Are men who talk about marrying foreign women considered weak?

[Zime]

I don't mean those shorties whose family been in country for generations, I'm talking about the ones who just migrated when they were in they teens

 

[Child_Of_God]

I don’t think it’s weak because dudes have the right to marry who they want but at the same time there’s still a lot of options in this country in terms of dating (there’s over 330 million women in this country with many having different ethnicity background) so at the very least I think it a bit too desperate.

 

[JNew]

My mind is absolutely made up.

You don't sound any less condescending in here.

If marriage is simply a theory then how can you actually tell us nothing is wrong with it? Or are you simply defending it because you aspire towards it?

well the one that everyone says, tax breaks, so that right their is a benefit to any couple who's dating. Do they have to get married, no. and if they already plan to spend years together its can do nothing but benefit them. But according to you their is something wrong with that.

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

Breh whats the difference besides one says draws and the other says knickers?

Honestly none I just want my kids to have 3 passports

 

[MasterOfAllHeSurveyz]

I know homey.

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Want to know what's really fukked up? Marry a sister from the continent and wait for the absolute vitriol heading your way. The hate is even greater than if you married a blond-haired, blue-eyed white woman from Idaho. I didn't believe the stories until I seen it with my own eyes.

I know two dudes married to sisters from the continent in a FB group. There was a crazy bytch who snuck in who acted like she wanted to marry a brother from Africa and wanted our advice/support/help in finding an African spouse. She played it smooth. She was living in Dubai at the time. This crazy bytch hopped on a plane to disrupt the marriages/family alliances of two brehs married to African women. She followed one guy to Ethiopia and the other guy to South Africa.

 

[Shadow King]

well the one that everyone says, tax breaks, so that right their is a benefit to any couple who's dating. Do they have to get married, no. and if they already plan to spend years together its can do nothing but benefit them. But according to you their is something wrong with that.

That one benefit isn't enough.

I never actually said anything is wrong with marriage itself. But because the little pros don't outweigh the cons, that must be what I think, right?

 

[Commish]

The first half of your initial post didn't sound that way but aight.

Sound what way??

The moral of my story was for people to stop judging others and let people do them. My other point is that those who judge can also be judged. The most important point I made was for people to mind their business and focus on their own situation.

 

[UberEatsDriver]

I've heard this notion by dudes a lot, saying "Don't marry American women, but going overseas instead and marry a foreign woman." I mean it's none of my business and if he's happy that's all that matters. I just feel like it's an incel mgtow vibe.

Are American women that bad? How are you meeting so many of these bad American women and why are you putting up with it in the first place?

There’s a whole world out there. How is a man weak for seeking what he wants elsewhere? Lol

 

[Phitz]

there's 150 million plus women inthe US. if you HAVE to go abroad to find someone yes, you're weak. Most dudes who go abroad to find women in poorer, third world countries. they aren't going to the UK or Canada.

so if a man from another country who has been in America for several years prefers someone from his own region of the world, is he weak too?

Logic of the thread seems off to me

 

[Brehvity3135]

there's 150 million plus women inthe US. if you HAVE to go abroad to find someone yes, you're weak. Most dudes who go abroad to find women in poorer, third world countries. they aren't going to the UK or Canada.

I second this. They think these women are weak and submissive when it’s really the first time in that man’s life a woman has actually needed him. They aren’t fully processing the dynamics of how their dating lives have changed because he can actually provide a lifestyle that women cannot achieve on her own.

These men also never go for that countries class equivalent for the exact reasons I mentioned above. It will be hard and most likely they won’t possess the ability to mimic the cultural values of that class level in a new country.

 

[JNew]

That one benefit isn't enough.

I never actually said anything is wrong with marriage itself. But because the little pros don't outweigh the cons, that must be what I think, right?

There's a very strong argument to be made that any unmarried man in 2022 actively seeking to marry any woman from anywhere is weak.

Ok maybe you didnt say anything was wrong about marriage, I just implied it because of this post.

But marriage isnt for everyone, for a couple barley making rent a tax break could be enough or a cheaper mortgage on a house is enough to sway them into getting a marriage, especially if they have a child and want them to go to a good school district. This kid who gets a good education can go to a good college, have a strong chance in competing in society, become very successful furthering society and is able to give back to his parents as they age and may not be able to provide for themselves. Can this all be achieved with out marriage yes but its one reason why people do get married.

Its why you dont go to another poor country and in essence "buy" a women into marriage. Sure it might work. But you basically going backwards cause your marrying a women with no life skills compared to a women from a developed country. So their is nothing wrong wiht it but as a man you should want the best for yourself and children and its kind weak minded otherwise. Now if you think a women place is at home in the kitchen cleaning then yeah i guess going to these poor countries and marrying a women might be your best bet, but thats very old fashion thinking and is not where socity is headed.

Personally hands down the best women are from America, intelligent, strong minded and carrying...the worst women are the good looking foreign women, they tend to be arrogant, dumb and snotty cause some rich dude threw a few dollars her way. So if your going out the country for marriage your doing yourself a disservice.

 

[KidJSoul]

They could be weak all they want. My homeboy got him a mail order bride. That woman cook for him everyday. Rubs his feet after work. fukks him regularly and is going to school. Not to mention she a cutie pie

Dude living a good life weak or not

Marry who you like. You are not required to marry who other people think that you should marry. At the end of the day you are the one that has to be married to them.

True. Not to mention, even if it is weak...

A lot of the people saying that either a) do things that are also weak, or b) are jealous that you were able to get your perfect fantasy spouse

 

[Serious Face]

I'm giving my view based off a discussion I had with my father. He was divorced from his first wife. He lost everything and it really hit him hard. After getting himself back together financially and psychologically, he tried dating again, with no luck. He then met up with a friend in a party who told him to get himself and Filipino wife. My father did just that and married my mom. In our discussion, he told me straight up he prayed to God to be with someone because he was scared of dying alone. So take that however you want. And then at the end of our talk he told me that I should find myself a Filipino wife too because she'll take care of me. Him saying that caught me off guard at first, but these days I am considering going outside the country

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

I wouldn’t marry a woman from another country unless we really clicked or I did so much business there that I was practically assimilated, but if I did she’d have to be from a first world country. *maybe* Brazil.

 

[Rick Fox at UNC]

Some of you guys need to understand that life ain't no simulation. Outside of breaking the big laws (murder, rape, etc.) do what is required to be happy.

Stop worrying about what another man thinks and stop thinking about what another man is doing.