Approaching Women

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Don't internalize rejection. I'm usually a big proponent of "YOU da problem" school of thought. But when it comes to approaching random people rejection doesn't always mean ur undesirable.

Women have a lot of shyt on their minds usually. Peep the random stream of consciousness below:
"These shoes hurt my feet but i couldn't find the other pair that matches this outfit. shyt I might have a blister by the end of the day. shyt! I gotta turn that assignment in for math class. Them Indians so good at this shyt and im struggling. I don't feel like studying tonight. Oh he's cute. I'm hungry, what imma do for lunch. Damn I forgot to pay car insurance. Now i gotta take money from that account, but I gotta bonus so that'll be coming thru, lemme check my account. Lmao! Twitter wildin today! Oh I got some more followers. Oh that's a nice dress she got on in that picture. Oh an iced coffee... Oh he tryin to talk to me? Not today sir, I look like ass. Do I even feel like going thru another relationship right now? Nah I'm not even on bc. He cute but I'll pass. I need to wash and condition my hair tonight, did i use all my conditioner the last time? Hell i don't feel like going in Walmart tonight!"

Sometimes you ain't even being rejected b/c ur ugly or undesirable. Chicks gotta lotta shyt going on. I also think women should do more to make their interest accessible to men. I hear a lotta complaints about them being overlooked but closed off body language and resting bytch faces and them just literally not being out and about makes it harder on men in an environment that is already irritating.
That stream of thought sounds wildly unstable.
 

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1. Talk to everyone not just females. Get use to the nervousness of approaching and talking to strangers in general. You want this to become a habit. NOT something you just turn on and off. Ya dig?
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not sure if I agree with this. It's easier to talk to a guy then a girl because chicks have this guard up mentality
 
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