Apparently, Most Of You Brehs Don’t Deserve A Woman Like This!

[analog]

I’m reading all the comments and it’s filled with “Never again. I did this before and he cheated/took me for granted.”

It can’t be just “poor choices” at this point. Are we gonna say women are just terrible at choosing the right men to give their all to? Or are there too many wolf in sheep clothing?

I'm going to be honest, as a father, if either of those two were my kids, I failed them.

There's no fukking way my Son would have to rely on his girl to find work, nor would I ever want my daughter to coach a goofy motherfukker on finding employment.

Wait... now that I think about it, it may be that very reason why folks end up making poor choices. You can't be a good decision maker if no one ever taught you, modeled it and showed you the benefits.

Goodluck to these brehs and brehettes.

 

[Uachet]

I see everyday dudes in relationships no matter where I go, so much so that the 60% sounds way off. How did they even do the study? How many men? what races? What location?

Even if true, that doesn't change the fact that normal good men are also capable of cheating.

What you see is anecdotal evidence. What they have given is a nationwide actual study. So if you want to counter my point, put up an actual study that counters it. Your personal anecdotal evidence is not a counter. I can just as easily counter it with my anecdotal evidence given to me by my wife who 20 years ago worked an alternative school for pregnant and new mother girls.

Story time. 20 years ago, my wife, when starting out as a new science teacher, worked in an alternative school for pregnant girls. In that school, which was from grades 6th - 12th girls from the entire city who were pregnant would be sent there away from the general school population. In that school, fights happened a lot of times. One of the major reasons for the fights you may ask, well it was very common for the girls to be pregnant by the same boys or men. That is right, the girls were fighting because they had the same baby fathers. It was a very eye opening situation for my wife, but I was not surprised at all since I grew up in L.A. and Baltimore and saw it all play out with my own eyes.

Also, your assertion that good men can cheat is too generalized too. 24% of women cheat as compared to 27% of men in marriage. So a man who cheats in marriage is not a good man, just like a woman who cheats in marriage is not a good woman. You should know this, since you use a bible chapter and verse as your nickname.

 

[god shamgod]

Why is this conversation being recorded?

& why is that dramatic music playing in the background?

 

[MostReal]

Another black woman going out of her way to choose a bum.

Somehow being broke and unemployed is more attractive than being a bus driver in our community.

Poignant post

 

[V Skyye]

Men and women unfortunately prefer a little ‘indifference’ when dating. I’ve seen both genders get treated poorly by people who they go hard for. So I’m not surprised by the comments. And I’m sure they’re true.

 

[Buddy]

I definitely DON'T want that

 

[Neuromancer]

I have a woman who will hold me down.

 

[RARI_Godwind]

Damn, I should answer my dms

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[Commish]

Not feeling the title of this thread..

That young lady was talking to her dude like he was a lil boy. She was "lil boyin' " his ass, so I could imagine how their relationship is going to go as they get older. Smh..

It's cool to be ride & die, but the respect has to be there in order for the R&D to be valid!

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

“Black male feminist” in abundance on this site
THE COLI DOT COM

 

[MuzzyP]

What is this, Lifetime?