Are Black Men Losing Hope?

[mamba]

Society has a way of phasing out black men who are just ordinary people, Everybody expects you to basically be super nikka when it comes to having charisma, swag, money and looks. That's the way we're advertised in the media for the most part. Then you feel the pressure from black women to try be the men they're looking for, especially with how we much hear about most black men not having their shyt together , come to find out that they ain't really checking for you like that either if you ain't ballin out of control by age 23. There's millions of black men like myself and others who just feel invisible on a daily basis.

That's really how the game goes


That's how the game we supposed to fuel the prison system, supposed to sell drugs, get locked up and make cacs a tons of profits. A man without money can't go far at all. A average black guy is probably alone with no one, p*ssy has skyrocketed, sisters think like cac women... It's hard out there. The white man covered all bases.

I don't respect no sister who can't see what we deal with, don't fukk with none of them.

Everyday for any nikka without a advanced degree is probably a struggle, without our own community everything is coming to the white man with open arms. What's a nikka to do? God forbid you uneducated and darkskin,

Damn brehs. That's some real shyt.

 

[Ohene]

Society has a way of phasing out black men who are just ordinary people, Everybody expects you to basically be super nikka when it comes to having charisma, swag, money and looks. That's the way we're advertised in the media for the most part. Then you feel the pressure from black women to try be the men they're looking for, especially with how we much hear about most black men not having their shyt together , come to find out that they ain't really checking for you like that either if you ain't ballin out of control by age 23. There's millions of black men like myself and others who just feel invisible on a daily basis.

nail on the head

 

[Turk]

My financial situation is the #1 reason for all my problems. If my finances were right I'd feel a lot better about myself. I feel like I've dug myself a hole that I can't get out of

 

[philmonroe]

Damn brehs. That's some real shyt.

No its not its some imaginary bullshyt y'all come online to co sign each other on

My financial situation is the #1 reason for all my problems. If my finances were right I'd feel a lot better about myself. I feel like I've dug myself a hole that I can't get out of

This is most people problems truth be told and until you die you still got a chance to get out fam.

 

[pop]

What happened guys? I thought black men ruled the earth? I thought chicks only cared about swag and dikk? Are you guys saying that things like education, economic value, and status are a higher priority to women than dikk and swag. And yall still find a way to blame black women for your downfall, when that is the only group that has our backs. Maybe if you didn't look at every women as a piece of ass, they would be more receptive to you. Women are not dumb. They know when a guy is genuine and when he just wants to fukk. When every women is a bytch/thot to you why would you expect these same bytches/thots to hold you down. Black men are their own worst enemy. Stop being afraid to be different. I got ridiculed for blacks more than other group for listening to stuff like Prince in high school. Black men box themselves in faster than any white man. shyt wont change until black men stop trying to live up to this thug image created in the media. Look at it from another races point of view. Why would you want to be associated with someone who scorns education, being themselves, positivity, ect. The media plays apart, but that is the mindset of many black men.

 

[ShenJingPoQi]

Sadly, most of 'em are not getting any p*ssy either.

Right here is the problem. You’re self-worth and confidence shouldn’t be based on getting puzzy. This should be the last thing on your mind. You play into the hands of women by doing so. Puzzy is overrated and men who chase get anywhere in life usually.

Does it even matter if they getting puzzy or not? There are more important things in life to a man. Such as his health, education, finances, family and friends.

Honestly, forget women and focus 100% on yourself and become the best version possible. The rest falls into place. Chasing p*ssy leads to a life of despair whether you are getting it or not.

 

[ShenJingPoQi]

What happened guys? I thought black men ruled the earth? I thought chicks only cared about swag and dikk? Are you guys saying that things like education, economic value, and status are a higher priority to women than dikk and swag. And yall still find a way to blame black women for your downfall, when that is the only group that has our backs. Maybe if you didn't look at every women as a piece of ass, they would be more receptive to you. Women are not dumb. They know when a guy is genuine and when he just wants to fukk. When every women is a bytch/thot to you why would you expect these same bytches/thots to hold you down. Black men are their own worst enemy. Stop being afraid to be different. I got ridiculed for blacks more than other group for listening to stuff like Prince in high school. Black men box themselves in faster than any white man. shyt wont change until black men stop trying to live up to this thug image created in the media. Look at it from another races point of view. Why would you want to be associated with someone who scorns education, being themselves, positivity, ect. The media plays apart, but that is the mindset of many black men.

THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Music to my ears

 

[Yup]

The average Black man has it hard, breh. Most of our women sold us out a long time ago.

Average cac's life is a cakewalk compared to that of the average Black man.

 

[Yup]

Our women don't understand we are one. We win and lose together. They think that as long as the man is providing them with jobs and welfare they're winning. They just deciding to take out the biggest threat first. Once Black men are totally conquered, Black Women submit without fight.

I believe if things really went as CACs of the past planned it

Black Men
1. Would be doing the hard labor they don't want to do ( Mexicans have cancelled this option)
2. In Prison
3. Death

Black women
1.Would be doing the White women's housework, raising the kids (Mexicans have cancelled this option)
2. The White Man's new favorite past time. Sex slaves.

 

[Yup]

Bunch of whining and woe is me rhetoric. @mamba I don't even know why you have an expectation of black female support when you invest more energy in each thread talking about how low black women rank at every turn. Sorry y'all bunch of bs with nuggets of gold spread throughout. Oh and darskinned females need not apply right? SMH

 

[mamba]

Bunch of whining and woe is me rhetoric. @mamba I don't even know why you have an expectation of black female support when you invest more energy in each thread talking about how low black women rank at every turn. Sorry y'all bunch of bs with nuggets of gold spread throughout. Oh and darskinned females need not apply right? SMH

I didn't rank Black women low. Their behavior has ranked them low in the eyes of the majority of men.

Don't blame me. I didn't create the perception.

Black women and cacs are the ones who promote the idea that dark skin on men is more masculine, animalistic, etc. We don't promote that stereotype as Black men. We're just trying to do the best we can as men. Black women objectify Black men as much as cacs.

Look at Idris Elba. Do Black women describe him in terms absent of objectification w.r.t. his skin? His intelligence, personality, facial features? Nope. It's usually some objectification shyt, like he's some big, Black buck from the slavery days.

 

[aboss4real24]

feminism is killing black men slowly

 

[Yup]

I didn't rank Black women low. Their behavior has ranked them low in the eyes of the majority of men.

Don't blame me. I didn't create the perception.

Black women and cacs are the ones who promote the idea that dark skin on men is more masculine, animalistic, etc. We don't promote that stereotype as Black men. We're just trying to do the best we can as men. Black women objectify Black men as much as cacs.

Look at Idris Elba. Do Black women describe him in terms absent of objectification w.r.t. his skin? His intelligence, personality, facial features? Nope. It's usually some objectification shyt, like he's some Black buck from the slavery days.

And black men behavior have ranked low in the eyes of the world and bringing with him his female counterpart. Women's valu is in direct correlation with jow well their men fare and so black women's status do not surprise me.White women and Asian are not rated highly because they are the best but it in correlation to their men. Black men make black women look bad just as much as black men complain about black women making them look bad.

Black men are always blameless, everything is their white mens fault but somehow that does not extend to black women. Maybe children is more accurate moreso than men.

 

[Yup]

feminism is killing black men slowly

and bigfoot is real.

 

[Yup]

I didn't rank Black women low. Their behavior has ranked them low in the eyes of the majority of men.

Don't blame me. I didn't create the perception.

Black women and cacs are the ones who promote the idea that dark skin on men is more masculine, animalistic, etc. We don't promote that stereotype as Black men. We're just trying to do the best we can as men. Black women objectify Black men as much as cacs.

Look at Idris Elba. Do Black women describe him in terms absent of objectification w.r.t. his skin? His intelligence, personality, facial features? Nope. It's usually some objectification shyt, like he's some big, Black buck from the slavery days.

Love it. Black women's behavior is the root of their marginilization but black male behaviour is due to white menand racism. The poor black men, lol y'all do it to yourself.