I refuse to go in that thread.
So many pages and I like to read through..too much.
It's true tho I can think someone cute but sexual attraction has to be there. A little innuendo never hurt nobody but the key is she MUST be attracted to you in the first place otherwise it's annoying.
Yea, I'm a speed reader and some of those posts were way too defeatist.
See, a lot of dudes would go a long way with being upfront with their intentions instead of "niceing" their way in.
If they tried some innuendo or light touching in the beginning, they would know immediately whats up instead of guessing.
But I blame a lack of decent male role models. It's the same for me with girls though, if I don't like her like that, it isn't happening.