PTSD friend. Maybe it's time for seem Proverbs and scriptures. This is a journey only something greater then you can see you through.

You can't talk your way out of a chemical imbalance, friend.

Not the time breh

 

[An ashy lil fap hand]

Not the time breh

Plus I already have faith

At least I got a laugh. I needed it.