Apparently this is the most disrespectful thing a man can do

[audemarzz]

Man listen

If there is doubt, I would rather be disrespectful than come out my pocket for 18 years

Right wtf you look like giving up 18 years of your life because you didn't want to be rude.

 

[ThaEruditious]

@Arcavian

You're learning. You earned that dap even though you should be negged relentlessly for the topic.

 

[ThaEruditious]

True.

But depending on the circumstances, it’s also the wisest thing a man can do.

How is this true?

I agree with the rest.

 

[MoveForward]

If the baby isn't yours but if you demand a paternity test and it's yours . She will take that very personal and try her hardest to ruin you.

 

[BaggerofTea]

Stupid posts like these make me physically violent

 

[semicko82]

Sad that the thought of a loving and trusting relationship gets this reaction out of you

It's plenty of suckers who thought they were in loving relationships, and they still were raising a kid who was pawned off as theirs.
You always have to protect your interest at the end of day

 

[Mike Nasty]

Do you have to ask HER for a DNA test?

 

[OG Talk]

How is this true?

I agree with the rest.

I said depending on the circumstances.

If you’ve been happily married for 10 years, with no red flags or signs of infidelity...

I can see how a faithful wife would feel disrespected if I ask her to prove that our first child is mine.

 

[semicko82]

Man listen

If there is doubt, I would rather be disrespectful than come out my pocket for 18 years

This

 

[BmoreGorilla]

If it’s a jumpoff get that test ASAP. If your in a relationship or married proceed with HEAVY caution and make sure you got all your ducks in a row becuz if that baby really is yours she gonna hold that against you till the end of time

 

[Bubba T]

@Arcavian

nikka called for the 1 star on his own thread

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

In the context of a loving and trusting relationship, yes this is a disrespectful question. If you are out here having unprotected sex with randoms then you are going to have a lot of issues to deal with and paternity is just the beginning

Nah, nah. fukk that. I done witnessed a test or 2 (2nd hand) come back negative.

 

[TheBigBopper]

You don’t even have to ask for it. Test samples can be gathered clandestinely. If I ever have children, I plan on doing regardless to whether the mother is a thot. It’s insurance.

 

[Tiffrock]

She's going to put him through hell if it's his and they're together.

angela waiting to exhale

• Tiffrock
• Feb 22, 2018
• angela bassett

angela waiting to exhale

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

This is something you have to just agree on before you get serious in a relationship and make big decisions together.

I'll tell her straight up that I want the child to have a comprehensive DNA test done. Paternity is included in the package. I wanna know if the child will be born with a risk for alzheimers, diabetes, cancer etc. If shes against a detailed test I'm out.

If you want a paternity test done because you have doubts, you're with the wrong woman.