OP..
You can't place someone's self-esteem on someone else!
Self-esteem means just that, esteem of self!
Just imagine if a man was a simp. Dude dates a woman who dogged him out due to his simpin and low self worth. Are you gonna blame a woman for dude getting played?
No, you gonna blame the man for allowing himself to be played and not having self worth.
Same shyt, different toilet!
Women, like men, is responsible for their OWN happiness!
Straight up!