Are dudes out here really getting into relationships with women that don't cook or clean?

Wild self

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All facts. I use to fukk with a bytch. bytch fina dena mug. bytch couldn't cook for shyt. She would take me out, had a daughter and everything, made a good income, I met her from work in oil and gas. She worked accounting. I got laid off and was still fukking with her. She got laid off right after and worked another white collar job in accounting right after.

Long story short, she had roaches in her crib, her daughter had caps from cavities at 4, this bytch was buying her mickey ds everyday and couldn't cook shyt, not even breakfast. I dead that shyt, straight ghost, no break up. All red flags, filthy place, can't cook, bad eating habits, didn't give head, bad at fukking.

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My lady cooks, cleans, wants to be submissive to me...all of the stuff a man can ask for but we are on the verge of possibly breaking up because she's older and I want a child but we both decided it isn't a good idea (her age).

It really sucks to be in this situation because we get a long so great and we are truly best friends. I see whats out here now and it just makes me smh...I'm conflicted:mjcry:

I need a woman's perspective @CarmelBarbie @HarlemHottie
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:patrice: How old is she?
 

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This right here.

You DO NOT want to have a kid with a POS of a female. It's far worse than not having kids.

Imagine wanting to be a dad so bad and wanting to be there for your child and the scorned mother tells you beat it and then you need to go the court route and boom ya baby is in the system. Bruh it will drive you to the brink of putting the chick in the dirt.
fiddacts and they know these niccas want a child so the trap lays itself. ive lived that life and its like a punishment from god himself. u love your seed deeper than anything else in life and u willingly become a slave to the kids mom just so u can raise them.
 

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My lady cooks, cleans, wants to be submissive to me...all of the stuff a man can ask for but we are on the verge of possibly breaking up because she's older and I want a child but we both decided it isn't a good idea (her age).

It really sucks to be in this situation because we get a long so great and we are truly best friends. I see whats out here now and it just makes me smh...I'm conflicted:mjcry:

I need a woman's perspective @CarmelBarbie @HarlemHottie
@™BlackPearl The Empress™
How old is she ?
 

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All facts. I use to fukk with a bytch. bytch fina dena mug. bytch couldn't cook for shyt. She would take me out, had a daughter and everything, made a good income, I met her from work in oil and gas. She worked accounting. I got laid off and was still fukking with her. She got laid off right after and worked another white collar job in accounting right after.

Long story short, she had roaches in her crib, her daughter had caps from cavities at 4, this bytch was buying her mickey ds everyday and couldn't cook shyt, not even breakfast. I dead that shyt, straight ghost, no break up. All red flags, filthy place, can't cook, bad eating habits, didn't give head, bad at fukking.

Had for a few years. Head on special occasions, couldn't cook, cleaned after HERSELF and never paid a bill. Thank God for growth. My kids ain't growing up on hungryman frozen dinners.
 

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My most recent ex did not cook we ordered or went out all the time …she’d only cook breakfast the dinners were :mjcry: Frozen food shyt

I had to take a long hard look at my future and be like do i really want this for the rest of my life …so i didn’t want to waste either or our times

Being able to throw down in the kitchen is a non negotiable must have for my next relationship

Food budget for 2, for two meals a day times 30 days gotta be at least 1k....now I know where peoples money be going.
 

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My lady cooks, cleans, wants to be submissive to me...all of the stuff a man can ask for but we are on the verge of possibly breaking up because she's older and I want a child but we both decided it isn't a good idea (her age).

It really sucks to be in this situation because we get a long so great and we are truly best friends. I see whats out here now and it just makes me smh...I'm conflicted:mjcry:

I need a woman's perspective @CarmelBarbie @HarlemHottie
@™BlackPearl The Empress™


You giving up a lot. I want kids one day and if my girl says she doesn't then I really gotta go because seriously what's the point of having someone and have nobody to pass your legacy on to.
 

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I was married to a chick that didn’t cook or clean… My new chick does but she’s a foreign black. Most non ados black men are fukk nikkas but their women make for great wives.
 

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All facts. I use to fukk with a bytch. bytch fina dena mug. bytch couldn't cook for shyt. She would take me out, had a daughter and everything, made a good income, I met her from work in oil and gas. She worked accounting. I got laid off and was still fukking with her. She got laid off right after and worked another white collar job in accounting right after.

Long story short, she had roaches in her crib, her daughter had caps from cavities at 4, this bytch was buying her mickey ds everyday and couldn't cook shyt, not even breakfast. I dead that shyt, straight ghost, no break up. All red flags, filthy place, can't cook, bad eating habits, didn't give head, bad at fukking.


:picard: Good thing you didn't get her pregnant..
 
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