Apparently BM more than any other race of men are attracted to their own women....Why then do people claim the opposite?

[Uachet]

This thread would actually hold some weight if there weren't 200 daily PAWG threads on here.

Even the front page of JBO is full of nothing but PAWGs.

I don't know why nikkas are ashamed of their lust/love for WW. No need to gaslight.

You are judging the proclivities of all Black men based on the proclivities of some here on this website? The data, which is far greater than what is on this website, disproves this assertion yet here you are wanting to continue pushing this. How about you just admit that you hate your own, well that is if you are even one of us to begin with. Since you rather believe and spread a negative narrative about us, even when the actual data shows that narrative is false.

 

[HarlemHottie]

You are judging the proclivities all all Black men based on the proclivities of some here on this website? The data, which is far greater than what is on this website, disproves this assertion yet here you are wanting to continue pushing this. How about you just admit that you hate your own, well that is if you are even one of us to begin with. Since you rather believe and spread a negative narrative about us, even when the actual data shows that narrative is false.

Should I take you as an example of how messed up Black women are, or should I see you for your singular representation of a bitter woman who squandered her youth being a sex-worker? Your proclivity to try to generalize the actions of a few over all Black men exposes you. This is especially the case when people have shown your scorned behind actual studies that disprove your position.

Tried to rep, musta repped you too recently.

 

[Yas]

I would like to say that attraction is irrelevant and as a community we should really worry more about marriage versus attraction. You guys need to use that attraction and put a ring on it. Let's be honest what exactly does attraction do for anyone? as a woman I am attracted to all races of men but that doesn't mean I would marry out of my race. So what is this study suppose to prove.

 

[The ADD]

This thread would actually hold some weight if there weren't 200 daily PAWG threads on here.

Even the front page of JBO is full of nothing but PAWGs.

I don't know why nikkas are ashamed of their lust/love for WW. No need to gaslight.

Lust for white women and who you select to date aren’t always connected

 

[Rapmastermind]

The problem isn't Black Men dating White Women. The Problem is the Media only likes to show Black Men and White Women. They highlight the brothas who date out. Denzel and Samuel L Jackson have been with their Black Wives for Decades. Lebron has a Black wife. This is why they don't show Black Couples in movies. There were more black couples on TV and Movies in the 70's, 80's and 90's than there has been in the last 2 Decades. There's clearly propaganda going on and they are using media to do it. It's always mixed raced. The Majority of Black Men will always love Black Women.

Just because there's a few of us who date out doesn't represent the majority. I would say the numbers are something like 90/10. That 10% gets all the press and all the talk. I could care less about the 10%. I know most of brothas don't date out. Most Black American Men, Date and Marry Black American Women. And if they don't they have to have African/black features (Caribbean/African or Latino etc). My Homie married a girl from DR but she's Dark and I could tell what he was looking for even though she wasn't Black American. I think sports magnifies it. They love showing a white girls at those Draft Parties (Cough Russell Wilson, Cough (But he with Ciara now). NaS said it best:

"Pro Ball Players with White Wives, Peep they night Lives" - NaS

 

[Shadow King]

A few years ago, a poster made a series of threads asking posters to rate female celebrities and public figures based on looks from a scale of 1-10. Every race, nationality, demographic was represented and in the end the most popular women (like the top 15-20) were Black. Kerri Hilson was #1. So even argument that the Coli posters prefer WW falls flat.

To be fair, you did have cats voting on a pointy elbow basis for non-BW. The only one I know escaped that was Salma Hayek.

 

[Shadow King]

The problem isn't Black Men dating White Women. The Problem is the Media only likes to show Black Men and White Women. They highlight the brothas who date out. Denzel and Samuel L Jackson have been with their Black Wives for Decades. Lebron has a Black wife. This is why they don't show Black Couples in movies. There were more black couples on TV and Movies in the 70's, 80's and 90's than there has been in the last 2 Decades. There's clearly propaganda going on and they are using media to do it. It's always mixed raced. The Majority of Black Men will always love Black Women.

Just because there's a few of us who date out doesn't represent the majority. I would say the numbers are something like 90/10. That 10% gets all the press and all the talk. I could care less about the 10%. I know most of brothas don't date out. Most Black American Men, Date and Marry Black American Women. And if they don't they have to have African/black features (Caribbean/African or Latino etc). My Homie married a girl from DR but she's Dark and I could tell what he was looking for even though she wasn't Black American. I think sports magnifies it. They love showing a white girls at those Draft Parties (Cough Russell Wilson, Cough (But he with Ciara now). NaS said it best:

"Pro Ball Players with White Wives, Peep they night Lives" - NaS

Media is not doing this.

 

[V Skyye]

Basically every famous Cac has a thread on lipstick alley where they track their love life obsessivelySome of them 400, 500 pages deep. They have a dedicated sub forum for interracial relationships.

shyt is crazy. It's weird and embarrassing on both sites, actually. LSA threads are bigger because the membership is much bigger. But it's the same on both sites and really sad.

 

[Neuromancer]

This thread would actually hold some weight if there weren't 200 daily PAWG threads on here.

Even the front page of JBO is full of nothing but PAWGs.

I don't know why nikkas are ashamed of their lust/love for WW. No need to gaslight.

The thread with the most posts in JBO is about black women.

 

[Neuromancer]

BM doing it.

And you've spoken to these black men to confirm this right?

 

[Neuromancer]

I'm hoping everyone realizes that both the coli and LSA are microcosms.

But the again most people only focus on negative shyt anyway. Most of the couples I know are black heterosexual couples.

 

[V Skyye]

i dont doubt that

but in my recent experience white girls put in a lot more effort, are more easy going and are forthcoming when they are interested
black women however are disproportionately untrusting, unagreeable, anxious and egotistical as hell

There are reasons for people to be untrusting and anxious in dating. But I do agree that no one wants someone to be egotistical or unagreeable. A lot of brehs also admit to being untrusting and anxious when it comes to dating on this board. And a lot of brehs also discuss difficulties in dating compared to white men like this recent thread Austin Dunham "White men have it easier in dating".

I bring this up because it's not always easy for Black men or women to date, which affects the way people approach dating over time. Black culture is not the same as white where white women can sleep around, explore every option under the sun, and still marry Chad and live a wonderful life. Black women are judged for having sex, not having sex, treated sexually because of our bodies even when doing nothing, get judged for expecting too much before having sex, get judged for not expecting too much before having sex, and so on and so forth. Black men face their own judgments and disadvantages in the dating world. So yes, white women may be more easy going. But the world is theirs and they will have their fun, fukk, and ride off into the sunset without a care in the world. And unless they are doing really off the wall shyt, no one will judge them or hold it against it over time.

 

[Ohene]

There are reasons for people to be untrusting and anxious in dating. But I do agree that no one wants someone to be egotistical or unagreeable. A lot of brehs also admit to being untrusting and anxious when it comes to dating on this board. And a lot of brehs also discuss difficulties in dating compared to white men like this recent thread Austin Dunham "White men have it easier in dating".

I bring this up because it's not always easy for Black men or women to date, which affects the way people approach dating over time. Black culture is not the same as white where white women can sleep around, explore every option under the sun, and still marry Chad and live a wonderful life. Black women are judged for having sex, not having sex, treated sexually because of our bodies even when doing nothing, get judged for expecting too much before having sex, get judged for not expecting too much before having sex, and so on and so forth. Black men face their own judgments and disadvantages in the dating world. So yes, white women may be more easy going. But the world is theirs and they will have their fun, fukk, and ride off into the sunset without a care in the world. And unless they are doing really off the wall shyt, no one will judge them or hold it against it over time.

i think youre overestimating the judgment black women face. lol just look at the media portrayals

nicki
sexy red or whatever her name is
meg

all these ratchet musicians and women follow them unapologetically. if anything degeneracy and debauchery is championed amongst blk women and they are taught simply to chase a bag with wreckless abandon and that nobody can judge them

we gotta stop making excuses for them. a lot of the issues the black community faces is because black women dont know how to choose men - due mainly to them valuing the wrong things (money and clout).

i dont know any white women, asian women, indian women who by and large would actually consider dating scammers and trappers over 9 to 5 nikkas...but in the black community that shyt is common. Its disgusting.

 

[V Skyye]

i think youre overestimating the judgment black women face. lol just look at the media portrayals

nicki
sexy red or whatever her name is
meg

all these ratchet musicians and women follow them unapologetically. if anything degeneracy and debauchery is championed amongst blk women and they are taught simply to chase a bag with wreckless abandon and that nobody can judge them

we gotta stop making excuses for them. a lot of the issues the black community faces is because black women dont know how to choose men - due mainly to them valuing the wrong things (money and clout).

i dont know any white women, asian women, indian women who by and large would actually consider dating scammers and trappers over 9 to 5 nikkas...but in the black community that shyt is common. Its disgusting.

I had a feeling this would be the response, lol. I started to say in my original post that I'm not talking about media. I'm talking about real life. The average Black woman cannot and does not behave like Sexy Red. Many Black women are in college and graduating at record numbers. Yes, there are hood women who are Sexy Red types, but that's far from the majority. White people are the grimiest people known to man but their image is clean because they control their image and the media. White men will never be seen as savages and crooks and white women will never be seen as whores. Even when its what they are.

But in terms of real life, most Black people are not criminals, work normal jobs, and find a way to make it. White and asian women don't have to date "scammers" and "trappers" because their men aren't systematically oppressed from the workforce and put in prison. And we know white men get away with their crimes and nobody says shyt. So they scam and trap as well, but just in different ways. Most American women love men with money and a lifestyle. Most men like good-looking women and easy sex. And I think we've learned from the 600 passport bro threads that things work the same way even outside of America. We have to learn to love ourselves and each other. We look at ourselves and see the worst, and then look at people who look like us and treat each other the worst. We diminish our own value.

 

[Ohene]

I had a feeling this would be the response, lol. I started to say in my original post that I'm not talking about media. I'm talking about real life. The average Black woman cannot and does not behave like Sexy Red. Many Black women are in college and graduating at record numbers. Yes, there are hood women who are Sexy Red types, but that's far from the majority. White people are the grimiest people known to man but their image is clean because they control their image and the media. White men will never be seen as savages and crooks and white women will never be seen as whores. Even when its what they are.

But in terms of real life, most Black people are not criminals, work normal jobs, and find a way to make it. White and asian women don't have to date "scammers" and "trappers" because their men aren't systematically oppressed from the workforce and put in prison. And we know white men get away with their crimes and nobody says shyt. So they scam and trap as well, but just in different ways. Most American women love men with money and a lifestyle. Most men like good-looking women and easy sex. And I think we've learned from the 600 passport bro threads that things work the same way even outside of America. We have to learn to love ourselves and each other. We look at ourselves and see the worst, and then look at people who look like us and treat each other the worst. We diminish our own value.

the average woman doesnt behave like them in Toronto...but I have been on vacation in America or elsewhere and seen the average black american woman look like sexy red or at best ari fletcher

anyways. my point was not that they act like them , but that the mentality in the media affects theirs. you cant tell me the rhetoric of a lot of city girls, meg the stallion, nicki, cardi etc. hasnt affected the way black women think and act in real life. i have seen it first hand