Are People Naturally Superficial?

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this is something i was thinking about:

Are People (male/female) naturally superficial, when it comes to mates/who they choose to befriend. Maybe Im generalizing but it seem that the outside appearance reigns superior overall say the personal mindset of the person


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Yes and no

It's in a females DNA to seek out the best mail suitors (guys with the best genetics) but the media just gives people unrealistic standards for both men and women. Most people don't even realize those people in the magazines and billboards aren't as good looking without the makeup and photoshop
 

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Yes and no

It's in a females DNA to seek out the best mail suitors (guys with the best genetics) but the media just gives people unrealistic standards for both men and women. Most people don't even realize those people in the magazines and billboards aren't as good looking without the makeup and photoshop


smart man, its something i was thinking about in how some women and men both presents themselves based on certain outer aspects

Male: I Got Muscles so that broad better like me
Female: I Got Booty , They cant stop staring.

Seems like the psychology aspect (the mind or simply insight) plays a backburner or secondary role in choosing a mate nowadays
 

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Yes and no

It's in a females DNA to seek out the best mail suitors (guys with the best genetics) but the media just gives people unrealistic standards for both men and women. Most people don't even realize those people in the magazines and billboards aren't as good looking without the makeup and photoshop

Yep that type of element IS pushed in the mainstream heavily.

smart man, its something i was thinking about in how some women and men both presents themselves based on certain outer aspects

Male: I Got Muscles so that broad better like me
Female: I Got Booty , They cant stop staring.

Seems like the psychology aspect (the mind or simply insight) plays a backburner or secondary role in choosing a mate nowadays


I hate a superficial female who thinks its all about her looks. There needs to be some goddamn substance behind that booty and those t*ts. Also woman needs to know that she is in layers. So if that is all you can bring to the table, i feel so sorry for you.
 

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Yep that type of element IS pushed in the mainstream heavily.




I hate a superficial female who thinks its all about her looks. There needs to be some goddamn substance behind that booty and those t*ts. Also woman needs to know that she is in layers. So if that is all you can bring to the table, i feel so sorry for you.


How can a woman gain respect if she is only showing one side of herself?
 

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It exists as an emotional output of sorts so yes it is natural. The reasons behind being superficial are endless however, therefore it's not worth it to debate the necessity of superficiality, only realize when people and yourself are engaged in it.
 

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It exists as an emotional output of sorts so yes it is natural. The reasons behind being superficial are endless however, therefore it's not worth it to debate the necessity of superficiality, only realize when people and yourself are engaged in it.

i think it does but it doesnt. if a person is merely basing this on looks,(the physcial body) i think it not necessarily natural but an elementary which is taught, Over a matter of time. Over that time that element becomes what we view as natural.
 

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i think it does but it doesnt. if a person is merely basing this on looks,(the physcial body) i think it not necessarily natural but an elementary which is taught, Over a matter of time. Over that time that element becomes what we view as natural.
Being superficial extends beyond physical looks though. The concept of superficiality has to do with taking something at face value rather than examining something further. Looking at the obvious and the apparent facts and information rather than looking further. It doesn't just apply to how someone feels like they look. It's an adjective so it can be applied anywhere. I can make a superficial observation about a book or story's meaning. That's why I said being superficial is natural. But being too superficial or overly superficial about any subject, especially physical features, is unhealthy. Especially when the areas you're focusing on have little to do with how you will fair internally and have more to do with how others might look at you. Making too many superficial improvements on yourself will only attract more superficial attention.
 

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Being superficial extends beyond physical looks though. The concept of superficiality has to do with taking something at face value rather than examining something further. Looking at the obvious and the apparent facts and information rather than looking further. It doesn't just apply to how someone feels like they look. It's an adjective so it can be applied anywhere. I can make a superficial observation about a book or story's meaning. That's why I said being superficial is natural. But being too superficial or overly superficial about any subject, especially physical features, is unhealthy. Especially when the areas you're focusing on have little to do with how you will fair internally and have more to do with how others might look at you. Making too many superficial improvements on yourself will only attract more superficial attention.

But it exists in the physical, whether it be a book etc.
 
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this is something i was thinking about:

Are People (male/female) naturally superficial, when it comes to mates/who they choose to befriend. Maybe Im generalizing but it seem that the outside appearance reigns superior overall say the personal mindset of the person


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yes. its evolution. we can't control it. women evolved to look for the best provider to marry but wanna fukk the dude with the best genes. which is why trifling hoes are always sticking another mans kids on these simps that love em. and men evolved to wanna impregnate every woman they see. which is why no matter how fine a wife a nikka has, he'll cheat on her with any random broad he meets.
 

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yes. its evolution. we can't control it. women evolved to look for the best provider to marry but wanna fukk the dude with the best genes. which is why trifling hoes are always sticking another mans kids on these simps that love em. and men evolved to wanna impregnate every woman they see. which is why no matter how fine a wife a nikka has, he'll cheat on her with any random broad he meets.


I feel like this is a generalization they are some real dudes out there, that are content with what they have at home that dont cheated.
 
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