Apparently BM more than any other race of men are attracted to their own women....Why then do people claim the opposite?

[Fiji Water]

No. You made up your own story and I corrected you with a quote literally underlined in blue in the op.


The study does not support the Mandingo theory.

So just say that

You got me wanting to date a non black woman now

 

[Iverson_64]

You are right, and this actually goes for all ethnicities, because a bad attitude is not unique to any group of people. I've dealt with women of all sort of ethnicities and see loud, crude, obnoxious behavior from them no matter what they were. The problem our sisters have is the same problem we brothers have, our negatives are blasted and magnified on purpose by the media machine of the US. Propaganda is a thing, and it is so good that even our own people fall for the BS. It can be so bad, that even some of our own, as has been shown on even this thread, will broadcast the WS talking points.

This is all why I seek to work with actual stats when I can to debunk the BS while also using anecdotal evidence when I can only supply personal experience to help our own see the truth. We are people just like everyone else who have good and bad, we are just unfortunately living in a society that has a desire to make sure our image remains lesser than what it really is. It is also why I am a strong believer that we must control our own narrative and keep and disseminate our own history.

It's the same thing with people acting as though other races don't have deadbeat fathers.

Many Whites and Hispanics have deadbeat dads or single moms but it's not advertised as much.

 

[The Fade]

nikkas dont fight the narratives cause they scared

 

[OG Talk]

"Regular" working class Black men love Black women. The problem is the Black women that are complaining want Jaime Foxx or Michael B Jordan.

 

[Fill Collins]

Go outside nikka, the vast majority of Black people are with Black people

If an adult wants to fw another race, which I find weird af, that's their business

I see Black couples IRL, what I don't see is ppl discussing Twitter bs though

 

[Ohene]

Also, White and Hispanic women can have absolutely terrible personalities themselves.

Puerto Rican and Italian women here in NYC are legitimately louder and crazier than the average sister. No cap.

i dont doubt that

but in my recent experience white girls put in a lot more effort, are more easy going and are forthcoming when they are interested
black women however are disproportionately untrusting, unagreeable, anxious and egotistical as hell

 

[Savvir]

“Homophily” huh?

 

[Lonj]

Look at this self-hating c00n. People are showing actual studies that disprove this narrative, and yet you run right in here to push this WS babble. Are you even Black?

I think he means the narrative which is why he put "lust" in quotation marks. Not that it's true but the narrative became pervasive in American culture making it appear that it is, is what he's saying. Just my guess.

 

[Piff Perkins]

It's definitely a matter of creating division but I also think there's another, less sinister explanation as well: people are just stupid. Barely anyone reads anything, the dominant discussion topics are headlines or pop culture events, and anecdotal observation is deemed more important than actual studies/research. We've been pointing out for awhile that most black men across all income levels date or marry a black woman, yet despite that we always hear the same shyt. "Look at Bronny James" or "look at rappers caping for white hoes" or "look at these athletes" etc etc. I'm not sure how these people can be reached, when they'll simply ignore/forget this study and focus on the random "black man/white woman" couple they see at the grocery store tomorrow.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

I mostly only see Black men with other women in large numbers in California.

But when I point out the c00n culture in Cali, they all get on my back.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Only ugly/fat/ran through black women perpetuate this myth. One or two states (we know which ones) have a high number of bucks/swirlers. The majority of others have mainly black couples.

Ignore the busted broads screaming “woe is me I have 4 degrees”, as if if that’s meant to deflect from your obese ass.

 

[Uachet]

I think he means the narrative which is why he put "lust" in quotation marks. Not that it's true but the narrative became pervasive in American culture making it appear that it is, is what he's saying. Just my guess.

If that is the case, then I will wait until he makes it clear what his intent was to change my response to his post.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

“Homophily” huh?

Don’t even ask me how

 

[Uachet]

It's definitely a matter of creating division but I also think there's another, less sinister explanation as well: people are just stupid. Barely anyone reads anything, the dominant discussion topics are headlines or pop culture events, and anecdotal observation is deemed more important than actual studies/research. We've been pointing out for awhile that most black men across all income levels date or marry a black woman, yet despite that we always hear the same shyt. "Look at Bronny James" or "look at rappers caping for white hoes" or "look at these athletes" etc etc. I'm not sure how these people can be reached, when they'll simply ignore/forget this study and focus on the random "black man/white woman" couple they see at the grocery store tomorrow.

Unfortunately, you are correct. Some will desperately hold on to their narrative, even when the truth is exposed to them multiple times. There is nothing we can do for them. The old saying is true, "You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink".

 

[Gloxina]

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Ive heard black women say those men only date bw because they have no choice and once they move up financially they go for what they really want.

This is definitely a thing, but not as big as some make it