Are men truly only as faithful as our options?

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Being faithful and loyal is a choice regardless of gender, some people are just weak and can't control themselves period. I'm not making this just a male issue either since women also struggle with being loyal and keeping control. Society just likes to zoom in on men more and either make excuses for women or just ignore it when women can't be loyal. A lot of people are just weak. There's men that can't avoid temptation from other women and cheat even though they have a rare woman that's loyal. There's women that can't stay loyal and will give up on a dude for whatever stupid reason they can find and then bytch about not being able to find a good man.

Having options is overrated anyway. If a man can find one attractive woman there's a good chance they had multiple options the whole time. People don't just luck out and meet the one person that would give them the time of day. Most men end up with women that aren't much better or worse looking than they are.
 

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Being faithful and loyal is a choice regardless of gender, some people are just weak and can't control themselves period

True.

But also, there are men who couldnt even cheat if they wanted to. Lol

Those are the ones faithful by force with no options. They lucked out on a bytch and now they holding onto her for dear life. Their self control doesnt count.

But I feel you tho. Good post overall.
 

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You could say the same thing about women....

A richer, better looking, more attentive, more attractive and better pleaser comes offering care, coin and commitment...is she staying?

No one is loyal to another person. You are loyal to you and who you want to be/how you want to think about yourself.
 

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Only as faithful as your self control.
I agree with this but at the heart of the initial joke that Chris Rock said, it's easy for men without many options to talk about how faithful they'd be. I have a friend who's damn near 40 and has never had a girl. He talks about how if he was famous he'd never cheat or if he was with say a Halle Berry he'd never cheat on her. I'd tell him of course you'd say that because you'd be so happy to get one woman that you'd do your best not to fukk it up. But if a man has plenty of options he knows he can easily get another one so he won't be as scared of fukking up the relationship by cheating.

At the end of the day it becomes about a person's self control, but it's much easier to have self control if you can't easily find a replacement for the woman you are with.
 

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A richer, better looking, more attentive, more attractive and better pleaser comes offering care, coin and commitment...is she staying?

But who are these rich, attractive, attentive men who are offering care, coin, and committment


Those nikkas are runnin thru bytches or busy grinding :dead:


Now granted.... Those types could easily fukk my bytch :whoa:


But I got rich homies.... They aint really cuffin shyt like that :whoa:


Kinda what he was sayin in the video.... nikkas with options are fukkin... They aint tryna cuff forreal


But you right tho..... I already know women aint loyal :whoa:


I was talkin bout the brehs :whoa:
 

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I have a friend who's damn near 40 and has never had a girl. He talks about how if he was famous he'd never cheat or if he was with say a Halle Berry he'd never cheat on her. I'd tell him of course you'd say that because you'd be so happy to get one woman that you'd do your best not to fukk it up.

Every breh knows a clown who says shyt like this.....:russ:
 

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But who are these rich, attractive, attentive men who are offering care, coin, and committment


Those nikkas are runnin thru bytches or busy grinding :dead:


Now granted.... Those types could easily fukk my bytch :whoa:


But I got rich homies.... They aint really cuffin shyt like that :whoa:


Kinda what he was sayin in the video.... nikkas with options are fukkin... They aint tryna cuff forreal


But you right tho..... I already know women aint loyal :whoa:


I was talkin bout the brehs :whoa:

There you go then, it's not a "men" thing it's a human thing "the grass is greener..." Unless there's something within you keeping you steady.
 

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nikka said...



"Women dont want the dude that worships the ground they walk on.... And they dont want the a$$hole thats fukking all the bytches.

They want the faithful a$$hole that COULD fukk all the bytches but stays loyal. But it doesnt work that way.

Men are only as faithful as their options" for most genuine men, it's more about your best interest then options, we don't need to take a chris rock line and make it our own. the world he lives in is fake. your concerns are real, the biggest struggle we have as men is to stay humble and keeping the ego in check


:russ:



I think men can be faithful with options though, but only after they've spent a number of years getting bored running thru bytches and wanna settle down with some substance.

But for the most part, I dont think a man with options can be faithful unless your chick is on your level or better..... And even THEN..... He might try some new p*ssy if given the opportunity. Like HOV.


What yall think? Yall faithful by choice or by force?

Im faithful cause I been in grind mode for a few years. I dont have the time. I barely have enough time for my girl, let alone multiple.
 
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