OP asking deceptively obvious questions.
Of course they are lame.

If you need a chick to be poor, have low self-esteem, doing badly, have bad luck, uneducated, or anything negative to establish their “high value”, then yes they are lame.
Dudes these days hate on chicks having even the most basic standards while some only wanna bring awkward cringeworthy personalities, wack peen and stress.
But be the first to bytch about a bytch while cosplaying as a bytch. And if you call em on it…
“Y-you bitter!!!”

“You hate men!”

“Y-you a feminist!”

Nah. Accountability comes in pink AND blue.