Are black women paranoid about being used for sex?

[Action Mike]

I aint even mad.

Just tried to change the direction of the thread from what the issue 'is' to 'why.'

Wouldnt post if i didnt care. I probably jumped ahead.

 

[Keep_It_Hip_Hop_Fam]

If you are having sex without being in a relationship with someone you are not being used for sex. Let that process for a bit.

 

[CinnaSlim]

People are gonna do what they wanna do. The sooner you stop trying to control people and stop assuming, the happier you'll be. (The Four Agreements)

You also can't let fear control your life. Just be smart about things, observe and ask questions. Make sure the actions match the words. It also helps if you take sex off the pedestal. If someone used you for sex, then hey at least you hit And KIM.

in any case take control of your sexuality and make sure you get yours. Don't do anything you aren't comfortable with.

 

[tan900]

Maybe they should date white men to get that hopefulness and optimism back.

Worked for me.

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

U a white man

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

The gender war has surely ruined dating for black women.

Maybe they should date white men to get that hopefulness and optimism back.

People who say things like this must not live in the real world. All the black couples I know in my age range are happy and either engaged or married.

 

[PimpHandStrong]

Damn it just really hit me I'm a scumbag upon finishing this thread, especially @Raedawn07 post....:singlemom:

Cotdamn how did I get here...I used to always pride myself on being a man of integrity.

 

[Raava]

Damn it just really hit me I'm a scumbag upon finishing this thread, especially @Raedawn07 post....:singlemom:

Cotdamn how did I get here...I used to always pride myself on being a man of integrity.

Ok, Pimphandstrong

its dating 2015, I don't feel like people should be paranoid just smart. I feel like a lot of people expect others to think and act like them when that is rarely the case. Guy " If she didn't want to, she wouldn't do it" Girl " He did wouldn't do ______ if was just going to be about sex".